JayJay's SECOND theory-
L...O...V...E
Hello again, welcome to my SECOND theory. This will be about LOVE, as this is one of 'important' emotions in Humans.
What I think about LOVE? Easy, it's something you cant live with, also something you cant live without it. Easy as that, in Love, a emotion no one had been able to fully understand. Then again, no Human Emotion had been fully understanable. Love, what is love? Someone of opposite sex? A relationship? Family kinda thing?
Even I don't understand love, but here is my theory. To love, there is a concept. In order for a couple to truly be IN LOVE, is by giving love. See the word, GIVING? Love is not give only by one side and return by another. It doesn't work, and it is not TRUE LOVE. For a couple to love eachother, each person HAVE TO give out their love toward eachother, and does not feel the need for their love to be returned. Love isn't like a present, where you give one to your friend and your friend give one to you just because you give your friend one. So, what do I mean by all this? Easy. When you are in LOVE with someone, and you give off love, YOU DO NOT, SHOULD NOT, expect it to be returned. You can't expect that, after you have expressed your love that IT HAS to be returned, that the person will HAVE to HAVE a relationship with you, because it does not work that way. Only way a relationship would work is by 2 people give off love to each other, and that's all they do, they shouldn't, WILL NOT, feel obligate to return the love they've received, but giving off their love only because they wanted it.
Love does not have limit, meaning, it should be understood by all people, because everyone, no matter how mean, or evil they are, they still have the emotion of LOVE. Funny thing is, people don't understand the concept of love, what it really is. Love is giving off by people, and people use things such as kissing and hugging to express their love. Love should be accepted by all people, yet it isn't. Why can't sibling fall in love? Why can't relatives fall in love? Why is so bad about gays and lesbians? Why is so bad about higher class and lower class together? Why is so bad about interacial relationships? The answer I've come up with, is none. There is no reason why they cant be accepted. Time after time, I've seen violent acts, horrible acts from people who tries to stop all this. Who have such an narrow mind that they think only a relation would work when there is a boy and a girl, from same class, from same race, and not related by blood. That, that is the ONLY love, and ONLY love accepted. I cant understand that, who the hell is these people think they are?! Putting their goddamn nose where they don't belong, it's love, and it's simple as that, and it's not hurting other, so why the hell they even bother to care?! When 2 people are in love, they are in love, and I WILL WISH THE BEST FOR THEM, I will not judge if this couple is interracial. Or they are gay. Or they are related. Because these things does not matter in a relationship. It's not about the looks, it's the inside. Love is about souls touch, about the connections between the 2 persons. I don't care if a couple is gay or not, if they say their souls touch, that they fill eachother's half, then I ENVY them, because the love they share is the LOVE I want in my relationship.
What I want in life, is also love, that someone else who can fill my half. Everyone's got a missing puzzle piece inside them, and everyone spends all their life, searching for that missing piece. Some people end up in pain, some in joy, some indifferent, some never finds it. I want that person to love for who I am, and I want to love that person also for who it is. I want that person, where I can always talk to, always have a never ending conversation, we would just talk till the night away. A person I would feel safe next to, no only this person protects me but also me protects this the person. I want this person, where I can tell all my secret to and this person will understand everything about me. I want the person to accept me, my goods, my bads. I will never return the love this other person give me, because I will always keep that in my heart. If I also love this person, I will give MY love, and would never expect it to be returned. I want this person to be my SOULMATE, my friend, someone I can have fun with, someone who shares my interests, understands me, loves me, have great conversations. Outside is never important to me, because outside always dies away, like a rose that withers right after it's bloom. What I care is the inside, the connection this person and I shares, that's what I care about the most.
What am I going with this? What is my point. I have none, this is just what I think. I'm trying to say, if you think LOVE is about looks, that it's about people with opposite sex, it's about people who is in the same race, then you are dead wrong. Because the gender thing, the race thing, the class thing, that's all bullshit. That's just what we look like, because our souls are all the same, it doesn't have a shape nor a color. It's water that TAKES shape and TAKES color, and it's those various shape and water that make up for who we are. When these souls touch, and it sparks, and it fits like a jigsaw puzzle, then that is when you say, THAT IS LOVE. Looks are unchangable, it's what we were born with and what we going to die as, and we cannot change something like that. But our souls, our mind, our heart, our senses, those change, and those influence others, and it's those what I see as the MOST IMPORTANT.
"Yuan" or FATE is also part of love, but I will explain this in my Theory 4 - Friend, plz check it out.
Then again, what would a 16 year old know anything about love?! :- >
6-25-01 ~JAYJAY