Do opposites attract? A question asked long before most people that are still alive today were even born. I think i may have an answer to it. There are two answers yes and no. Think about it. You can't stand being around someone who is exactly like you, the things they do remind you of yourself and do nothing but make you angry because deep down everyone is inconfident. On the other hand you cannot be complete opposites. Anyone will tell you that being with someone you have nothing in common with makes it impossible to have a good decent relationship. So i developed a phrase that entails both..."Exactly Different". "Exactly Different" means that you have a little of both. The person you love has attributes that are very unlike your own and this helps fill a void in your heart. They make you do the things you should do but don't and you make them do the things that they should do but don't. You complete each other. Your empty spaces in your heart and everyday life are filled. If you don't go to church often but know you should and you are with a steady church goer then that person will get you to go and it makes you an all around better person. Now on the other hand you have to have things in common. Even if its just little things such as your brothers have the same name and you like the same movies. Maybe you and this person both love musicals and can go to them together. All and all there has to be qualitys in each other that are the same to hold the relationship together. If you have this person already don't lose them. They possibly are the person to fill your voids and to make your life a complete one. Also they are the person who you can go to when you want to go see a movie or musical. They are the ones who will do anything for you. Take the advice because when you lose them or even come close it opens the original void up and it is the worst feeling ever. Before you met them you didn't really know there was a void there but after they leave you it is a void that seems like it will never be filled.
Joshua Kirven |