POINT #5: CHURCH GAME IS EVEN TOUGHER
Church game is even harder, though. Why? Well, granted, you don't have to be the best looking guy to have church game. You don't need money or a nice job...you just gotta be a nice guy...good personality and a humble heart. Girls at church are more likely to get to know you as a person, regardless of first impressions based on appearance. Not only that, but you also get to work your game no in a matter of hours (like in RW game at a party), but over the course of several years. Though this all may make church game seem EASIER, it is actually harder. Why? Because though time may look like it is on your side (since you have more time to "work your magic"), time is actually an enemy. You are more likely to slip up and look bad over the course of years than over the course of a few hours. People hear things about you. Gossip flies. Rumors go wild. That one time you got into a fight with some guy at WIMPE? All the girls know. That time you were seen smoking your freshman year? All the girls know. That time you saw "Basic Instinct: Director's Cut" on DVD? All the girls know. See, in church game, you gotta watch yourself 24/7, cuz you know that anything bad you do will get out...adn when the girls find out, ITS OVER. THE GAME IS OVER. GAME OVER!!! No extra lives, no secret powerups, no adding extra quarters to continue. GAME OVER. They see that you didn't hold the door open for a girl? GAME OVER. You forgot to pray before a meal? GAME OVER. You have FAR/PAR people in your car and you drop them all off at PAR instead of dropping some of them off at PAR and then driving over to FAR to drop the rest of them off? GAME OVER. Just like that, your rep is ruined. At a party, you can do many things to alter your appearance or to make yourself look "cooler" than you really are. But with church game, there ain't nuthin you can do about your rep. When you have a white sheet of paper with a black dot in the middle, everyone notices the black dot, not all the white surrounding it.
Conclusion:
Well, that's it. That's my thing on "game". Does this all make sense to you? Have I enlightened you all? Well, remember, this plan is very BASIC and GENERAL. As with any other plan I write, there are always exceptions (such as guys who think they have real world game but for some reason only hang out at church and hit on church girls...the rebels who are too cool for church but too dorky for the real world...people who have both real world game AND church game.) I would write about them, but this plan is long enough as it is. |
