JOANNE
Hiya...Thank you ever so
much for visiting our site.
Joanne is a heterosexual CrossDresser married to Lisa who is fully aware of this offering lots of help and encouragement.
On this site both Joanne and Lisa will give an honest opinion on CrossDressing and living with it as part of our everyday lives.
Lisa used to do voluntary work talking to partners of CrossDresser's who may have had a hard time dealing with it but due to lack of time had to give it up which is a real shame.
We were featured in a magazine and asked to appear on television to talk about living with CrossDressing but declined the offer due to circumstances at the time.
Joanne
has been dressing since her teens even though she knew from a very early age that she
wanted to dress she had to leave it until then.
Like many CrossDressers at first dressing gave a certain sexual pleasure but Joanne knew that there was more to it than that and soon realised that when dressed she felt more comfortable and relaxed. It just seemed to be the normal natural thing to do.
Joanne decided to tell girlfriends about her dressing as soon as she started having relationships as it simply wouldn't have been fair on anyone to keep it a secret and could save heart ache later. Luckily she had no negative response though it was always a shock they all accepted it.
Joanne
tries to be as convincing as possible when dressed which is most of the time and tends to
go for the girl next door look rather than going overboard with make up etc. (It would be
too easy to look like the bride of Frankenstein's creation in the making). Joanne is not
into fetish style clothes.
Lisa helps Joanne with her make up as well buying her clothes and advising on style and deportment. We have been into the world together which is great fun though scary.
We decided after much deliberation to go on the internet to let people know about us. The response we have had has been wonderful and we haven't looked back since...We have made some friends and it is great writing to others that really do understand what we are all about.
The most important thing is respecting your partners wishes.
We all have limits that we can tolerate and things shouldn't go beyond this or it will ruin the moment and probably put your partner off in the future.
Ideally
we would like to think that anyone who would want to tell their partners of their desires
could show them our site as an example...If this is ever the case we would love to hear
about what happened..Please remember though that we cannot be held responsible for your
choice...This site is purely for information purposes and to show what many would call an
alternative life style.
JOANNE: I have been dressing since my teens and in all honesty
don't think I could get by if I didn't. I have tried stopping in the past but got really
stressed and could not bear it. I thought I would go mad. I have even thrown everything
away to help stop which was a big mistake as I ended up spending a small fortune replacing
everything and it took ages (Never again). I learned to accept what I am a long time ago
and though I used to be worried about others knowing and what they thought I could not
care less now. If anyone has a problem it is their problem and not mine. I live near
enough full time femme now as it just seems to be the right thing for me to do. Many
CrossDressers get in touch with both of us as they cannot tell their loved ones. My 
heart goes out to them as CrossDressing is harmless and doesn't hurt anyone.
I also get emails from wives / girlfriends asking for advice which I try to give as
honestly as I possibly can. I can't promise to put things right but I will always try to
help as much as I can. If I can help in an way please email me.
LISA: Before I got to know Joanne I had no idea what a
CrossDresser was. I always thought they were like drag queens until Joanne explained it
all in detail. It was a shock when Joanne told me to be honest but as I knew nothing about
it I asked her to dress for me and I would do the make up to ease things for her a little.
I went completely overboard and when Joanne saw it she said it looked awful, remember I
was thinking of drag queens. Anyway Joanne did it again. The difference was astonishing,
very natural. She had a lot of experience with make up and had a tremendous amount of
cosmetics (Far more than me). The final touch was the wig and clothes. Joanne asked me to
stay away when she did this and dressed. When she returned I could not believe it was my
boyfriend. I knew it was still him but it was like looking at a stranger. I was stunned
until she spoke 
and it really sank in. We chatted through the night and after
a while I didn't even notice the change. It was still my boyfriend in every way except for
the clothes etc. I noticed that Joanne was very clam and relaxed when dressed and I really
liked this. Joanne spends a lot of time dressed now and that is fine with me. It doesn't
matter what a person looks like it is what is underneath that counts and though Joanne is
now my husband and lover she is also my best friend and I find it easier to talk to her
about women's issues etc which is wonderful. She could talk about clothes all day. After a
while I heard about so many CrossDressers that lived in secret as they were worried about
telling their partners so I volunteered to do all I could to help through an organisation.
This was great and we made some good friends but due to lack of time I could not commit as
much as I would have liked so I had to stop which was a shame but I still make time to
help by answering emails etc. If you think I can help at all please write and I will see
what I can do.
Thank you for visiting our site. We hope it will help you to tell other people about your CrossDressing.
Remember CrossDressing is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about and it is all harmless.
I ALSO ADORE DAMSEL IN DISTRESS SCENARIOS WHERE I
AM TIED UP AND GAGGED AS YOU CAN SEE IN THE PHOTO.
JOANNE'S LINKS