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Happiness is not
found outside of you. It doesn't come from cars, clothes, cash,
or Caribbean cruises. Happiness is found
within. But how can you find it if you don't have the simplicity
of time and space to discover the most important things in your
life? How can you search
the depths of your soul if you are too busy impressing others,
acquiring wealth, protecting your properties, and paying your
debts? Simplicity is not
about the external either: living in a doghouse, eating in
Hepatitis joints, wearing rags. Let me define what it
is: Simplicity is living from the core of your being.
A TREASURE MAP OF
HAPPINESS
Let me share
with you the seven powerful lessons I've learned on simple
living:
LIVE ON LESS, AND DELIGHT IN THEM MORE
I've chosen the simple path: If I
can simply be with my wife, or take a quiet stroll
under a canopy of stars, or play with a child, or read a
good book in my home, or laugh with friends over a pizza, I consider myself
richly blessed.
Focus on
what you have and not on what you don't have.
STOP RUNNING AND WALK INSTEAD Get
off your hurried pace and learn to breathe. Replace doing
with being. Learn to say no to invitations, appointments,
and commitments, activities and events that will rob
you of your focus. Learn to say "yes "to rest, to
tranquility, to quietness. YOU ARE MORE THAN
YOUR WEALTH I believe that if in my soul I
deeply respect and value myself, people around me will
sense that, and they too, will value and respect me-whether I'm wearing Armani or not. You are more than your
wealth. AVOID BUYING ON CREDIT Sometimes, at midpoint, I realize I don't really
need the darn thing and give up the whole idea. The
only exception I feel we should enter into a credit is
when buying a non-depreciating item, such as housing or
land. I believe we should always live within our
earning capacity. Proverbs 22:7 says, "Those
who borrow are slaves of moneylenders." GIVE
AS MUCH AS YOU CAN You will find
that the empty thrill of owning a diamond ring on your
finger pales in comparison to the joy of handling a piece of bread to an orphan
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