it has been some time, 9.5 years, since J got married, that I put off finding out her last name, etc. until it came up two months ago in real estate research.  St. stephen had mentioned some detail as to where the wed was, but since moved to Patterson, photo recent from last week's news coverage, adn has posted three articles on cooking in Modbee.com  wish her well, apparently that house still up for sale.