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| now, and of all these weird stories that you never knew took place. With this added knowledge, it leads to vulnerability. This means that you have the upper hand b/c they shared something personal with you. And along with vulnerability comes emotional attachment, for they feel a connection b/n the two of you. See the weird thing is that you can share nothing about yourself to someone...and they spill their guts out to you...and all of a sudden, they are emotionally attached. Weird, right? So that's why IM game works so well. I mean, picture this shy, cowardly computer geek who has no social skills...and he went to a retreat and got all the screen names of all the people in his small group (since this is socially acceptable, remember?) and then he IMs some girl in his small group and they end up talking a lot. Well, actually, SHE ends up talking a lot. And she spills her guts to this guy. And he just sits there typing "uh huh" and "yeah". All of a sudden, she is left vulnerable and then emotionally attached to the guy. All of a sudden, he is her best friend and loves him for being such a good listener. So this guy got a girl by just sitting there typing "uh huh" and "yeah", when in actuality he was probably playing Counterstrike (a computer game) during the whole conversation! Now he has you wrapped around his finger. you like that? hahaha. so THAT is why IM game works so well. it may not be the most prestigious of "games" to be a master in, but hey, if it works, it works. For some people, IM game is all they got. Some guys have REAL WORLD game AND CHURCH game, yet still use IM game as well...in order to cover all aspects of life. (Mike "Mikey Baby" Kim). Tune in next week for the more humorous side of my plan...the part where I reveal secrets of IM and hidden strategies to make your game the best it can be! |
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