JAYJAY's THIRD THEORY -
HATE
Wow, you are reading my third theory now.
Impressive, just to think my poor grammar would piss you off and for you to
hate my writing. But I guess if you have gotten this far, you must don't mind
my poor grammar and must really love me! YEA! I'm so honored!
(people who says they just read this to kill time, shush,
I don't need to know the truth ;-)
Well, now, it's time to get serious, as HATE is a very
serious matter. In this world, in this dimension, in this planet, in this
reality, everything have it's opposites. Strong vs. Weak; Water vs. Fire;
Black vs. White; and of course, Love vs. Hate. As much as I DISLIKE hate,
it's a part of us, and part of us that we cannot escape from. Hate is part
of human emotions as love, happiness, joy, sad, and it's something that makes
us human, and something we can't lose. I also have HATE, but I try to understand
it, overcome it and not get it to me. HATE is acceptable, but at a reasonable
level, but when HATE turns in to a murder cause and causes people pain, that's
when I get angry. Everyone have hate, we talk about it, we think about it,
we joke about it, and that's where HATE should end, right there. But when
HATE turns into like Hitler, that is something not acceptable at all. We HAVE
to control HATE.
Hate is an horrible thing to have, hate in people have lead pains, and sufferings. It led to nothing good, it only led things and people in agony. Is HATE like LOVE? Where there is love there is hate? I think that, hate and love have to coexists, and whether you like it or not, it has to be that way. But I think the way people HATE, the steps, the reasons, is very different from LOVE. Let me explain, in Love, I think it doesn't need to be developed, it just comes out within us, and it has no steps nor reasons, it just exists. While hate on the other hand is a very different case, because hate doesn't just 'come out'; it got its steps that leads to HATE. HATE is all started when people don't understand one matter, one subject, or one event, etc. When people don't understand, their brains tell them to fear. Like ghosts for example, why do we fear them? Because we don't understand ghosts, and we fail to understand them and then labeling them evil. As our fear increases it turns to HATE, and that's when things start to get ugly. People getting murdered, people getting injured both physically and mentally.
What can we do about HATE if we can't get rid of it? Easy, you overcome it. I have HATE, but I will never act anything stupid from HATE. Because when you do that, and I can promise you, later on in life you will regret it. You should ask yourself why you 'HATE' a certain thing, and then ask yourself, "is it necessary to HATE? Or is there a better solution?"
HATE, Don't EVER act upon it.
~JAYJAY aug2001