1) You cannot lose your temper, speed, yell, or raise your voice in an argument.
You should never use your loved ones weaknesses against them during the time
of an argument.
2) You cannot pass judgment on each other when you are not
certain of the facts, and if you’re suspicious, you cannot bring it up
unless you have enough facts to back up what you’re saying.
3) You must
leave the past in the past.
4) You must always comfort the loved one that is in need of comfort.
5) You must always understand when your loved one is in need of time for their family, friends, school work, or simply time to themselves to recuperate.
6) You can never talk about relationship issues with friends and family unless completely necessary.
7) Once a week you should set aside time to reflect on the relationship, a quiet time to yourself to be thankful for what you have and to appreciate your loved one for whom he/she is and how much you care for them.
8) During a time of arguing, you must never leave your loved one alone no matter how intense the argument may get even if it means standing in the distance to watch and protect them from harm.
9) You must not allow your loved one to feel unappreciated and if you feel that this is happening, immediately take time to reflect and respond with a sincere heart.
10) You should be responsible when spending money and trust your loved one enough to share with them your financial status, and also set aside a weekly allowance so that money will not be an issue any longer.