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| Why Keep Kids In Church Service? by Wendy Wiebe "And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me." (Matthew 18:5) As a mother of three young children I have often sat through church thinking, "It would have been best if we'd stayed home. I'm not getting anything out of it, neither are the kids, and we're disturbing everyone around us!" Crayons clatter to the floor; it's in and out with a squirmy, whiny toddler and another little one who has to go so bad." Not to mention being poked in the eyes whenever you close them, pulled at, and puked on! You may start to wonder if your child can really gain anything by being in church. Don't worry. Although it looks as though your child isn't listening, he's absorbing valuable lessons as he 'sits' through church. Children need to learn there are times and places where they must sit quietly. Church gives parents an opportunity to teach behaviour that will be essential when he goes to school. During church other things begin to happen. Much of the learning we do occurs without much effort on our parts. I have learned the words to a song simply by hearing it played over and over. It is amazing how much children pick up when you think they're not listening! (So be careful what you say Mom and Dad!) Words, songs, and worship are still going to their ears, their brains, and their hearts. My girls sing songs at home that I did not consciously teach them. They simply absorbed them as they heard them at church. When children hear their family rules and values repeated at church, it adds weight to their parent's words. Finally, worshipping with their parents allows children to begin to exercise their spriitual muscles. They form a habit of participatition even if they don't fully engage in the service. I expect Brianna to clean up her toys and make up her bed even though I realize it won't be done perfectly. I know her housekeeping skills will improve with practice over time - as will her ability to participate in worship. And she is... A year ago, she would 'play worship', raising her hands to be cute. Today she's up at the altar, crying genuine tears, and seeking for the Holy Ghost! She wants to be baptized, althougth she's only 5! Even little Bethany at 2 years cries at the altar, because she "want my Je-e-e-e-sus!" It is precious to watch. I doubt this would be happening if they had the option of playing in the nursery every service! Children need to develop their own relationship with God. Parents can help guide thier children's spiritual growth by setting aside special times at home for Bible stories and worship each day, as well as at church. (I want to encoarage parents not to give up. Bring your little ones to church.) I am looking forward to the day when my children speak out in the heavenly language. It will be worth it all! |
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