What draws us to the fire? We know we could get burnt. It’s the heat and color of the flames, not what makes it that way. When we feed off each other’s minds, a hunger is satisfied but the seduction is not complete.

"Tell me how much you love me", she says.

It’s all down hill after that. It’s the dress rehearsal for the hell that’s going to come after that. It’s the prayer that you recite mindlessly but becomes a part of your credo. You know that as you rehearse her credos, her "10 I love you’s" and her "5 I can’t live without you", the leash is slowly being slipped around your neck. Can man be blamed if in general they don’t care for the female mind? Aren’t women aware of the fact that what keeps us away from their minds is our weakness and fear of their superior one?

We know once we get involved with that superior intellect that nothing we ever say will make sense and we will be given that look of "there you go again with… whatever". You see woman is the maker and breaker of man. She is also the braker in the sense that man will stop at any length to get a glimpse at a good looking woman. She is also the one capable of making man brake in life, screeching to a halt with a glance or a wary comment and it’s because "she knows us".

Man must be afraid to be blackmailed by a woman because she knows the secrets, she has seen you perform. Oh! the threat of being exposed as a sexual non-savant, A non-mover, a lousy shaker. We know that the key to our manhood is in a woman’s hand. Yes, she can emasculate with a comment or offhand phrase. We are left to woe our predicament of pain and our situation of recluse.

"Thank god for playboy" we say, "and beer commercials". That’s our payback.

When we ogle at beautiful girls and we let our women know, " I may be your slave but …he he he. " Of course, than she’ll ask you if her ass looks too big in those jeans. Be careful what you say, be careful what you do. Be aware at all times that any ass you glance at, any comment you make to a male friend that is overheard can be used against you and will be filed away in her mind for future reference. Any comment. The elephant can remember. Woman can never forget.