What you can do not repeat your behaviour (or these tendencies of the mind) forever and to be ever unhappy? First: reflect and reread this info from above until you illuminate really on these matters. Second: behave naturally (this mean you must make an effort to eliberate from the tendencies above), try to be conscient for observing the thoughts from your mind and try to act freely of these or any already made judgements about any or everything. Follow the way of intuition and start living 100% what you do. The meaning of this is that you must (must is not the correct word but I not know english so well - better will be - "naturally feel to" or "intuitive feel to") do what you do every day with maximum atention and conscience. Ex.: when you eat don't think at tralala or football, girls, boys, etc, try & gain succes in be there when you eating. This advice applies on absolute everything you are doing daily. Of help can be daily listening of meditation music like KITARO or STEVEN HALPERN or VANGELIS or ENYA - I prefer KITARO. Also on every day ending you must analyse if you're making progress. At human being the progress is seen after cca. 2 months, of course this may vary uppon your effort. If after a long period of time you do not feel progress, your mind will tell you to stop this nonsense. You must understand that your mind (when is uncontrolled) is against your hapiness and spiritual progress. You must continuing these daily efforts to grow because these efforts will be taken by subconscient and will be automatised in some procents. But you need to be conscient all the time. Spend more time in the nature (if no nature aproach - no escape from your boring life), the nature (God) will teach you all if you seat there, just be there with no talks, alone, with no thinkings. The harmony of nature will install in you and after a while (if acompanied with natural food - more cruel - also) and you will feel that you are born again. If you are succesfull try silently influence others to grow spiritualy. Do not be infatuate - this a tendency of your mind - and continue to behave naturally. If you feel after progressing a egotic need to tell others what good you are, better go in nature to achieve equilibrium.
The principal idea or law of nature (Tantra says also) is to be in all actions equilibrate & conscient in the same time. Ask yourself before thinking or doing a action: is equilibrate (in the face of divine) or serves to the interests of divine harmony and really serves yourself this? Or your ego (ego is uncontrolled mind) try to impose to you this? Try to eliminate the impulsive animalic behaviours, and do not be so quick on decisions but be profound. This distinguish us from animals. Do not make excesses of any kind. If you are or becoming an equilibrate in what you do, you will feel harder & harder that hapiness begin to surround you.
Another important thing: feel presence of extasy of God in everything - this include yourself. Maybe at the begining is only a imaginary effort but soon you will really feel an extasy that has never happend to you until now.
If you feel that your job don't let you be like you wish to be, happy and innocent, change it! God will help you, but don't give upt and achieve your spiritual goals all the time!
I'll continue to update on this chapter (1)!
By now with love for everyone!