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Women Working At Home - Is it Possible?
These answers are taken from Islam QA. They
are followed by information given by myself on how to work from your home and
still take care of your home duties.
This
first answer is part of an article from Islam QA. I chose not to use the
whole article because the beginning discussed "fiances." This
was not relevant to our topic so it was left out.
Answer
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The
woman’s role which befits her and is appropriate for her is for her to stay in
her house and take care of the house and look after her husband and children, if
Allaah blesses them with children. This is important work that is not
insignificant. With regard to working outside the house, this does not suit
women’s nature in principle, but if she needs to do that then she may do the
kind of job that is most closely suited to her nature, whilst adhering to Allaah’s
commands to cover herself, lower her gaze and not mix with men in a haraam way,
etc.
Shaykh
‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
It
is well known that for a woman to go out and work in men's fields leads to
blameworthy mixing and her being alone with them. This is a very serious matter
that leads to bitter consequences. It goes against the texts of Islam that
command women to stay in their houses and do the work that suits the nature that
Allaah has given them, which keeps them away from mixing with men.
The
sound evidence clearly indicates that it is forbidden to mix with non-mahram
women and to look at them, and it forbids the means that lead to falling into
that which Allaah has forbidden. There is a great deal of clear evidence that
definitively shows that the mixing which leads to bad consequences is forbidden.
For example, Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And
stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of
ignorance, and perform As‑Salaah (Iqamat‑as‑Salaah), and give
Zakaah and obey Allaah and His Messenger. Allaah wishes only to remove Ar‑Rijs
(evil deeds and sins) from you, O members of the family (of the Prophet), and to
purify you with a thorough purification.
And
remember (O you the members of the Prophet’s family, the Graces of your Lord),
that which is recited in your houses of the Verses of Allaah and Al‑Hikmah
(i.e. Prophet’s Sunnah legal ways, so give your thanks to Allaah and glorify
His Praises for this Qur’aan and the Sunnah). Verily, Allaah is Ever Most
Courteous, Well‑Acquainted with all things”
[al-Ahzaab
33:33-34]
“O
Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to
draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies (i.e. screen themselves
completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way). That will be better, that
they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And
Allaah is Ever Oft‑Forgiving, Most Merciful”
[al-Ahzaab
33:59]
“Tell
the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and
protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts). That is purer for them.
Verily, Allaah is All‑Aware of what they do.
And
tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things),
and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts) and not to show off
their adornment except only that which is apparent (like both eyes for necessity
to see the way, or outer palms of hands or one eye or dress like veil, gloves,
headcover, apron), and to draw their veils all over Juyoobihinna (i.e. their
bodies, faces, necks and bosoms) and not to reveal their adornment except to
their husbands, or their fathers, or their husband’s fathers…”
[al-Noor
24:30-31]
The
Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “Beware of entering upon
women” – meaning non-mahram women. It was said, “O Messenger of Allaah,
what do you think about the in-laws?” He said, “The in-law is death.” The
Messenger
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) also forbade being alone with a
non-mahram woman under any circumstances, and said, “The third one present is
the Shaytaan.” And he forbade women to travel except with a mahram, so as to
ward off the means that may lead to evil and to close the door to sin, and to
protect both parties from the snares of the Shaytaan. Hence it was narrated in a
saheeh report that he said, “Beware of this world and beware of women, for the
first fitnah (trial) that befell the Children of Israel had to do with women.”
And he
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I am not leaving behind me
in my ummah any fitnah that is more harmful for men than women.”
Thus the verses and ahaadeeth
clearly state that it is obligatory to keep away from the mixing that leads to
evil, disintegration of families and the destruction of societies. When we look
at the situation of women in some Muslim countries we will see that they have
lost their dignity because of their going out of their homes and having to work
in fields that are not theirs. Wise people in these countries and in the west
have said that it is essential for women to go back to their natural position
for which Allaah has prepared them physically and mentally, but it is too late
(for them).
In
the fields of work that women can do in their homes and in teaching and other
suitable fields, there are plenty of jobs which mean that they have no need to
work in men's fields.
From
al-Shaykh Ibn Baaz wa Muwaafaqatuhu al-Thaabitah, no. 22.
Shaykh
Muhammad al-Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen said:
The
fields of work that are open to women are those in which women specialize, such
as girls’ education, whether this is a administrative or technical work; or
working in her home sewing clothes for women, and so on. With regard to working
in fields in which men specialize, it is not permissible for women to work in
these fields because that requires mixing with men, which is a great fitnah
(trial, temptation) that we must beware of. It should be noted that it is proven
that the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I am not leaving behind me
in my ummah any fitnah that is more harmful for men than women.”
So men should keep their
wives away from the things that lead to fitnah, by all means possible.
Fataawa al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah,
2/981.
Question 2
I am a muslim woman raised with basic Islamic teachings
but overall in a more Western way - educated abroad in a European university,
and worked thereafter in a large multinational following what is traditionally
known as the "career path". This way of life has been encouraged by
the parents and the lifestyle under which I have been raised. Furtheremore as
my parents are no longer working I have become the financial support for the
family. I am currently living alone at 31 years in a Western country where
there are no Arabs or Mulsims around. And due to my Islamic upbriging find
myself islolated from my surroundings as I have no interest in going to
parties, bars, dating etc....
My choices are 2. To return home under the parents umbrella and settle for any
work to keep me busy and if lucky find a husband. This will however mean
sacrificing income at least for the short term which will be difficult for the
family as well as sacrificing a very good position at the company I am in. Or
alternately continue in this career path hoping that someday I will meet a
good muslim man who can help me live a more mulsim way of life.
What is the isalmic point of view in such instances.
Answer 2 :
Praise be to Allaah.
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The choice facing our sister is a choice
between what is right and what is wrong, between what is halaal and what
is haraam.
Hence we can only advise our sister to
protect the best thing that she possesses, which is her religion and
chastity, and to stay with her family so as to protect herself and be
among those who will protect her. Perhaps Allaah will make it easy for her
to find work that is acceptable according to sharee’ah, and a righteous
husband. We give her the glad tidings of the hadeeth of the Prophet (SAW)
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “Whoever gives up something
for the sake of Allaah, Allaah will compensate him with something better
than that.” (Classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani – may Allaah have
mercy on him – in Hijaab al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah).
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How many brothers and sisters have left
their work– even when they were earning lots of money – leaving for
the sake of Allaah after learning that the environment they were in went
against Islamic rulings, then Allaah opened many ways for them and gave
them a bountiful provision, and guided their hearts to something better
than they had been following before.
We also want to remind our sister about
her parents, and tell her that staying with them and taking care of them
is much better than being apart from them. She should not pay attention to
their wishes that she should do work that is not acceptable according to
sharee’ah. Many people are keen for worldly things, and they do not pay
attention to the forbidden and objectionable things that may surround the
work their daughters and sons do.
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Striving for the purpose of this transient
world at the expense of one’s religion is not something that we accept
for our sisters or daughters, or for the sister who is asking this
question.
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You should not pay any attention to the
fact that this is an international company or that the salary is tempting.
That does not mean anything if it also brings the wrath of Allaah. It is
bad enough that you are with non-mahram men at work, let alone that you
are in a country where there are no Muslims. Moreover, you may have to
travel without a mahram to the kuffaar countries and stay among them. You
may be living in a house on your own, which poses a danger to your
religious commitment, your person and your honour, as is quite obvious.
The Islamic texts indicate that it is haraam for women to mix with men, to
travel without a mahram and to settle among the kuffaar.
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Your idea of isolating yourself of which
you speak may not last for long, because of the many temptations and the
lack of help and support. The path of evil starts with one step, and if a
person follows it, it may be difficult for him to think of himself and his
Hereafter. By the Grace of Allaah towards you, you are seeking advice and
knowledge of the Islamic rulings, so do not feel any regrets about this
world. Simple things are sufficient for the one who is content with what
Allaah gives him; it is greed that destroys taqwa and robs people of their
common sense.
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There is nothing to stop you from looking
for work that is acceptable according to sharee’ah, especially since
some companies now employ people at home, letting them do their work via
the Internet. This may be a suitable alternative, especially for Muslim
women.
We ask Allaah to guide you to that which
will be beneficial for you, and to protect your religious commitment, for He
is the One Who is the Guardian of that and is Able to do that. May Allaah
bless our Prophet Muhammad.
And Allaah knows best.
Islam Q&A
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid (www.islam-qa.com)
My Information
Given these two sets of evidence, it
seems that the better place for a woman to work is in her home. This
avoids mixing, temptation, marital distrust and every other evil that can come
from mixing. In the articles it talks about doing work like teaching
girls and such. If this is done outside of the home, it is acceptable
because the woman will be dealing with other women.
Do not confuse "having to
work" and "wanting to work" outside of the home. I
have not yet found evidence that wanting to work outside of the home and mix
and talk with men when it is not a necessity is acceptable. Even if it
was a need, precautions must still be taken to guard yourself from temptation.
So How Does A Muslimah Find a Work At
Home Job? Right Here!
I have been officially working from my
home for a couple of years now and I like doing it. I work when I
want to, I have no contact with any of my customers except by email and by
phone (not very often though). I get extra money when I need or want it
and I am still at home with my husband and kids. Did I forget to say
that I also homeschool and have a couple of web sites (like this one for
instance)? I totally set my own hours and can stop and start when I feel
like it.
What I want you to do is explore your
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