Life. l always had a belief: that all things are changing and we are changing with them. And somehow I found this applicable in all aspects of life. Life per se, is no joy ride. Life is worked for to have an enjoyable life. As what the Greek would say: It is man who makes their own destiny. We make our own paths. And it is very important in an early age to develop integrity. Outline what you want in life and make the best out of it, considering of course the resources. Life is a spiral. It's no circle for me. People should learn from experiences. Experiences should always be a good teacher to guide us what we want in the future.
In life, integrity is important. It's the foundation of trust. A sense of character, humor are aspects which can make life a bit spicy as it is.
Love. I do believe that there is one person in life which is really meant for you. And having that person would give a feeling of complicity. Well, I thought I did before. But I was wrong. He was perfect. Timing was not. It's such a perfect feeling if the person to be with in life is the perfect one. I willingly gave everything to him. But, I guess love aint enough. It hurts. The wound is still there.
Of course, there is no such thing as a perfect human. Life would be boring then. But a perfect partner, I believe there is. It's all about how to define what perfect is and making sure that the definitions made are obtainable. I always had a view that men and women are not equal. They were meant to compliment each other. And, I myself I want a man who is superior over me but still not loosing that gentleman touch. And I found the person in my husband.
Security is a main factor for choosing a life time partner. How can you feel free to be yourself when you are not secured? That would be hard aint it??? Ha!
A piece of advise: Once you found the one, never let him/her go. It will be the biggest mistake in your life you can ever commit in terms of love. Now, I have learnt that I shouldn't just settle for someone else and let things just as it is. Oooh! That's cruel. In order to love, love yourself. Though don't get too selfish. I threw myself once. And somehow, I know that was a mistake. But what the heck?? I lost him... and now I realized I was wrong. I should have not rushed and think of things very clearly.
People can be happy. But without the ONE, it feels incomplete. It's nice to have that you know both you and your partner are in love with each other, physically, emotionally et al. i thought physical attraction is not important: but I guess it is. A person need not be handsome to get physical attraction, right?
Lust. I answer my urge for lust. But normally I am choosy with people. I want the person whom I will have contact with is someone with the characters that I can really fall in love with. I can clearly put a border line between love and lust.
