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Mar 8, 05
Waiting
for God
Background:
In my Mar 3, 05 diary- ��Waiting for God��s providence��, we see
that a lack of faith is a sin and it yields evil consequences. The fact that God has repeatedly promised
us with daily amazing, beyond-our-expectations providences is known to virtually
every Christian. But hard time do
are hard times. What can we
actually do during utter distress?
This is a v. practical, legitimate concern. We do need a great comfort and an
able-to-be-perceived reward in suffering.
I will use Acts 17:16-36 to elaborate the joy in
suffering. God bless
J
What should/can we do in our suffering? Let��s look at a godly Christian example-
Paul and Silas.
Paul and Silas in Prison
16Once when we were going to the place of prayer, we were met by a slave
girl who had a spirit by which she predicted the future. She earned a great deal
of money for her owners by fortunetelling. 17This girl followed Paul and the
rest of us, shouting, ��These men are servants of the Most High God, who are
telling you the way to be saved.�� 18She kept this up for many days. Finally Paul
became so troubled that he turned around and said to the spirit, ��In the name of
Jesus Christ I command you to come out of her!�� At that moment the spirit left
her.
19When the owners of the slave girl realized that their hope of making
money was gone, they seized Paul and Silas and dragged them into the marketplace
to face the authorities. 20They brought them before the magistrates and said,
��These men are Jews, and are throwing our city into an uproar 21by advocating
customs unlawful for us Romans to accept or practice.��
22The crowd joined in the attack against
Paul and Silas, and the magistrates ordered them to be stripped and beaten. 23After
they had been severely
flogged, they were thrown
into prison, and the jailer was commanded to guard them carefully.
24Upon receiving such orders, he put them in the inner cell and fastened
their feet in the stocks.
25About
29The
jailer called for lights, rushed in and fell trembling before Paul and Silas.
30He then brought them out and asked, ��Sirs, what must I do to be saved?��
31They replied, ��Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved�Vyou and
your household.�� 32Then they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all the
others in his house. 33At that hour of the night the jailer took them and washed
their wounds; then immediately he and all his family were baptized. 34The jailer
brought them into his house and set a meal before them; he was filled with joy
because he had come to believe in God�Vhe and his whole family.
35When it was daylight, the magistrates sent their officers to the jailer
with the order: ��Release those men.�� 36The jailer told Paul, ��The magistrates
have ordered that you and Silas be released. Now you can leave. Go in peace.��
So, Paul and
Silas were doing missionary. They were beaten by people, thrown into
a nasty prison (prison back then was way worse/gross than modern one), and then
God intervened and a miracle occurred.
Our common response might be, ��They are godly and highly favoured by God
and received miracles, how privileged!��
How does it related to our waiting for God?
First, it��s v. reasonable to believe that Paul and Silas were praying real hard in their
heart ��God, save me!�� when they were being beaten by the crowd (v.
22). Imagine it��s a
crowd, not just a few people. It
could easily mean death. Then, what
happened to their prayer? Nothing
happened! In our hard time, the
exact same situation happens- God does
not intervene right away.
It happens to us, when prayers do not get answered
immediately, we start to doubt, ��I��m in huge distress and where are you
God?�� We, then, started to lose
morale and strength. But, what did
Paul and Silas do in prison? Instead of complaining to God or being
silent because of anger, they prayed and sang hymns! How��d they do that? Because they firmly believed ��O God,
seriously I don��t understand what you are doing behind the scene, but I��m sure
you are doing great wonders. I
seriously can��t understand at all, but I��ll trust in you.��
Finally, God��s providence arrived and his promise (of
protecting us- his anointed ones) was fulfilled at the appropriate time- a miracle- an earthquake cracked the prison. What a great help for Paul and Silas�� missionary work? There were immediately new
converts. Wonderful!
In our distress, we tend to be v. short-sighted and v.
narrow-minded and only focus on things that are seen in our immediate
environment. We easily convince
ourselves ��the situation is helpless�� by our own judgment and forget about God,
the omniscient, mighty commander up in heaven.
��For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your
ways my ways,��
declares the Lord
��As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways
higher than your ways.��
Isaiah 55:8-9
In everyday life, we encounter the exact same situation
of Paul and Silas- prayers are not answered and suffering goes on brutally, and yet a
different attitude can bring about entirely different results- miracle and
rewards, and suffering without meaning.
The winning attitude is to
believe even when we seriously don��t understand at all, plus to remain upright and holy even when we
are in bad shape/mood.
Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of
what we do not see. Hebrews
11:1
Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have
believed. John
20:29b
Let us not become weary in doing good,
for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do
not give up. Galatians
6:9
O God, strengthen our faith!
Mar 6, 05 Sunday
The Problem of Evil
Background:
The problem of evil has always been a famous, popular
argument used by people to defend their atheism. But, I interpret it in quite a new way-
I would argue one should believe in God exactly because there exists this
puzzling problem of evil. This
time, instead of writing a paper, I have posted my msn conversation regarding
the problem of evil with my best friend Jane. God bless J
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
I
think I will read the problem of evil later^^
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
actually,
I am thinking, the problem of evil should lead people to believe in God instead
of disproving his existence
Jane - >.< says:
how
so??
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
coz
facing the problem of evil, if there is no God to support justify our living, we
will have so much guilt and suicide
Jane - >.< says:
if
god is all powerful, super kind, he would kill evil. But evil
exists
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
e.g.
if there's no God, I am not justified by living in a comfortable Canada,
compared to people starving in Africa
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
in
order to uphold my integrity, I need to suicide to prevent
unfairness
Jane - >.< says:
um,
but I guess a lof of people could take what they have for
grated
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
that's
immoral then
Jane - >.< says:
they
justify their comfortable living maybe by donating some money to those people in
poor country
Jane - >.< says:
then
they think they did they part and that's it
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
yea,
but they can't escape the guilt in their heart
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
so
the best solution is to have faith in God that God is acting justly with wisdom
that we can't comprehend
Jane - >.< says:
right
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
if
a person believes in the problem of evil and dispprove God, he have so much
guilt coz he's living a comfy life.
he has a couple options: 1. as there is nothing he can do, do as happy as
he can. However, his mind will
always remind him that he's living happily while many people are suffering, his
guilt will pursue him for all his life 2. give all he has to the poor. However, he can never do
e
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
he
can never do enough and finally realize it's human who is himself evil (e.g.
wars).
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
3.
to preserve his integrity and guilt, he takes suicide so that his suffering is
the same as those suffering, therefore suffer together- to be fair and
blameless
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
anyway,
a godless life is miserable and unjustifiable
Jane - >.< says:
I
have never thought of it from this perspective ...
Jane - >.< says:
that;s
indeed very true and interesting
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
people
may suppress it by permissive living, but once they take a rest, their guilt
will attack them
Jane - >.< says:
right
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
they
can never escape from this pain
Jane - >.< says:
true
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
so
the problem of evil should bring people to God, rather than away. I suspect, those "wise" philosophers
might be rationalizing
Jane - >.< says:
haha,
they must be
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
God
must have put a "standard" in everyone's heart, so they know what's moral and
what's immoral
Jane - >.< says:
maybe
they are so busy philophzing in their mind and comfort of the home that they have never go out and seen the
poor
Jane - >.< says:
right
Jane - >.< says:
that's
a new perspective from looking at the tporblem of evil !
Jane - >.< says:
But
i guess it could apply to the people who are suffering too
Jane - >.< says:
that
god will intervene and help them
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
philosophy
is complicated, but what I think is easy and simply, I know
why
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
because I'm a
moralist
Jane - >.< says:
hahaha
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
I
always promote a good morality
Jane - >.< says:
Awesome!!
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
no
Jane - >.< says:
wow,
that's goood
Jane - >.< says:
haha,
is that bad?
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
I
mean, my line of thinking is a moralist line of thinking, so I assume good
morality is good
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
so
I solve a lot of unnecessary philosophical arguments when I present my
argument
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
yeah^^
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
so,
I don't need to argue a lot, but simply present my case of
morality
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
like,
many philosophers argue, but they do not have a stance (e.g. for me- morality is
good), so they are like arguing in the mid-air
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
v.
hard to argue
Jane - >.< says:
that's
good ^^
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
^^ a good moral philosopher w/ a good
conception of morality is vain in arguing
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
like
they argue about the problem of evil, but they personally have no conviction to
good morality (e.g. how to do good, how to help the poor)
Jane - >.< says:
they
argue for the sake of arguing
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
yeah^^ so their argument is always
off-track
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
that's
why, Christian philosophers many times argue v. simply e.g. C.S. Lewis, because
he used argue to support God- good morality, everyone will accept his argument
Jane - >.< says:
Right
Jane - >.< says:
that's
true ^^ they have a clear directing and never contradict themselves n much more
convicing
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
that's good, in this way, we solve the
problem of evil
Jane - >.< says:
THx
GOD
Jane - >.< says:
He's
the master of everything
joseph-
Genesis 2:18 -http://ca.geocities.com/joooooooe1983 says:
thnx
GOD
Jane - >.< says:
Mar 1, 05
The Limit of Tolerance in a Multicultural
Society
Background:
This paper aims to rethink the basic function of a
government- a social control agent instead of a morality agent. I urge to clarify this concept and urge
people to focus on what is essential- to protect their freedom of speech which
is the basic foundation of morality discussion and, thus, the well-being of
citizens.
Introduction:
Canada, being a multicultural society, is composed of a
huge diversity of ethnic groups- Irish, Greek, Italian, Polish, Mexican, Cuban,
Puerto Rican, Korean, Vietnamese, Chinese, Japanese, Indian, African, Native,
etc, and religious groups- Jews, Catholics, Protestants, Muslims, Amish,
Mormons, etc. Diversity can mean a
rich variety of cuisines, fashions of clothing, arts, music, traditions,
cultural wisdoms, etc, but also a conflict of beliefs, values and the ways of
living. Recently in our society,
there are outcries in favour of the legalization of same-sex marriage alongside
with outcries of opposition to same-sex marriage. Both parties are earnestly pleading the
authority to set up laws favouring their respective position and viewpoint. In view of this, how can the authority
define a solution- a limit of tolerance so that, in spite of a wide diversity in
families, all different ethnic groups and religious groups can enjoy the
diversity, or at least, live in harmony?
In this case, is it possible to have a win-win
situation for both parties?
In this paper, I would argue-yes.
I would argue that a win-win situation is an almost complete tolerant
society except in situations where physical harm
and infringement of the basic individual
freedoms and rights defined by the United Nations are involved, plus the
limit is the same in all situations. First, I will define the purpose and
meaning of a limit of tolerance. Next, I will explain my argument- how
to draw a line of the limit. Finally, I will apply my method to the
recent same-sex marriage controversy.
What is a Limit of
Tolerance?
Tolerance means the capacity to accept and not persecute
those who may believe, behave or act in ways of which one may not approve or
like. The limit of tolerance is the
bottom line one can deviate from the norm- a socially
agreed-upon conception of ��right and wrong��, without being persecuted,
unless physical harm and infringement of basic individual freedom and rights
are involved. Let us here
clarify a few concepts about tolerance and the limit of
tolerance.
Relativism:
Before going further, we should ask an interesting, and
immensely important question ��What is an absolute standard of right and wrong
and is there one?�� A significant
amount of people will say ��No��. In
our contemporary society, a considerable number of people believe in relativism,
which argues that all truth is relative and there is no absolute truth. For example, a relativist person will
argue there is no right or wrong about same-sex marriage and that everyone is
right in living their own desired way of life. However, if that is the case, a limit of
tolerance would be meaningless and useless because we are all right and no one
is to be condemned for doing wrong.
In fact, relativism has long been disproved by the academic philosophy
circle as illogical. (Rachels, 1978)
It does exist an objective reality and a standard of right and wrong in
morality. Only some personal
trivial preferences, which have no moral values- no right or wrong, can be
relative in nature, for example I like to eat lamp chop while you like to eat
pork chop. When you go to the
doctor and he tells you that you have cancer, it does not make any sense to
reply, ��There is no right or wrong and if I believe I am okay, I will be
okay.�� Almost everyone can grasp a
basic conception of the standard of ��right and wrong��, for example, murder,
lying, adultery, etc. are wrong, though some people understand morality better
than the others. This is essential
because it means the population are capable to do basic morality, setting the
prerequisite for the discussion of the limit of
tolerance.
Tolerance as a Moral
Guide:
The purpose of
tolerance serves, not as a guide or example on how citizens should live, but as
a bottom line safeguard in the worst situation. Many people hold a misconception about
tolerance- they misinterpret a tolerance of a certain behaviour as an approval
of that behaviour as right. For
example, they think, the fact that the government legalizes same-sex marriage
means the government is supporting same-sex marriage ideology and oppressing
traditional marriage ideology. This
is not true. Something tolerated in
the society does not mean it is right or the government is approving it as
right. Tolerance should never be
viewed as a moral indicator of right and wrong, because it never intends to
serve such a purpose. That is why
in many cases tolerance does not seem to support our conception of right and
wrong or even contradicts it.
Society is to tolerate both right and wrong, good and bad behaviours as
long as no physical harm and infringement of basic individual freedom and rights
are involved. The purpose of
the limit of tolerance serves as a bottom line safeguard, so that, even in the
worst situation, the minority group can be guaranteed a basic living standard,
without harm from the majority. It
can be easier to be understood if you put yourself into the minority��s
shoes. For example, imagine you are
a Christian in the States, where the majority of citizens are Christians and
most citizens engage in traditional marriage. Suddenly the society changes abruptly
and Christians become the minority and same-sex marriage becomes normative. Now, you are pleading to the authority
to legalize traditional marriage.
Tolerance in this case reserves a basic right for you- the right to
marriage.
Different Areas of
Tolerance:
Some theorists argue that the area of tolerance in the
society differs on different issues, where a high conformity to a certain social
norm results in a smaller area of tolerance and a lower limit of tolerance
(Graph 2), while a low conformity results in a bigger area of tolerance and a
higher limit of tolerance (Graph 1).
This is an inaccurate conception of tolerance. It is true that in the case of a high
conformity to a certain social behaviour, our ��emotional�� tolerance to those who
deviate is relatively lower than in the case of a low conformity. However, our ��emotional�� feelings
(tolerance) have (or should have) no relationship with how the government should
draw the limit of tolerance. Or
else, protection to the minority will be shaky and uncertain and dependent on
the number of people in favour of them.
Remember what we just went through above, the limit of tolerance serves
as a bottom line safeguard, so that, even in the
worst situation, the minority group is protected. The society is to tolerate any behaviour
even when we are emotionally opposed to it, as long as no physical harm and infringement of basic individual freedom and rights
are involved. Therefore,
Graph 2 should become Graph 3, which means the limit of tolerance in government
policies should always remain the same in all situations in order to be fair and
safe, unless all citizens agree to narrow it down.
Why an Almost
Complete Tolerant Society?
I
argue for it because it is the only way to do it properly, or else the limit of
tolerance should not exist and multiculturalism will be impossible. Based on the above, let us analyze the
usefulness of the limit of tolerance in the
society.
Utility of a Limit of
Tolerance:
The usefulness and the meaningfulness of a limit of
tolerance have been hugely and falsely exaggerated. In fact, it has (or should have) almost
no effect on the well-being of citizens, for example the morality level,
character development, etc.
Why? For example, when you
are kayaking, a PFD (personal flotation device) has no contribution to your
enjoyment. It is only useful for
safety in emergency. It is exactly
the same for the limit- useful only as a bottom line safeguard in emergency and
nothing more. Drawing a line of the
limit is, actually, surprisingly simple and straightforward- based on the values
all citizens agree upon, as those in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights,
for example, freedom of speech, freedom to marriage,
freedom from harm, etc. What
makes it unnecessarily complicated and confusing is the people��s
misinterpretation of its basic concepts and purpose, which is further perplexed
when people falsely place too much hope and importance on it. It is a faulty line of logic- thinking
tolerance is linked to morality.
What tolerance concerns is basic human rights protection, not
morality. Therefore, legalization
never means a victory for one group and a loss for the opposing group. It is a win-win
situation because both groups have equal opportunity to practise their
beliefs. Morality would not be
undermined as long as there exists the freedom of discussion so that both groups
can continue to promote their beliefs and values and convince people of what is
right and what is wrong. Now that
we understand the nature of tolerance and how to draw an appropriate line of the
limit, let us analyze how this limit can exert its designated effect. I will use the recent same-sex marriage
case for illustration.
Same-sex Marriage
Example:
In this case, the government should legalize same-sex
marriage if the homosexual citizens demand for it, unless all citizens agree to
ban it. We should bear in mind that
it is legalized not because they are the minority or they are right, but because
it is the government��s role to tolerate all behaviour, whether is it moral or
immoral, as long as the basic human rights and freedoms of all citizens are
unaffected. Now, a significant
amount of people worry that the legalization might undermine morality. We have already seen that legalization
(or tolerance) is unrelated to morality.
The worry of a decline in morality does is a legitimate concern. What we need to focus on is to promote
moral education. Here, the
government should never promote the traditional marriage ideology or the
same-sex marriage ideology. The
government��s duty is to make sure that all citizens have the freedom to access
every type of ideological cultivation and moral education and ideas. The freedom of
discussion must be upheld at all times for the sake of the well-being of
all citizens. Indeed, the truth-
what is right and what is wrong, is more clearly revealed through an open, free
discussion of different values and beliefs. In this way, every citizen has the
freedom and knowledge to choose his desired ��right�� way of life. In fact, the freedom of discussion is
exactly an element of tolerance in a society. It is impossible to have a tolerant
society without the freedom of discussion (or vice-versa). The fact that the States has banned
praying at school is an example of intolerance.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, we can see that the reason why the recent hot debate on same-sex marriage is falsely misrepresented as a debate on how to draw a line of the limit of tolerance is the misinterpretation of the basic concepts of tolerance and the government��s role in a multicultural society. After all, it is highly appreciated that we citizens have such a strong obligation to stand up for what we think to be right and true. Contrary to many people��s thoughts and despair, the sense of morality has not disappeared from our society. The recent debate has just revealed how highly valued and active morality is in our society. Now, what is of utmost importance and priority is to confirm and protect the freedom of discussion. What is threatening morality would have to be the breakdown of the freedom of discussion- an ever-present tendency to silence the voice of opposing values.
References
Rachels, James.
(1978). Elements of Moral Philosophy.
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Righteousness Through Faith
21But now a righteousness from
God, apart from law, has been made known, to which the Law and the Prophets
testify. 22This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to
all who believe. There is no difference, 23for all have sinned and fall short of
the glory of God, 24and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption
that came by Christ Jesus. 25God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement,[i]
through faith in his blood. He did this to demonstrate his justice, because in
his forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished�V 26he did
it to demonstrate his justice at the present time, so as to be just and the one
who justifies those who have faith in Jesus.
27Where, then, is boasting? It is
excluded. On what principle? On that of observing the law? No, but on that of
faith. 28For we maintain that a man is justified by faith apart from observing
the law. 29Is God the God of Jews only? Is he not the God of Gentiles too? Yes,
of Gentiles too, 30since there is only one God, who will justify the circumcised
by faith and the uncircumcised through that same faith. 31Do we, then, nullify
the law by this faith? Not at all! Rather, we uphold the law.
Abraham Justified by Faith
1What
then shall we say that Abraham, our forefather, discovered in this matter? 2If,
in fact, Abraham was justified by works, he had something to boast about�Vbut not
before God. 3What does the Scripture say? ��Abraham believed God, and it was
credited to him as righteousness.��[a]
4Now
when a man works, his wages are not credited to him as a gift, but as an
obligation. 5However, to the man who does not work but trusts God who justifies
the wicked, his faith is credited as righteousness. 6David says the same thing
when he speaks of the blessedness of the man to whom God credits righteousness
apart from works: 7"Blessed are they
whose
transgressions are forgiven,
whose sins are
covered. 8Blessed is the man
whose sin the
Lord will never count against him.��[b]
9Is
this blessedness only for the circumcised, or also for the uncircumcised? We
have been saying that Abraham's faith was credited to him as righteousness.
10Under what circumstances was it credited? Was it after he was circumcised, or
before? It was not after, but before! 11And he received the sign of
circumcision, a seal of the righteousness that he had by faith while he was
still uncircumcised. So then, he is the father of all who believe but have not
been circumcised, in order that righteousness might be credited to them. 12And
he is also the father of the circumcised who not only are circumcised but who
also walk in the footsteps of the faith that our father Abraham had before he
was circumcised.
13It
was not through law that Abraham and his offspring received the promise that he
would be heir of the world, but through the righteousness that comes by faith.
14For if those who live by law are heirs, faith has no value and the promise is
worthless, 15because law brings wrath. And where there is no law there is no
transgression.
16Therefore, the promise comes by faith, so that it may be by grace and
may be guaranteed to all Abraham's offspring�Vnot only to those who are of the
law but also to those who are of the faith of Abraham. He is the father of us
all. 17As it is written: ��I have made you a father of many nations.��[c] He is our
father in the sight of God, in whom he believed�Vthe God who gives life to the
dead and calls things that are not as though they were.
18Against all hope, Abraham in hope believed and so became the father of
many nations, just as it had been said to him, ��So shall your offspring be.��[d]
19Without weakening in his faith, he faced the fact that his body was as good as
dead�Vsince he was about a hundred years old�Vand that Sarah's womb was also dead.
20Yet he did not waver through unbelief regarding the promise of God, but was
strengthened in his faith and gave glory to God, 21being fully persuaded that
God had power to do what he had promised. 22This is why ��it was credited to him
as righteousness.�� 23The words ��it was credited to him�� were written not for him
alone, 24but also for us, to whom God will credit righteousness�Vfor us who
believe in him who raised Jesus our Lord from the dead. 25He was delivered over
to death for our sins and was raised to life for our justification.
Footnotes:
Romans
Romans 4:3 Gen. 15:6; also in verse 22
Romans 4:8 Psalm 32:1,2
Romans
Romans
Intro:
Debts are heavy burdens. Students graduate from college with
debts higher than the cost of their parents�� homes. Homes put their owners in debt for
most of their working lives.
Nations owe each other enough money to end poverty on both sides of their
borders. But even debts this
staggering can be paid off with hard work and cold cash. Resolving our debt to God is harder-
maybe even impossible. Paul has
spent three and a half chapters proving that we are all morally ruined, that we
have no hope, regardless of our efforts, of earning God��s
favour.
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Q: Bring to mind the largest
financial debt you have ever had.
Suppose you got a note from your creditor saying, ��Someone else has paid
your bill in full. You now owe
nothing at all.�� What would you say
and do?
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Read Romans
3:21-31. All human beings, of
every race and rank, of every creed and culture, Jews and Gentiles, the immoral
and the moralizing, the religious and the irreligious, are without any exception
sinful, guilty, inexcusable and speechless before God. That was the terrible human predicament
described in Romans 1:19-3:20. There was no ray of light, no flicker of
hope, no prospect of rescue.
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Summary:
Fundamental to the Gospel of salvation is the truth that
the saving initiative from beginning to end belongs to God the Father. No formulation of the Gospel is biblical
that removes the initiative from God and attributes it either to us or even to
Christ. It is certain that we did
not take the initiative, for we were sinful, guilty and condemned, helpless and
hopeless. The first move was God
the Father��s, and our justification is ��freely by his grace,�� his absolutely
free and utterly underserved favour.
Grace is God loving, God stooping, God coming to the rescue, God giving
himself generously in and through Jesus Christ.
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Summary:
Jewish people were extremely conscious of their special
covenant relationship with God, in which Gentiles did not share. It was to the Jews that God had
entrusted his special revelation (3:2). Theirs too, as Paul will soon write, are
��the adoption as sons�K the divine glory, the covenants, the receiving of the
law, the temple worship and the promises,�� not to mention ��the patriarchs�� and
��the human ancestry of Christ�� (9:4). What the Jews forgot, however, was that
their privileges were not intended for the exclusion of the Gentiles, but for
their ultimate inclusion when through Abraham��s posterity ��all peoples on earth��
would be blessed.
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Summary:
Woody Allen epitomizes for many an inability to cope with
the prospect of death. ��It��s not
that I��m afraid to die,�� he quips; ��I just don��t want to be there when it
happens�� (Graham McCann, Woody Allen,
New Yorker [Polity Press, 1990], pp.43, 83). But nothingness and death are no problem
to God. On the contrary, it is out
of nothing that he created the universe, and out of death that he raised
Jesus. The creation and the
resurrection were and remain the 2 major manifestation of the power of
God.
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Create a prayer based on the sentence you chose. Write or speak it as your personal offering to God.
Romans
Romans
Bible Study #5
Unholy
Togetherness
Read Romans 3:9-20
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Romans 3
God's Righteous Judgment
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No
One is Righteous
9What shall we conclude then? Are we any better[b]? Not at all! We have
already made the charge that Jews and Gentiles alike are all under sin. 10As it
is written: ��There is no one righteous, not even one;
11there is no
one who understands,
no one who seeks
God. 12All have turned away,
they have
together become worthless; there is no one who does good,
not even
one.��[c] 13��Their throats are open graves;
their tongues
practice deceit.��[d] ��The poison of vipers is on their lips.��[e]
14��Their mouths
are full of cursing and bitterness.��[f] 15��Their feet are swift to shed blood;
16ruin and
misery mark their ways, 17and the way of peace they do not know.��[g]
18��There is no
fear of God before their eyes.��[h]
19Now we know that whatever the law says, it says to those who are under
the law, so that every mouth may be silenced and the whole world held
accountable to God. 20Therefore no one will be declared righteous in his sight
by observing the law; rather, through the law we become conscious of sin.
Intro:
We like to choose
the company we keep- and usually those choices are based on similarities. We go to church with people who share
the same brand of Christian faith.
We network with people of similar vocations. We join support groups of people who
share a similar pain. We have
coffee with people who live in he same neighbourhood. We invite friendship with people who
share a whole list of intangibles similar to our own. In doing so, we must admit that we are
closing out people who are less like us in important ways. In the opening chapters of Romans Paul brings us up short about
any haughty exclusively in the company that we keep. He speaks of a togetherness that
included everyone- but it is an unholy togetherness
Open
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Q: What kind of ��togetherness��
have you chosen?
Why?
Study
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Read Romans 3:9-18. The apostle is approaching the end of
his lengthy argument and asks himself how to wrap it all up, how to rest his
case: ��What shall we conclude then?�� (v.9). He has exposed in succession the
blatant unrighteousness of much of the ancient Gentile world
(
Q:
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Summary:
One feature of this grim
biblical picture stands out. It
declares the ungodliness of sin.
Sin is the revolt of the self against God, the dethronement of God with a
view to the enthronement of oneself.
Ultimately sin is self-deification, the reckless determination to occupy
the throne which belongs to God alone.
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(I (the author) think Luther
got it right when he said: The principal point�K of the law�K is to make men not
better but worse; that is to say, it sheweth unto them their sin, that but the
knowledge thereof they may be humbled, terrified, bruised and broken, and by
this means be driven to seek grace, and so come to that blessed Seed [sc.
Christ]. (Commentary on St. Paul��s
Epistle to the Galatians [1531; James Clarke, 1953],
p.316.)
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Summary:
In conclusion, how should we
respond to Paul��s devastating exposure of universal sin and guilt? We should not try to evade it by
changing the subject and talking instead of the need for self-esteem, or by
blaming our behaviour on our genes, nurturing, education or society. It is an essential part of our dignity
as human beings that however much we may have been affected by negative
influences, we are not their helpless victims, but rather responsible for our
conduct. Our first response to
Paul��s indictment, then, should be to make it as certain as we possibly can that
we have ourselves accepted this divine diagnosis of our human condition as true,
and that we have fled from the just judgment of God on our sins to the only
refuge there is, namely Jesus Christ, who dies for our sins. For we have no merit to plead and no
excuse to make. We too stand before
God speechless and condemned. Only
then shall we be ready to hear the great ��But now�� or v. 21, as Paul begins to
explain how God has intervened through Christ and his cross for our
salvation.
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Q:
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Pray
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Prayerfully reread vv. 10-18, acknowledging in the presence of God that this is a true description of yourself apart from the redeeming grace of Jesus Christ. Thank him for that grace.
Romans
Romans Bible Study #4
Misplaced Confidence
Read Romans 2:1-16
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Romans
2
God's Righteous Judgment
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Romans
2
God's Righteous Judgment
1You, therefore, have no
excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge
the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the
same things. 2Now we know that God's judgment against those who do such things
is based on truth. 3So when you, a mere man, pass judgment on them and yet do
the same things, do you think you will escape God's judgment? 4Or do you show
contempt for the riches of his kindness, tolerance and patience, not realizing
that God's kindness leads you toward repentance?
5But
because of your stubbornness and your unrepentant heart, you are storing up
wrath against yourself for the day of God's wrath, when his righteous judgment
will be revealed. 6God ��will give to each person according to what he has
done.��[a] 7To those who by persistence in doing good seek glory, honor and
immortality, he will give eternal life. 8But for those who are self-seeking and
who reject the truth and follow evil, there will be wrath and anger. 9There will
be trouble and distress for every human being who does evil: first for the Jew,
then for the Gentile; 10but glory, honor and peace for everyone who does good:
first for the Jew, then for the Gentile. 11For God does not show favoritism.
12All who sin apart from the law
will also perish apart from the law, and all who sin under the law will be
judged by the law. 13For it is not those who hear the law who are righteous in
God's sight, but it is those who obey the law who will be declared righteous.
14(Indeed, when Gentiles, who do not have the law, do by nature things required
by the law, they are a law for themselves, even though they do not have the law,
15since they show that the requirements of the law are written on their hearts,
their consciences also bearing witness, and their thoughts now accusing, now
even defending them.) 16This will take place on the day when God will judge
men's secrets through Jesus Christ, as my gospel declares.
Intro:
Judgment is a nasty word to many of us. We visualize a tired judge in traffic
court who in a few seconds allotted to our case show no sympathy for our 5 (or
25) miles over the limit. Or our
minds flash to an ugly scene with a parent where we were judged with unrelenting
harshness with the result that we still sense a nagging guilt- as if we must
have done something wrong, even it we can��t quite think what it was. Sometimes we picture God, in spite of
the ��tender shepherd images,�� as an al-seeing eye who knows far more about us
than we wish. And we long to crawl
somewhere deep inside ourselves and hide.
But if we must have a judge, we would surely want him to be
fair.
Open
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Q: If you could live your life without personal guilt or
judgment, would you choose that?
Explain.
Study
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Q:
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Summary:
Paul uncovers in these verses a strange human foible,
namely our tendency to be critical of everybody except ourselves. We even gain a vicarious satisfaction from
condemning in others the very faults we excuse in ourselves. Freud called this moral gymnastic
��projection��, but Paul described it centuries before Freud. This device enables us simultaneously to retain our
sins and our self-respect.
It is a convenient arrangement but also both slick and
sick.
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(God will absolutely
even-handed in judgment. The way
people have sinned (in knowledge or ignorance of the law) will be the way they
will be judge, considering whether they have lived up to their knowledge. This is a theoretical or
hypothetic statement, of course, since no human being has ever fully obeyed the
law (Romans
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Summary:
Until the law has done its work of exposing and
condemning our sins, we are not ready to hear the gospel of justification. True, it is often said that we
should address ourselves to people��s conscious needs and not try to induce in
them feelings of guilt that they do not have, This is a misconception, however. We should condemn their wrongdoing while
support them to repent. Human
beings are moral beings by creation.
That is to say, not only do we experience an inner urge to do what we
believe to be right, but we also have a sense of guilt and remorse when we have
done that we know to be wrong.
There is of course such a thing as false guilt. But guilt feelings which are aroused by
wrongdoing are health. They rebuked
us for betraying our humanity, and they impel us to seek forgiveness in
Christ.
Apply
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Q:
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Pray
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Thank God that he is just and fair- showing no favouritism. Identify yourself in his presence as either Jew or Gentile. Thanks him that through Jesus Christ he invites you into his family- regardless of your origins.
Romans
Romans Bible Study #3
God��s Fairness
Read Romans 2:1-16
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Romans
2
God's Righteous Judgment
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Romans
2
God's Righteous Judgment
1You, therefore, have no
excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge
the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the
same things. 2Now we know that God's judgment against those who do such things
is based on truth. 3So when you, a mere man, pass judgment on them and yet do
the same things, do you think you will escape God's judgment? 4Or do you show
contempt for the riches of his kindness, tolerance and patience, not realizing
that God's kindness leads you toward repentance?
5But
because of your stubbornness and your unrepentant heart, you are storing up
wrath against yourself for the day of God's wrath, when his righteous judgment
will be revealed. 6God ��will give to each person according to what he has
done.��[a] 7To those who by persistence in doing good seek glory, honor and
immortality, he will give eternal life. 8But for those who are self-seeking and
who reject the truth and follow evil, there will be wrath and anger. 9There will
be trouble and distress for every human being who does evil: first for the Jew,
then for the Gentile; 10but glory, honor and peace for everyone who does good:
first for the Jew, then for the Gentile. 11For God does not show favoritism.
12All who sin apart from the law
will also perish apart from the law, and all who sin under the law will be
judged by the law. 13For it is not those who hear the law who are righteous in
God's sight, but it is those who obey the law who will be declared righteous.
14(Indeed, when Gentiles, who do not have the law, do by nature things required
by the law, they are a law for themselves, even though they do not have the law,
15since they show that the requirements of the law are written on their hearts,
their consciences also bearing witness, and their thoughts now accusing, now
even defending them.) 16This will take place on the day when God will judge
men's secrets through Jesus Christ, as my gospel declares.
Intro:
Judgment is a nasty word to many of us. We visualize a tired judge in traffic
court who in a few seconds allotted to our case show no sympathy for our 5 (or
25) miles over the limit. Or our
minds flash to an ugly scene with a parent where we were judged with unrelenting
harshness with the result that we still sense a nagging guilt- as if we must
have done something wrong, even it we can��t quite think what it was. Sometimes we picture God, in spite of
the ��tender shepherd images,�� as an al-seeing eye who knows far more about us
than we wish. And we long to crawl
somewhere deep inside ourselves and hide.
But if we must have a judge, we would surely want him to be
fair.
Open
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Q: If you could live your life without personal guilt or
judgment, would you choose that?
Explain.
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Summary:
Paul uncovers in these verses a strange human foible,
namely our tendency to be critical of everybody except ourselves. We even gain a vicarious satisfaction from
condemning in others the very faults we excuse in ourselves. Freud called this moral gymnastic
��projection��, but Paul described it centuries before Freud. This device enables us simultaneously to retain our
sins and our self-respect.
It is a convenient arrangement but also both slick and
sick.
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(God will absolutely
even-handed in judgment. The way
people have sinned (in knowledge or ignorance of the law) will be the way they
will be judge, considering whether they have lived up to their knowledge. This is a theoretical or
hypothetic statement, of course, since no human being has ever fully obeyed the
law (Romans
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Summary:
Until the law has done its work of exposing and
condemning our sins, we are not ready to hear the gospel of justification. True, it is often said that we
should address ourselves to people��s conscious needs and not try to induce in
them feelings of guilt that they do not have, This is a misconception, however. We should condemn their wrongdoing while
support them to repent. Human
beings are moral beings by creation.
That is to say, not only do we experience an inner urge to do what we
believe to be right, but we also have a sense of guilt and remorse when we have
done that we know to be wrong.
There is of course such a thing as false guilt. But guilt feelings which are aroused by
wrongdoing are health. They rebuked
us for betraying our humanity, and they impel us to seek forgiveness in
Christ.
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Thank God that he is just and fair- showing no favouritism. Identify yourself in his presence as either Jew or Gentile. Thanks him that through Jesus Christ he invites you into his family- regardless of your origins.
Feb 24, 05 (Thursday)
Why
am I not a Christian?
Background:
On Feb 17, while I was studying in the UBC library, an
idea came into my mind- why do people not believe in
God? Many people are
unwilling to involve in a conversation about God. Others have made up arguments, ranging
from simple non-sense reasons to highly complicated metaphysical arguments, to
back up their belief that there should be no God. In this writing, I would first speculate
the real, underlying reasons why people not believe in God and then I would take
an anti-God stance and try to argue against my own
argument.
My methodology:
I
have noticed that humans are very often irrational beings and they rationalize
all sorts of justifying reasons to support what they are believing/doing and
cover up their irrationality and the fear within themselves. For example, a new-attendee in a church
might rationalize, ��The people here are not welcoming, it is not a suitable
church and I��m not coming anymore��.
But, after further investigation, the real, underlying reason might be
that he has a low self-esteem and he fears of not being able to fit in the new
community, though he might not be aware of the truth at all and firmly
believe/insist that ��The people here are not welcoming, it is not a suitable
church and I��m not coming anymore��.
In this case, I suspect that many metaphysical arguments, in the same
manner, are just a cover up for some real, underlying reasons. I have speculated 4
reasons.
First, it is pride that many humans always want to
have originality. Originality means a person wants to be
the first person to do something or invent something or come up with a
ground-breaking theory. For
example, in mountaineering, originality means you are the first person to climb
this or that mountain,
Next, it is peer
pressure and, therefore, fear of
rejection and losing ��face��. In
contemporary secular society, only the minority believe in God and believing in
God is linked to the impression of irrationality and non-sense. Besides, believing in God means one has
to commit his life to God, changing his outlook of life, attitude and
lifestyle. It takes commitment and
risks- what if my belief turns out to be false; it will be utterly disgrace and
stupid! Therefore, many people
choose not to take this risk.
Third, it is pride that many humans want to be God
and play God. Believing in God means one has to
acknowledge the authority of God, confess his sins and wrongdoings, submit his
life to God��s rule and commit to live a godly life. Nowadays, not many people are willing to
do these- I want to live my life in my own way and in a ��glorious�� way! They are not willing to admit that they
have sins and that they are wicked within and desperately need
help.
Finally, it��s a lack of wisdom. Many people nowadays still believe in a
Utopia of materialism. They still believe materialism can
satisfy their life and give them whatever they want or at least a happy-enough
life. They think $ can solve their
life problems/difficulties. They
fail to see that materialism cannot give them full satisfaction (which they are
always striving to accomplish), or maybe some already know it but have no faith that there exist a thing which
can satisfy life to the full. On
the other hand, many people have no faith in God that God is able to provide any
amazing things for them.
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Now, let me turn around and be an anti-God critic:
So, why do you suspect that I am rationalizing? Why do you assume that there is a God in
your argument? Now, let me give my
attack: you are rationalizing that there is a God to cover up your fear that if
there is not God, your life will be meaningless and utterly
unsatisfying.
Pro-God
critic:
Now, either you (there is no God) or I (there is a God)
is true and right and there exist no absolute proof for each of us. However, I would argue that my theist
theory (in this case Christianity) is superior to your atheist theory. First, believing there is a God is
linked to existence of meaning of life, while believing there is no God is
linked to non-existence of meaning of life. A life with meaning is happier and more
satisfying than a life without meaning (a meaningless life). On the other hand, in this world,
everyone admires a combination of a godly, upright character and virtues in a
person and happiness. (i.e. no one likes an unhappy, godly life or a happy,
wicked life) The life of a person
with these characteristic is superior/better than the life of those
without. Therefore, though I can��t
prove my case in an absolute sense, I can imply it is true by the reason- a theist��s life is of a higher quality/performance than an
atheist��s life, i.e. 1) a Christian life is more meaningful/happier/more
fulfilling than an atheist life and 2) a Christian life has more virtues than an
atheist life, where high performance implies the theory is true. For example, I create a model car and
its running program. Under the
original (true) running program, the car runs in its best way. In the same way, if your life runs in
its best way, it implies the theory is the original, true theory. There do exist empirical examples of
��top quality life�� of Christians to support my
case.
God bless J
Feb 22, 05 (Tuesday)
A prayer in my distress
The hardest time in my life
is
when I sin against God, my dear Father in
heaven,
when I fall short of the glory of God, my dear Father in
heaven,
when I repay God evil for good, the salvation from my
dear God, my Redeemer,
when I shame God, myself, parents, relatives, best
friends, all who support me,
when I forsake the privilege to be a dear human and
become a beast.
I��m covered with shame,
who can cleanse me from this sin and disgrace?
Who can save me from this soul of death?
My body is weak, my soul is ebbing away for I turned away
from God, my stronghold and my strength.
I
can��t focus on my life and work.
My soul is corrupt by my sin; my sin is even ruling over
me.
Exams are coming like an army.
I
am in utter distress!
Not because I will fail my exams.
Not because I have for forsaken (lost) my salvation.
But because I have sinned again and again against God, my
dear Father and lost favour in God��s eyes!
God has now abandoned me and gone far from me!
I
am in huge distress and pain.
My sins are holding me fast in chains and dragging me
away.
Yet I won��t hesitate; I will look toward my God and hold
fast to his statutes!
Though I
have lost all things, my integrity, my reputation, my strength,
I
will still look toward you God, my strength and my life!
How I hate evil and the deceitfulness if men!
You, blood of vipers, with God I will walk uprightly and
condemn you!
God will punish you forever!
Who am I
that God still let me live?
Who am I that God doesn��t kill me and throw me to
hell?
How can I repay the Lord for all his goodness, wonders,
miracles to me?
I
will acknowledge God as my Lord.
I
will call on his name, rejoice, leap and shout for joy and praise his holy
name.
Praise the Lord! Give thanks to God for he is fantastically amazing! Amen.
On
Relationships
Background:
In our life, every day and night we live; we live in
relationships. When we are alone,
we live in relationships with God and ourselves, while at other times, we live
in relationships with families, relatives, good friends, best friends,
girlfriends, boyfriends, those we do not like, and even strangers that we come
across on the street. Relationships
can give us the taste of heaven but, also the taste of hell; they can give us
love, passion, energy and life, but, also hatred, depression and death. The ability to manage relationships well
is, well agreed, an elegant wisdom- a hugely in-demand treasure. In fact, relationship is a wonderful
gift of God for us to enjoy life to the full. Seeing that many people, even friends of
mine, suffered in relationships, let alone not being able to enjoy, I am deeply
concerned and prompted to write a solution on the topic of relationships.
God bless J
In this writing, I will first define the basic element of
all relationships. Then, I will
proceed to state how this basic element gives rise to a relationship
failure/grave. Finally, I will
conclude in an encouraging manner on how this basic element, if handle properly
(Biblically/according to the instruction by God), gives rise to a FULL
HAPPINESS.
In all relationships- God & us, self, family,
friendship, dating, marriage, strangers, etc., the same basic element exists-
our attitude. Our attitude defines/constructs our goal/ambition in a relationship, which
in turn, defines our expectation of
fulfilment. Our attitude also
shapes our strategy in working
towards that goal. Therefore, our
attitude in a relationship is directly linked to the amount of happiness we will and can achieve under
that mindset. In other words, a good attitude leads to
happiness/shout for joy and a bad attitude leads to
grievance/depression.
Among the majority of failed relationships, we find 2
things- a lack of wisdom and a self-centered attitude.
Let��s start with the problem of a lack of wisdom. Some people hold tightly to what they
think is right and useful and the ��truth��.
Their stubbornness and ��arrogance�� (though they usually are not aware)
shut off wisdoms and advice of help. (Proverbs 11:2) Their ignorance then failed their
relationships. A disturbing fact
is, they also tend to rationalize ��it��s too late, the case is hopeless and no
one can help��. This self-denial and
distortion of the truth will follow them on to their next relationship,
torturing them again in the future unless they renew their mind. Others do not have faith to accept
wisdom. They have no confidence to
believe their suffering relationship could be helped in anyway. You will often hear them saying ��my case
is a v. special case, it��s hopeless and no one can help, poor me��. This rationalization and distortion of
the truth, of cause, will continue to torture them unless they renew their
mind.
However, the problem of a self-centered attitude is even
more depressing. I can��t recall how
many families, friendships, datings, marriages, etc are corrupted and ruined by
it. In all ages (not just
nowadays), we humans tend to live a self-centered life, with an ��exchange��
mindset of ��if you treat me good, I will treat you good��. A self-centered individual can never be
fully satisfied and fully happy in a relationship. Because he has based his satisfaction on
how others treat him, which is v. shaky and ever-changing. He needs a lot of outward attention or
support or approval to maintain his ego/self-esteem. However, even if everyone does treat him
good, he will still be unsatisfied.
Why? He has yet to
understand that full satisfaction never comes from the outside, but from
within. He is an ��inadequate��/��insecure�� person and
doesn��t have a big storage of love.
Therefore, in normal happy time, the relationship is okay. But, once hard time comes, he��s prone to
backslide and leave the relationship.
A self-centered relationship is v. weak and shaky because it lacks love
as a firm foundation. An often
heard rationalization is ��I have no fun in this relationship. Relationship is supposed to be fun. He/she must be the wrong person��, and,
in this way, the person further distorts the truth (that his attitude is
perverted) and avoid his own responsibility to do good and a need to
change.
Now, I��d talk about why relationship does can be perfect
and full of joy. First, I have 2
questions: 1) What is a good attitude like? 2) How can we achieve
it?
A
good attitude in love in relationship is ��love without expecting a repay��. It is to focus all your mind, all your
heart, and all your strength to think continually about ��how I can serve
him/her��. It��s not a self-seeking
love, but totally other-focused. It
is to be compassionate and humble and honour others above yourself. Moreover, you love even when others
mistreat you, even when you dislike that person, and even when you won��t get any
reward.
How can we do this?
Inaccurate, rather we should ask, ��Where comes this great source of love
within us first?�� For example, a
river has great water flow only if it has a great source. This love comes from
God.
We love because God first loved us. 1 John
4:19
(Attention:
if you only treat it as a philosophical/theological concept to meditate on, you
can��t get its essence. It��s a real
experience that you need to experience it yourself. For example, if you want to know if
riding roller coaster is fun or not, you can��t just meditate/speculate about it;
rather, you need to ride it yourself.
Therefore, for anyone who wants to experience God, he/she must first be
open-minded and have a willing heart to try. Anyone who has a hardened heart or
unwilling heart can never experience it, let alone proving whether God is real
or not.)
God loves us so much that he sent his one and only son Jesus to die for us. I��d say this love makes Christianity
superior than other religions and philosophies. This love is so GREAT that it grants us
POWER to love. In addition, how can
we be humble enough to serve others?
Very rarely will anyone dies for a righteous man,
though for a good man someone might possibly dare to
die.
But God demonstrates his own love for us in this:
while we were still sinners, Christ dies for us. Romans
5:7-8
Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in
order to bring praise to God. Romans
15:7
��For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but
to serve,
and to give his
life as a ransom for many.�� Mark
A
person who has experienced God��s love and his forgiveness is deeply moved by the
fact that ��God, who is holy and perfect, is willing to forgive me and accept me,
a terrible sinner��. He, then is
motivated by this love to serve others humbly. However, even if you have experienced
this love, if you keep on going on your ��old�� self-centered way, you��re still
not there. You need to submit your
life to God��s rule and to do God��s will.
Why? God��s will is the
best/happiest way of living, while our will stems from our conscience which is
corrupted by the sinful nature, which is often worthless, harmful and even
shameful to our life. How can we
let go of our own sinful nature and let God rule in us (guided by Holy
Spirit)? It takes
faith.
Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of
what we do not see. Hebrews
11:1
You have faith that God is faithful and will act
according to his promise and that he will guide you to live the BEST life. The build-up of faith takes experience
(events in life) and time. For
example, after so many years in your life seeing the sun rises up from the east,
you have faith that the sun will rise from the east again
tomorrow.
Therefore, in short, to achieve a godly attitude in
relationships needs:
1.
personally experience God��s
love and forgiveness
2.
have faith in God��s
promise
3.
submit own life and let God
rule
In conclusion, if we walk according to the law of the
Lord, (that is we love unconditionally with all our heart, all our soul, all our
mind, and all our strength like Jesus) the result can be unbelievable and
miraculously powerful. All our
relationships will be richly blessed.
God bless J
When a man��s ways are pleasing to the Lord, he makes even
his enemies live at peace with him.
Proverbs
16:7
P.S. In order to deal well with people (relationships), one needs to learn how to deal well with himself first. In order to deal well with oneself, one needs to welcome God into his heart, as one��s sinful nature can only bring death/shame/grief/dissatisfaction, while God��s Holy Spirit will bring us life/hope/glory/joy.
On
Reconciliation
Background:
Lately, I had offended
(without I knowing it) a friend of mine.
Thanks to God��s guidance.
The matter was solved and I reconciled perfectly with my friend in a
godly manner. I��m passionate to
write on this topic because a proper way of reconciliation is so crucial which
can turn an enemy to a friend and, as well, a friend to an enemy. In this writing, I will describe the
appropriate Biblical attitude and outline the steps of reconciliation, which I
felt to be v. useful. God bless
J
First of all, always do your
best to be caring and sensitive to your brothers�� and sisters�� and friends�� and
families�� emotional states and needs.
If you notice they are feeling weak, prone to distress or prone to be
offended, show your care/support as soon as possible and strengthen their
faith. Prevention is always better
than reconciliation. Pray hard for
him/her.
However, if you have already
offended a person, and the news of the offence takes you by surprise, do the
following:
First stage: pray to God continually for patience,
compassion, self-control, humility, and wisdom and faith. At this first stage, control yourself
and try not to find anyone for help (as people will usually suggest), unless
it��s really an emergency. (I��ll explain later) Control your emotions, be v. rational and
meditate:
1.
what��s the
offence?
2.
who��s
offended?
3.
why he/she��s offended? (think
in his/her context)
4.
who is the
offender?
5.
is there other reasons why
he/she��s offended? (think in his/her context)
6.
what��s the consequence of the
offence?
At this stage, focus your
entire mind in meditating objectively instead of judging the case right away,
for you have inadequate information at hand. Remember to be speechless and not to
voice any kinds of comments publicly! (Jot down on paper
instead)
(The reason why I suggest you
not to seek help immediately is that you need to think straight/clearly before
you seek any advice, or you are v. prone to be misguided or you simply don��t
know what help you need and confuse yourself even more.)
Second stage: after you have
done the above self-meditations, be humble and open-minded and seek external information from
��reliable�� people. The importance
of ��reliable�� people can��t be stressed even more. Find someone who does not have special
interest at your case, at you, or at that offended person or you might be
further misled or even be used.
Remember to be speechless and not to voice any kinds of comments
publicly! At this stage, if the
offended person is still emotionally charged, do not confront him/her directly
(as emotions overwhelm reasons).
Instead, communicate with him/her in an indirectly manner, for example,
e-mail, msn, icq, online diary, homepage, or ask your ��reliable�� friends to
approach him/her. Pray hard and
seek God��s will. Be sure you are
ready to communicate, even if it��s indirectly. If you are not ready, remain
speechless.
For example, this is what I
wrote in my online diary:
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1.
home
2.
S.U.C.C.E.S.S. Chinese New
Year Lunch
3.
home
4.
chat w/ Dorothy
5.
bible study (Alex, Crystal, Jane, Michael, Gary,
Janice)
6.
home
I love you, O
Lord, my strength.
The Lord is my
rock, my fortress and my deliverer;
my God is my rock,
in whom I take refuge.
He is my shield
and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.
I call to the
Lord, who is worthy of praise, and I am saved from my
enemies.
Psalm
18:1-3
��Because he loves
me,�� says the Lord, ��I will rescue him;
I will protect
him, for he acknowledges my name.
He will call upon
me, and I will answer him;
I will be with him
in trouble, I will deliver him and honour him.
With long life
will I satisfy him and show him my salvation.��
Psalm
91:14-16
I look straight ahead. I saw satan. Using his wicked, shameful plans, he��s
stirring up controversies, irrational confusions and an emotionally-charged
atmosphere among a couple of my friendships. But, idiot satan, you can��t fool
me. Because, I trust in the Lord,
the Maker of heaven and earth! The
Lord is my fortress! With him, I
will sure crush you! Victory is on
my side! I can feel it even
now.
Amen.
With God we will
gain victory, and he will trample down our enemies.
Psalm
108:13
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You can see, I wrote nothing
directed to the offended person, as this will further arouse negative
emotions. Instead, I objectively
outlined the issue and implied a solution in an objective
way.
Third stage: if both of you
are calm enough, communicate to that person for a meeting. Usually in this kind of offence issue,
the problem is worsen by a ��lack of communication��, which leads to
worries/anxiety, and possibly a lot of wrong guessings/false assumptions. A direct communication on a face-to-face
manner is badly needed. Before you
meet the person, pray continually.
When you meet him/her, be completely humble and apologize sincerely (even
if in some cases, you��ve done nothing wrong, still apologize for causing the
distress). Be ready to accept any
forms of harsh words even if they are inappropriate. Be speechless as you can��t talk
rationality with an emotionally charged person. Listen patiently.
Fourth stage: finally, after
the person has forgiven you and all his/her emotions are gone, you can analyze
the case with him/her objectively and to learn together from the experience and
what to improve. Pray with
thanksgiving.
In conclusion, the steps
are:
1.
self-meditation (from emotion
to rationality)
2.
reconcile with the person face
to face as soon as both of you are ready
3.
if the hurt is too deep,
individual counselling for each of you is needed before proceeding to a face to
face reconciliation
As Christians, let��s do our
best to be a good servant of God and a servant of brothers and sisters. Be wise and sensitive to other��s needs
and serve whole heartedly. Serve
with passion. Praise the Lord
J
Therefore, as
God��s chosen people, holy and dearly loved,
clothe yourselves
with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.
Bear with each
other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another.
Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
And over all these
virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.
Colossians 3:12-14
How to Fight Sins #2: How are Christians Different from
Laymen?
Last time, we concluded that the solution to the problem
of sins is a
renewal/transformation of mindset. (Read Romans 12:2) However, it�s incomplete: now that we
had a nice theory, what about the approach/method to apply it? Anyone knows we should change our
mindset but we just can�t or lack moral strength to do so. Without a concrete, practical working
instruction, the theory will be hollow and useless (another dream). Therefore, in this passage, I will 1) first point out a common Christian
mis-approach and 2) then
elaborate on the Biblical approach/method so that we can actually act it
out.
First, how are Christians different from laymen in doing good? In this world, there are uncountable Christians who want and are striving
hard to be holy with good virtues and, just at the same time, also uncountable secular people or people of other religions doing exactly
the same thing. Generally,
people use the methods of 1) reasoning for reasons for doing good, and 2) training a
consistent to-be-holy habit. From a Biblical perspective, humans, by
themselves, cannot do good without the help of God. (Read Romans 7:14-25) These worldly methods, first of all,
can�t provide success and, second, the person cannot do good heartily with
joy. The point I want to make here
is: As a
Christian, are you using the laymen�s (common people) method, which is doomed to
fail, or are you using the Biblical method? This might well account why many
Christians are having a hard time in fighting sins though they do their
best.
Now, what�s the Biblical method? Let�s first make a comparison of the
Biblical method and the worldly method:
Analogy: living in an apartment (as a owner vs. as a tenant)
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Method 1 is a self-centered motivation to
do good. It is my
life, I do what I want. Here, I�m under the rule of my sinful
nature.
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Method 2 is a God-centered
motivation to do good.
I acknowledge that it�s not my life, but God�s
life. I give up my
ownership of my life, submit to God�s rule and follow his guidance (Holy Spirit)
and do what God
wants. Here, I�m no longer under the rule of my
sinful nature, but the Spirit.
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want to....?#060;SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> Instead, he shall say
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unworthy servant of God. (pray) O
God, what do you (Holy Spirit) want to do in this case?? just like
the famous W.W.J.D. (what would Jesus do) slogan. Therefore the steps of the Biblical
method are:
1.
acknowledge the
ownership of your life (your role as a servant)
2.
pray (report) to
God (your boss) before making a decision
3.
have faith in God
(that his will is the best way of life)
4.
follow his
instruction (Holy Spirit and the Bible)
Here are 2 related Biblical
references:
Hebrews 11:24-26
By faith Moses,
when he had grown up, refused to be known as the son of
Pharaoh's daughter.
He chose to be mistreated along with the people of God
rather than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a short time.
He regarded disgrace for the
sake of Christ as of greater value than the treasures of
because he was looking ahead to his
reward.
Psalm
112
Praise the
LORD.
Blessed is the man who
fears the LORD ,
who finds great delight in
his commands.
2 His children will be
mighty in the land;
the generation of the
upright will be blessed.
3 Wealth and riches are in
his house,
and his righteousness
endures forever.
4 Even in darkness light
dawns for the upright,
for the gracious and
compassionate and righteous man. [c]
5 Good will come to him who
is generous and lends freely,
who conducts his affairs
with justice.
6 Surely he will never be
shaken;
a righteous man will be
remembered forever.
7 He will have no fear of
bad news;
his heart is steadfast,
trusting in the LORD .
8 His heart is secure, he
will have no fear;
in the end he will look in
triumph on his foes.
9 He has scattered abroad
his gifts to the poor,
his righteousness endures
forever;
his horn [d] will be lifted
high in honor.
10 The wicked man will see
and be vexed,
he will gnash his teeth and
waste away;
the longings of the wicked
will come to nothing.
In conclusion, the acknowledgement of your role as a servant of God is the essential, first step to the problem-solving so that you can rely completely on God�s power. What does it take to do that? A humble, repentant heart, which is submissive. What does it take to have that? You need a personal experience of the goodness of God. Training the heart is the hardest thing on earth. Pray continually to God and share your struggle with your friends and pray together. Believe and God will help.
Feb 5 Saturday
How to fight sins?
But Jehoshaphat
also said to the King of
��First seek
the counsel of the Lord.��
2 Chronicles 19:4
The evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him; the cords of
his sins hold him fast.
He will die for his lack of discipline, led astray by his
own great folly.
Proverbs 5:22
Jesus replied, ��I tell you the truth, everyone who sins
is a slave to sin.
John 8:34
I
feel a desperate urge to meditate on the problem of sexual sin. The problem of sin is MASSIVE. It corrupts the soul, holds captive of
an individual, and ruins all his social lives, namely his family, marriage,
friendships, even his interactions with strangers. Sin powerfully limits the life and
happiness and value of a person without his knowing it, not to mention his
self-denial of his ruined situation.
It��s apparent that if an individual wants to follow God,
he must live by the Spirit and break away from his sinful desires. A transformation is needed. How?
Everyone knows the Bible does
promise a full life, full of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness,
faithfulness, gentleness, self-control, humility, compassion, mightiness, never
be shaken, no fear�K (Psalm 1, 112, Proverbs
Therefore, if we were to solve the problem successfully,
we have to first solve the attitude problem: somehow I do love sins! Why do I love sins? It is inaccurate: I better paraphrase it
into ��What have sins done to make me
still love sins?��
First of all, every time I sin, my sin leads me to focus
on some sinful things. In other
words, my sin had led me closer into a sinful situation or a sinful
mindset. Under this
sinful mindset/attitude, sin is the king
and it has taken an active role and
set the limit and rules: there��s nothing godly to do but sin and sinning is
the only enjoyment under this mindset.
Now, even if we have extreme will-power, we are still struggling under
this sinful mindset (in other words the limit/reign of sin) and are bound to
lose once we are tired or in weak morale.
In this sinful mindset (territory), sin is the king and we are passive and
powerless.
Therefore, the only solution is: 1. take the active role, 2. escape from
this mindset, and 3. experience the outside world (Spirit)! 4. Remember God is my Lord and I am his
unworthy servant and 5. pray continually and first seek God��s counsel before
doing anything.
Now all has been heard; here is the conclusion of the
matter:
Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole
duty of man.
For God will bring every deed into judgment, including
every hidden thing, whether it is good or
evil.
Ecclesiastes
12:13-14
P.S.
Psalm 112 is definitely one of the best and touching and powerful Psalms I have ever read. Praise the Lord!
Romans
Romans Bible Study #2
A Downward Spiral
Read Romans 1:18-32
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God's Wrath Against Mankind
18The wrath of God is being
revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who
suppress the truth by their wickedness, 19since what may be known about God is
plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. 20For since the creation
of the world God's invisible qualities�Vhis eternal power and divine nature�Vhave
been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are
without excuse.
21For although they knew God, they
neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became
futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22Although they claimed to be
wise, they became fools 23and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images
made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles.
24Therefore God gave them over in
the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their
bodies with one another. 25They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and
worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator�Vwho is forever
praised. Amen.
26Because of this, God gave them
over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for
unnatural ones. 27In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with
women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts
with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.
28Furthermore, since they did not
think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, he gave them over to a
depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done. 29They have become filled with
every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy,
murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, 30slanderers, God haters,
insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey
their parents; 31they are senseless, faithless, heartless, ruthless. 32Although
they know God's righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death,
they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who
practice them.
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Intro:
The very mention of God��s wrath is calculated nowadays to
cause people embarrassment and even amazement. How can anger be attributed to the
all-holy God? Ye tin this section
of Romans we thee connection between
the previous topic of the Gospel of God and the wrath of God. Let me try to clarify the stages of the
argument by engaging Paul in
Dialogue.
Paul: I am not ashamed of the
Gospel of God (v.16).
Q: Why not, Paul?
Paul: Because it is the power of
God for the salvation of everyone who believes
(v.16).
Q: How so,
Paul?
Paul: For in the Gospel, a
righteous from God is revealed, that is, God��s way of justifying sinners
(v.17)
Q: But why is it necessary
Paul?
Paul: Because the wrath
of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and
wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their
wickedness.
Q: But how have people suppress
the truth, Paul?
Paul: Because what may
be known about God is plain to them�K
For since the creation of the
world God��s invisible qualities�K
have been clearly seen (vv.19-20).
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Q: What comes to your mind when
you think of ��the wrath of
God��?
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Read Romans 1:18-23. Human anger, although there is such
a thing as righteous
indignation, is mostly very unrighteous. It is an irrational and uncontrollable
emotion, containing much vanity, animosity, malice the desire for revenge. It should go without saying that God��s
anger is absolutely free of all such poisonous ingredients. The wrath of God is almost totally
different from human anger. It does
not mean that God loses his temper, flies into a rage, or is ever malicious,
spiteful or vindictive. The alternative to wrath is not love but
neutrality in the moral conflict.
And God is not neutral. On
the contrary, his wrath is his holy hostility to evil, his refusal to condone it
or come to terms with it, his just judgment upon
it.
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Summary:
There are degrees to the knowledge of God, and these
phrases cannot possibly refer to the full knowledge of him enjoyed by those who
have been reconciled to him through Christ. For what Paul says here is that through
general revelation people can know God��s power, deity and glory (not his saving
grace through Christ), and that this knowledge is enough not to save them but
rather to condemn them, because they do not live up to it. Instead, they suppress the truth by
their wickedness (v. 18), so that they are without excuse (v. 20). It is against this wilful human rebellion that
God��s wrath is revealed.
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When we hear of God�� wrath, we usually think of
��thunderbolts from heaven, and earthly cataclysms and flaming majesty,�� yet here
we learn that his anger goes ��quiet and invisibly�� to work in handing sinners
over to themselves (Stephen C. Neill, The
Wrath and Peace of God [CLS, 1943]), p. 12f.). God abandons stubborn sinners to their
wilful self-centeredness, and the resulting process of moral and spiritual
degeneration is to be understood as a judicial act of God. This is the revelation of God��s wrath
from heaven (v. 18).
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Summary:
We have come to the end of Paul��s portrayal of depraved
Gentile society. Its essence lies
in the antithesis between what people
know and what they
do. God�� wrath is
specifically directed against those who deliberately suppress truth for the sake
of evil. ��Dark as the picture here
is drawn,�� wrote Charles Hodge, ��it is not so dark as that presented by the most
distinguished Greek and Latin authors, of their own countrymen�� (A Commentary on
Romans [1835; Banner of Truth Trust, 1972], p. 43). Paul was not
exaggerating.
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Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 10:13, ��No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.�� Talk to God about what tempts you to sin- and you own lapses toward thee downward spiral of Romans 1. Ask God��s forgiveness. Invite his strength to help you overcome future temptation in the same area ��so that you can stand up under it.��
Romans
Introduction J
Romans is a kind of Christian manifesto of freedom
through Jesus Christ.
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Freedom from the holy wrath of God upon all
unrighteousness.
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Freedom from alienation into reconciliation.
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Freedom from ethnic conflict.
�P
Freedom to give ourselves to the loving service of God
and others.
Paul was probably writing the Romans from the
Getting to know the Romans J
A church had already come into being in
A message for us J
In his ministry of reconciliation between the Jews and the Gentiles, Paul
develops 2 themes and interweaves them beautifully.
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The first is the justification of guilty sinners by God��s
grace alone in Christ, irrespective of status or works. This is the most humbling and equalling
of all Christian truths.
�P
The second is that the people
of God are no loner defined by descent, circumcision or culture, but according
to faith in Jesus. So ��there��s no
difference�� now between Jews and Gentiles (Romans
The call to unity I just as relevant to us today as we continue to face
tensions in the body of Christ over ethnicity and theology. May we hear and respond to God��s call to
us in Romans
Romans Bible Study #1
Gospel Power
Read Romans
1:1-17
What would it be like to live
as a Christian in 1st century
Q: When and how did
you first come in contact with the power of Gospel?
Study:
Read Romans
1:1-7. *Letter-writing
conventions vary from culture to culture.
We address our correspondent first (��Dear John��) and identify ourselves
only at the end (��Yours sincerely, Joan��).
In the ancient world, however, the custom was to reverse the order, the
writer announcing himself or herself first and the correspondent next (��John to
Joan, greetings!��). Paul normally
followed the convention of his day, but here he deviates from it by giving a
much more elaborate description of himself than usual, in relation to the
Gospel.
Q:
1.
What information about the
Gospel do you find in these verses?
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2.
Paul says in verse 6 that
through the Gospel we are ��called to belong��. How have you experienced that sense of belonging (in church,
fellowship or other Christians)?
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3.
In verse 5 Paul speaks of
��obedience that comes from faith.��
How are obedience and faith naturally
connected?
Summary:
��God is the most important word in this epistle,�� Leon Morris has written. ��Romans is a book about God. No topic is treated with anything like
the frequency of God. Everything
Paul touches in this letter he related to God�K There is nothing like it
elsewhere.�� So the Christian good
news is the Gospel of God. The
apostles did not invent it; it was revealed and entrusted to them by
God.
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4.
Review verse 1-7. What do you learn about Paul? About
Romans?
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5.
Read Romans 1:8-17. In what different ways does Paul express
his affection for he ROMANS (VV. 8-15)?
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6.
What do these verses reveal
about Paul��s relationship with God?
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7.
Paul knows about the
reciprocal blessings of Christian fellowship, and although he is an apostle, he
is not too proud to acknowledge his need for it. In verse 12 Paul says that he hopes that
he and the Romans will be ��mutually encouraged by each other��s faith.�� Why is mutual encouragement valuable to
Christians?
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8.
Focus on Paul��s declaration in
verses 16-17. What do these verses
reveal about the power of the Gospel?
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9.
This passage uses important
words like Gospel, Salvation, Righteousness and Faith. How are these terms related to each
other?
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10.
This section of Paul��s letter
ends with the famous phrase ��The righteous will live by faith.�� In practical terms, what does this
mean?
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Summary:
I once hear James Steward of Edinburgh, in a sermon on
this text, make the perceptive comment that ��there��s no sense in declaring that
you��re not ashamed of something unless you��ve been tempted to feel ashamed of
it.�� And without doubt Paul knew
this temptation�K How then did Paul
(and how shall we) overcome the temptation to be ashamed of the Gospel? He tells us. It is by remembering the same message,
which some people despise for is weakness, is in fact the power of God for the
salvation of everyone who believes.
How do we know this? In the
long run, only because we have
experienced is saving power in our own lives. Has God reconciled us to himself through
Christ, forgiven our sins, made us his children, put his Spirit within us, begun
to transform us, and introduced us into his new community? Then how can we possibly be ashamed of
the Gospel?
Apply:
1.
What power have you seen the
Gospel exercise in your life? What
power would you like it to have?
2.
Paul says in verse 15-16, ��I
am so eager to preach�K I am not
ashamed of the Gospel.�� What can
you do that expresses a similar enthusiasm for
Christ?
Pray:
In verse 8 Paul says, ��I thank my God through Jesus Christ for all of you.�� Who can you thank God for and why?
Bible Study #2
Christian Character
Background:
Christian living is meant to be different from a
non-believer��s living, as Jesus refers it to the light compared to the
darkness. This week, we will
explore some Christian characters in
the bible. As it��s a rather long
one, you can do one part at a time.
God bless you J
Part A.
Recite bible
verses:
Matthew 5:14-16
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14��You are the light
of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden.
15Neither do
people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand,
and it gives light to everyone in the house.
16In the same way,
let your light
shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in
heaven.
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1As a prisoner of
the Lord, then I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have
received.
2Be completely
humble and gentle; be
patient, bearing with one another in love.
Part B
Record your change:
Here, can you compare your life before you believe in
God and after you believe in God, and list 7 differences. It can be anything e.g. work, family,
friends, dating, study�K In this
week, ask at least 1 person ��What change do I
have?��
(After you complete it, you can cut it out and it will
become your own testimonyJ)
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Part C- Bible Study
1.
This week��s reading#1:
Christian Character 1-
Think Positive and Be Thankful.
Luke 18:11-19
Ten Healed of Leprosy
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Ten Healed of
Leprosy
11Now on his way
to
12As he was going
into a village, ten men who had leprosy[met him. They stood at a distance
13and called
out in a loud voice, ��Jesus, Master,
have pity on us!��
14When he saw
them, he said, ��Go, show yourselves to the priests.�� And as they went, they were
cleansed.
15One of them,
when he saw he was healed, came
back, praising God in a loud
voice.
16He threw himself at Jesus'
feet and thanked him�Vand he was a Samaritan.
17Jesus asked,
��Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine?
18Was no one found
to return and give praise to God except this foreigner?�� 19Then he said to him,
��Rise and go; your faith has made you well.��
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16Be joyful always;
17pray
continually;
18give thanks in all
circumstances, for this is God��s will
for you in Christ Jesus.
Meditate:
1. What are the miracles God has done on you (or people
around you) and prayers God has
answered you? Please list 10. (In this week, ask at least 1 person about
itJ)
2. What are the
differences between the attitude of the Samaritan and the attitude of the
other 9 men towards Jesus (God)?
What is your attitude towards God?
3. It is said:
You sow a thought, you reap an
attitude.
You sow an attitude, you reap a
behavior.
You sow a behavior, you reap a
character.
You sow a character, you reap your
life.
What is the consequence of the Samaritan, who is
truly thankful and accepts Jesus as his Lord, compared to the
other 9 men, who treat Jesus as en emergency kit in difficult times?
(Hint: who will have more blessings in the future? And why?)
4. Use 1 minute
to pray, e.g. God, thanks God for
your miracles, I am truly blessed, may I give thanks to you almighty, in the
name of Jesus Christ, amen?
(For further reference on #3, read Luke 8:13-15 and John 6:35, read online at http://bible.gospelcom.net/versions/index.php?action=getVersionInfo&vid=31#books&version=31; )
2.
This week��s reading#2:
Christian Character 2- Be
Humble and Non-critical.
Matthew 7
Judging Others
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Matthew 7
Judging Others
1��Do not
judge, or you too will be
judged.
2For in the same
way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will
be measured to you.
3��Why do you look at the
speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your
own eye?
4How can you say
to your brother, ��Let me take the speck out of your eye,�� when all the time
there is a plank in your own eye?
5You hypocrite,
first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to
remove the speck from your brother's eye.
John 15:12
15:12
�A�Ìn�����۷R�B���ڷR�A�̤@���B�o�N�O�ڪ��R�O�C
15:12My command is
this: love each other as I have
loved you.
Romans 12:10
12:10 �R�̥S�B�n�����˼��D���q�H�B�n���������C
12:10Be devoted to
one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above
yourselves.
Romans 14:19
14:19 �ҥH�Ṵ́Èn�l�D�M�����ơB�P�����إ߼w�����ơC
14:19Let us therefore
make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual
edification.
Matthew 20:28
20:28 ���p�H�l�ӡB���O�n���H���A�ơB�D�O�n�A�ƤH�D�åB�n�˩R�B�@�h�H��ū���C
20:28just as the Son
of Man did not come to be served,
but to serve, and to give his life as a
ransom for many.
Meditate #2
1. What does Jesus
mean by ��judge��? What is the
difference between distinguishing
right and wrong and judging a
person?
(Hint: what��s the goal of discerning right and wrong and
what��s the goal of judging or gossiping a person?)
2. Why does Jesus
command us not to judge? Why is
it useless to judge a person?
(Hint: How does a judging attitude conflict with our
attitude to love and to build up others?)
3. Mutual
edification implies that the strong,
despite their tendency to look down on the weak, may actually learn from
them. In this week, can you appreciate and jot down some good points
of the person you tend to judge?
4. Why does Paul
call us to honor one another above yourselves (be humble)? Why is this humble attitude necessary
for ��mutual edification��, our serving in church, and loving one
another in daily life?
5. It��s easy to say
��be humble��, but how can we actually act it out?
(Hint: What is our motivation to accept and appreciate
one another? Romans 15:7 http://bible.gospelcom.net/passage/?search=Romans%2015:7&version=31)
7. Use 1 minute
to pray, e.g. God, may you continue
to shape me to be as humble and loving as Jesus, in the name of Jesus Christ,
amen?
Part C- Singing
Give thanks with a grateful
heart,
Give thanks unto the Holy
One,
Give thanks because He's given Jesus Christ, His
Son
(repeat 3 times)
And now let the weak say "I am
strong",
Let the poor say "I am
rich",
Because of what the Lord, has done for
us
(repeat)
(repeat all once more)
Give Thanks!
Give Thanks!
Give Thanks!
http://my.homewithgod.com/heavenlymidis/songbook/givethanks.html
Bible
Study #1
Suffering
1/
Luke 13
13:1
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13:3
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13:4
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13:5 �ڧi�D�A�̡B���O���D�A���Y������B���n�p�����`�C
Luke
13
Repent or Perish
1Now
there were some present at that time who told Jesus about the Galileans whose blood Pilate had
mixed with their sacrifices.
2Jesus answered, ��Do you think that these Galileans were
worse sinners than all the other
Galileans because they suffered this way?
3I
tell you, no! But unless you repent, you too will all
perish.
4Or
those eighteen who died when the
tower in Siloam fell on them - do you think they were more
guilty than all the others living in
5I
tell you, no! But unless you repent, you too will all perish.��
2/ Meditate #1
(understanding suffering)
1.
When the crowd talked about
the 2 tragedies, what answers do they expect Jesus will give? (hint:
�󦳸o, worse sinners, more guilty, because they suffer this
way)
2.
What do the people think of
the idea of perish
(death) and suffering (e.g. its consequence and ways to
prevent it)? What does Jesus think
of perish (death)
and suffering
(e.g. its consequence and ways to prevent it)? What is the
difference?
*Hint:
�P
Common myth: once you believe, all troubles in your life
will be gone.
�P
Physical death/perish vs. spiritual
death/perish.
�P
Short-term suffering in this life vs. eternal suffering
in hell.
3.
What did Jesus
imply/emphasize when he said ��unless you repent, you too will all perish��?
*Hint:
�P
Who are sinners���o?
�P
Is there a difference between�j�o and�p�o? Do they
share the same consequence?
�P
Is salvation by repentance + grace (Jesus�� view)
or self-righteous���q (people��s view)?
3/ Meditate #2 (a
biblical attitude towards suffering- the
tsunami in
1.
What is the cause of
suffering?
Read
1.
Luke 5:17-20
5:17
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5:18
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5:19 �o�]�H�h�B�M���X�k�l��i�h�B�N�W�F�г��B�q�˶���L�s�Ȥl�ب�����B���b�C�q���e�C
5:20 �C�q���L�̪��H�ߡB�N�����l���B�A���o�j�F�C
Luke 5:17-20
Jesus Heals a
Paralytic
17One day as he
was teaching, Pharisees and teachers of the law, who had come from every
18Some men came
carrying a paralytic on a mat and tried to take him into the house to lay him
before Jesus.
19When they could
not find a way to do this because of the crowd, they went up on the roof and
lowered him on his mat through the tiles into the middle of the crowd, right in
front of Jesus.
20When Jesus saw
their faith, he said, ��Friend, your sins are forgiven.��
2.
John 9:1-3
9:1
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9:2
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9:3
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John 9:1-3
Jesus Heals a Man Born Blind
1As he went
along, he saw a man blind from birth.
2His disciples
asked him, ��Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?��
3��Neither this man nor his parents
sinned,�� said Jesus, ��but this happened so that the
work of God might be displayed in his life.
2.
How should people respond
when there is suffering- the tsunami in
Read
1. (Stop mourning
for the dead, but focus on those who are still
living)
Luke 9:59-60
9:59
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9:60
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Luke 9:59-60
59He said to
another man, ��Follow me.�� But the man replied, ��Lord, first let me
go and bury my father.��
60Jesus said to
him, ��Let the dead bury their own dead, but you go and proclaim the
2. (He who believes
in God will inherit eternal life)
John 11:25-26
11:25 �C�q��L���B�_���b�ڡB�ͩR�]�b�ڡD�H�ڪ��H�B���M���F�B�]���_���D
11:26
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John 11:25-26
25Jesus said to
her, ��I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even
though he dies;
26and whoever
lives and believes in me will never die. Do
you believe this?��
3. (Are you well
prepared for your death/salvation?)
Matthew 7:21
7:21
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Matthew 7:21
21��Not everyone
who says to me, ��Lord, Lord,�� will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only
he who does the will of my Father who is in
heaven.
4. (Are you well
prepared for your death/salvation?)
Acts 26:20
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Acts 26:20
I preached that they
should repent and turn to God and prove their repentance by their
deeds.
4/ Meditate #3
(how��s your relationship with God?)
Seeing the massive tsunami, do you panic or feel
insecure about your life? Or do
you have peace and confidence because you trust in the Lord and have
confidence in his salvation, and because you have stored riches not only on
earth but also in heaven?
Read
Matthew 7:24-27
7:24
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7:25
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7:26
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7:27
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Matthew 7:24-27
24��Therefore
everyone who hears these words of mine and puts
them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.
25The rain came
down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did
not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock.
26But everyone who
hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish
man who built his house on sand.
27The rain came
down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it
fell with a great crash.��
God bless you J
Bible
Study (Nov26, 2004)
How to be happier?
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2.
Re-think
#1
1.
What answers
did the Ruler expect?
2.
What did
Jesus imply when saying �����F���@�줧�~�A�A�S���}������?
3.
From Jesus
question: ���|�R�A�O��o���� & Ruler��s
answer: ���o�@���ڱq�p�����u�F��, did the Ruler
understand the essence of the 10 commandments? Why not?
4.
Abraham,
Isaac, Joseph, Solomon, and many others are also very rich & they love God
and are loved by God, so why did the Ruler ���~�T�� & what��s
his problem?
5.
When people
asked ���֯�o�ϩO�� (salvation),
what did Jesus mean by ���b�H�Ҥ������ơA�b���o����?
6.
In this story,
we can notice common people��s (Ruler��s) misconception of Salvation, please
complete the following:
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Christianity |
False Christianity & other
religions |
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1.
Who��s in
charge of Salvation: God or
man? |
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2. How can we get
it? |
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3.
Re-think
#2
Definition of
��Obsession��: an unhealthy
and compulsive preoccupation with something or someone.
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If you were the Ruler, are you willing to forsake your
obsessions and follow Jesus? Why
& why not?
l
Do you realize that your obsession is a barrier
between you & God? (See reference #2)
l
Do you think, after you��ve forsaken your obsessions, your
life will be happier or more boring? (See reference
#2)
4.
Re-think
#3
l
Brainstorm your
obsessions!
l
Pray!
Reference:
#1
Other religions, e.g.
Buddhism (they practise to become perfect), can��t grant us Salvation,
why?
Bible
says:
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Psalm
53:3
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Romans
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7:21-25
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#2
Why is our
obsession a barrier between God & us?
Matthew
6:21,24
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This writing is
on the concept of dating.
Background:
I found that the
dating of many people has deviated from
its original purposes, making it
unfruitful and serving as an excuse for immoral behaviors e.g. premarital
sex�K
I��m thinking the
normal flow of marriage is like 1)
friendship -> 2) dating (or
courtship) -> 3)
marriage.
Here, we
should proceed to (dating/marriage) the next level only if both of us
�P
have thorough understanding that we are a good
match
�P
have the ability (appropriate mentality + attitude) to commit
at a higher level
�P
decide to commit at a
higher level
1)
Friendship: we explore our
future partner in terms of personality, character, personal morality level,
outlook of life, life orientation/goals, and the knowledge of God or
religion. Notice: a deep
understanding of a person��s outlook of life must touch on the topic of God or
religion, with no exceptions. Then,
when:
�P
after an appropriate time,
e.g. a couple years
�P
we have enough
understanding of the person
�P
pretty sure he/she is the
right partner
�P
pretty sure I can really
commit (w/ solid, stable reasons)
we can proceed
to dating.
2)
Dating: we take it
as a trial for marriage, with a
clear goal- getting married. When
we are ready for a lifelong commitment, then we proceed to
marriage.
3)
Marriage: it takes
wisdom to lead a happy, loving marriage.
However,
nowadays, many people date as soon as they ��have feel�� w/o a thorough
understanding of that person.
Dating has so low a commitment in a way, breakup seems normal and
nothing. Also, people date w/o a
definite goal. The worst thing is
couples kiss, hug, touch and even have sex.
Sexual
immorality is horrible! The Bible
says sexual immorality brings death to the soul! Why? It wreaks a loving relationship, as it
corrupts the soul and fills your mind with filthy thoughts. Every time you look at a girl, you won��t
be able to control your mind but thinking of her as a sexual object to gratify
your sexual desires. You just can��t
control your mind! In this way, you
just can��t appreciate the real worth and inner beauty of your girlfriend as your
lovely girlfriend. Sexual sins put
up a barrier between you and your girlfriend. Do your best to shun evil and run away
from sexual immorality!
How can you
know whether she/he is your right partner?
It takes more
than just ��have feel��.
In order to know
with confidence, you need to know yourself really well first. If you want to know your personality,
you need to ask yourself ��what is the meaning of my life?��. If you want to know your meaning of
life, you must come to the topic of religion, w/ no exceptions. There are just 2 options- you are
created w/ a meaning- a meaningful
life, or you are created by random happening of an indifferent god- a meaningless life. You must seriously face this reality and
research about it.
Some might say,
��if you don��t date that person at that particular time, you will lose
him/her.��
This is not
true. Why are you in such a
hurry? Are you now finding someone
to tackle your loneliness or planning for a perfect marriage? If whom you have a crush date anyone as
soon as he/she has feel, I seriously doubt whether his/her attitude will work in
your dating and marriage. He/she is
just not the right one for you, lack of maturity, wisdom and judgment. Also, dating requires commitment! If you aren��t sure or have never thought
about if you will marry him/her, why do you hold her hands, hug her or kiss
her? That��s inappropriate and
actually a shame to God, yourself, your parents, and your
friends.
Some might say,
��I need lots of time to test my partner in dating and need many
years��.
This is not
true. For if you are not sure after
a certain set time say, 1-2 years, you are not going to be sure even if you
spend all your lifetime. If you are
unsure, meditate on the criteria of
testing you have used. The
criterion of this test is the attitude towards life in terms of the deeper
meaning of living, e.g. religious belief, life orientation, instead of some
superficial life habits.
God bless marriages and love! Bless us all w/ wisdom to love like Jesus.
Background:
This writing is intended
for a brief, yet clear answer to ��How
reliable is it to believe in God (Christianity)?��
First of all, we have to
deal with 2 questions ��Why God
exists?�� & ��Why choose
Christianity?��
1.
God��s
existence
2.
Christianity
1.
General
revelation:
We observe created things- humans and the
world.
1.
(from outside us) Origin
of human life and the
earth (Romans
2.
(from within us) Origin
of human
soul
�P
Law of
perfection in humans (morality- love
what��s good and hate what��s wrong)
�P
A
Quest for spiritual meaning and purpose and
satisfaction
(Searching for a ��thing��
which is out of this material world and satisfaction over
materialism)
3.
There exists some
spiritual, supernatural forces e.g.
ghost.
Here, it��s v. reasonable to conclude
that
�P
There is a
God.
We also can
attempt to make a rough
guess:
�P
God might have a beautiful
mind as the world is beautiful.
�P
God doesn��t seem to
intervene our living v. much, in view of some sufferings in this world (it
might be biased as we can��t analyze every single case in this
world!)
At this point, due to a
lack of information, the only thing we can conclude is existence of a God
(transcendent being), however, we have no idea what character this God
has.
2.
Specific
revelation:
God reveals himself to
humans or someone claimed to be
God or of divine nature.
We, then, examine his claim.
Here, we have to deal w/ 3
issues:
1)
Is the Bible a fiction by
men or an honest historical document?
2)
If it��s true, how accurate
is our contemporary Bible?
3)
Is Jesus�� claim to be God
reliable?
1.
Bible (OT(39 books)- 1st
book- 1400 B.C., last book- 400 B.C., NT(27 books): last book- A.D.
90)
1.
Its book nature,
structure & origin
Author: composed of
66 books, 40 authors, on 3 continents, from all social status
(never met one another), written in 1500yrs. with Perfect
harmony- 1 congruent theme w/o
contradictions
�P
Structure and Content: able to survive 1) Bibliographical
test (accuracy of nowadays copies compared to the originals) 2) Internal test of
reliability (content congruence w/o contradictions) 3) External evidence
test of reliability (w/ historical/archeological/scientific
evidence)
|
Work |
Date
Written |
Earliest
Copy |
Time Span
(yrs) |
No. of
copies |
|
Euripides |
450
B.C. |
A.D.
1100 |
1500 |
9 |
|
Sophocles |
450
B.C. |
A.D.
1000 |
1400 |
193 |
|
Catullus |
54
B.C. |
A.D.
1550 |
1600 |
3 |
|
Homer |
900
B.C. |
400
B.C. |
500 |
643 |
|
Bible
(NT) |
A.D.
40-80 |
A.D.
125 |
50 |
24000 |
(It��s a miracle in terms of content accuracy
(95%), intactness and survival (+persecution))
�P
1st generation
believers were mere honest
witnesses (+ mild/peace-loving teaching ) w/o political
intentions (+persecution)(vs. Islam)
2.
Its
message
2.
Not a product of culture- w/
far-advanced wisdom e.g. sanitary sys., wind sys., water sys., etc &
w/o superstitions
�P
Prophesy
accuracy:
1.
1 Jesus�� coming
2.
Further detail- http://www.aboutbibleprophecy.com/accuracy.htm
�P
one of a
kind teaching (2 Jesus claimed to be God w/
miracles & perfect acts, origin of creation, God nature, human nature,
way of salvation, origin of life, origin of evil, a solution to LIFE,
etc)
�P
Jesus�� exclusive
claims: he is the only God,
therefore either he is true and all other religions are false, or he is false
and all else are true. Jesus is either
Lord God or a lying madman.
3.
Believers
(Christians)
�P
Their life quality and
characteristics
(Reliability bases on: do they possess a
life as promised by the Bible after they
believe?)
4.
Ability to cast away the
devil
Here, it��s v. reasonable to
conclude that Jesus is God:
*The above is a v. brief
introduction. In order to
understand it thoroughly, you yourself need to go read the Bible (http://www.biblenotes.net/index.html)
and test it yourself to be sure.
If you have any questions,
e-mail me at [email protected] &
for further information on Christianity, go to http://www.carm.org/
A quote of C.S. Lewis in Mere
Christianity:
In other words, I believe
it on his
authority. Believing
things on authority only means believing them because you have been told them by
someone you think trustworthy. 99%
of the things you believe are believed on authority. I believe there is such a place as
Be open-minded and patient;
understand before making your decision
. God bless you~
Background:
In the 2004 Christmas when I went back HK, I found that
almost all my best friends already have girlfriends. Almost all of them are
non-Christians. In view of this, I
was compelled to give my best wishes to them: ��Love Forever��. For, only if we live in God can there be
forever love; I was compelled to write a testimony on dating and
love.
Dec 21, 04
Dear Turtle,
On Love
My best friend, this time, I would like to share with you
my insight and meditation during my 2 years in
Joseph��s
History:
Background:
You might well know it. I am a v. committed and serious person
in the sense of living my life. I
always have a passion and zeal to live the best ever life- always happy, full of
LIFE (full of energy & passion), and full of wonderful relationships e.g.
friends, girlfriend, wife, family...
My attitude: happiness is out
there waiting for me, let��s get it and be happy!
Therefore, in terms of dating, I always strive
to
1.
be the best loving
bf
2.
treat my gf as well as possible that she
can be one of the happiest girl ever
3.
have a forever loving relationship that
will proceed to marriage, while contrary to the common myth , there��s no
boredom, but always ��have feel��, full of love, passion and
surprises.
Form 6:
Back in Form 6, while some of my good friends like Chocolate�K already had girlfriends and
I didn��t, I wasn��t anxious to find one as soon as possible. Rather, I��m anxious to build up myself
as an ideal boyfriend. The reason
is my attitude (as described above) strongly motivates me: the most important thing is not when my
girlfriend will come, but, how well prepared I am as a boyfriend and for a
forever, happy, loving relationship!
I do not want an ordinary, unhappy dating (full of conflict & ��no
feel��); I want the best, happiest dating!
So, in Form 6, you can see I read a lot of self-help books and
psychological books on topics of ��How to live a happy life?��, ��How to love?��
etc. and I also observe how my good friends treat their
gf��s.
I learnt one
thing back then. There are 2 types of love- 1) real love (unfailing & forever)
& 2) fake love (lust, easily
fail & short-term)
2)
This love is
v. v. v. common among most couples.
It is self-fulfilling or self-centered love, which means ��I love you on
the conditions that�K e.g. I ��have feel��, I��m happy, you are pretty, or you treat
me good�K�� Once the conditions fail,
the relationship breaks up. You can
see many couples break up because of ��no feel��. This love can never be forever. It is not 100% happy and ��have
feel��. Even if in some rare cases
it might last long, the couple is unhappy & ��no
feel��.
1)
This love is not v. common (only the wise loves in this way, e.g. Joseph Wong). It��s other-centered love, which means ��I
love you no matter what & unconditionally��, and you focus all your mind and
all your heart on ��How can I make her happier?�� instead of ��How can I be
happier?��. This love is forever.
Contrary to common myth, it��s not
boring at all! Instead, you get the
total satisfaction and 100% happiness and the real security in love. Why? Because you have nothing to lose in this
case; you love so your heart is flooding with love and ��good feel��. Perfect
delight!
If you understand what I��m talking above, you will
understand that if anyone who really wants the best, happiest and forever
dating, he/she must use love 1.
Form 7:
Then in Form 7, I met Julie
(my first love). I used love 1 and our dating was v. v. v.
good. Our communication was almost
perfect, e.g. we shared about all things, e.g. her ex-bf��s and the girls I liked
before (I even told her I liked Sue)�K
The first 6 months is v. good.
However, as time went by, my love started to change from love 1 to love 2! Our relationship started to deteriorate,
worse & worse, little by little, and finally broke up after
1yr3mth.
Year 1:
After that, I started to meditate on one thing seriously. Why did I turn from ��have feel�� to ��no
feel�� with Julie? How can I prevent it and always ��have
feel�� in a relationship? It is v.
important and critical to my LIFE (yours too)! If I (you) cannot settle this matter, my
(your) next relationship is going to turn from ��have feel�� to ��no feel�� and fail
like my previous one!
I couldn��t find a solution. L
Year 2:
I got some inspirations. In
the past, I always thought about how to ��have feel�� and I never thought about
what is the cause (reason) of ��have feel�� (effect). Using a cause & effect model, I
meditated. I realized then my
��feel�� disappeared because I based my ��have feel�� on wrong, shaky, unstable,
easily changing cause (once the cause changes, the effect (feel) goes
away)! What��s wrong is that I based
my ��feel�� on ��whether I have ��feel�� or not��- a self-fulfilling/self-centered
attitude (love 2). Love 1 is the ONLY way for an always
happy and ��have feel�� dating relationship!
Then I started to meditate on one problem seriously. OK, now, I know love 1 is the solution. But, how can I carry it out? This is a BIG question! Why? I knew it full well that love 1 is better than love 2. I know Love 2 is never gonna work! But I did switch from love 1 to love 2 with Julie finally! That means I have a desire to do what is
right, but I cannot carry it out! I
need something more than intellectual reason- a super strong motivation to
support my attitude! If I (you)
cannot figure it out, I (you) still can��t have a happy, secure, & perfect
dating!
Finally, this matter is indirectly settled. I got the SOLUTION and I am well
pleased! J
In the 2nd semester, at my church, my pastor recommended me a
Christian book titled ��Purpose-Driven
Life�� by Rick Warren (a
best-seller) which talks about the meaning of life. Even before I read it, I was v.
interested as you know I am always interested at finding the meaning of life and
living a good, happy life (at that time I didn��t know what��s my meaning of life,
so I just make up one temporarily- love people around so that everyone can be
happy together). Then when I read
the 1st chapter, I was captured by a
sentence:
��You didn��t create yourself (God created you), so there
is no way you can tell yourself what you were created for (your meaning of
life)!��
O MY �K, how come I never thought this way? I never attended my church seriously and
read the Bible seriously! How much
I have missed!
Then I seriously analyze the Bible. It gives me the solution on how to love
unconditionally (love 1). It works! You, like me, must have heard people
say:
1.
For God so
loved the world, that he gave his one and only son, that whoever believes in him
will not perished but have everlasting life.
2.
This is how
we know what love is, Jesus Christ laid down his life for
us.
3.
We love
because God first loved us.
It makes no sense to me before. However, after I read the Bible, I
understand it now.
��God loves
me�� means A LOT! It even means
more than Julie loves me or I love Julie. Seriously, it��s true (Joseph Wong is an expert here)! Therefore, now, I get a super strong,
solid motivation to love unconditionally in any relationships. I am sure I can make it next
time!
My best friend, this is a v. brief description of what has happened to me
in these few years. If any
questions, ask me~ You know, I am
always a happy person, but now, I can assure you that I am even a couple times
happier than the past after this DISCOVERY! I seriously recommend you to attend the
church and CHECK IT OUT! It is one
of the happiest moments in my life!
It would well be yours too!
CHECK IT OUT!
Love with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind and all your
strength!
Always support!
Joseph