About Glen

It's much easier to write about myself than Glen. But I'll try my best to describe the man that helped change my life FOREVER...

HOW WE MET:

I met Glen through his dog brother. I'll spare you the long story of why and how his brother is a dog. Anyways, we met in January of 2001. Glen came over and we talked for hours about our hopes, and dreams, and goals for the future. It was all good. Then we had sex. We fell helplessly into lust, and for the next few months we rolled happily in bed wrapped in one another's arms. I never thought it would be a long-term relationship. Sure, I talked to him more than I ever talked to all my exes combined, but still Glen had his "moods", and that put me off of committing to him. Truthfully, the sex was bomb, and as a Scorpio, that was very important to me. We kept casually dating into the summer, and by the end of the summer, I realized through my morning sickness, which was more like the flu, that I was pregnant. Based upon my "past", I never thought I would actually have a baby, but I told Glen anyways. He was smart and old enough to not be too happy about it, but we decided to stay pregnant and see where all this would go. And that is where our relationship really started, and getting to know Glen really began:

HIS SIGN:

Glen's birthday is in February, and he is a Pisces. He is 30 years old. Pisces' are known to have humongous hearts, and that fits Glen to a T. The down side of having a big heart is being extremely sensitive. Give a Pisces the wrong look, or even misspeak, and say the wrong thing, and you will send a Pisces into days, and perhaps weeks of silent brooding. Even though he and I are supposed to get along swimmingly, I have a hard time being the "strong" one in the relationship. I mean he's the guy right? On the other hand, Glen is a very loving father. He loves giving Jayden his baths, and although he still needs to work on the feeding and interacting with jayden, I have no real complaints.

HIS INTERESTS:

Glen is a typical" guy. The bigger/flashier the car, watch, stereo and T.V, the bigger his "man-hood". On a deeper level, Glen is spiritual. We talk about God alot. What being a good human being is, and our hopes and goals for the future. I guess that's why through all the misunderstandings and separations we go through, I still find him appealing. He keeps me mentally and spiritually stimulated. On a more shallow level, Glen is very sexual. I used to love this side of him, since it was the basis of our relationship. Now that we are parents, and I am handling and raising a *4month old 24/7, sex is not at the forefront of my mind. As lovers we are very compatible, we have the same tastes and experimental minds. I doubt we'd ever tire of each other.

HIS GOALS:

Eventually, Glen wants to own his own auto repair shop, and go back to school. I totally support him in his goals. He also wants to make enough money to buy Jayden a car when he becomes a young man. Glen wants to become closer to God, although he doesn't want to go to church. I say you can't have your cake and eat it too, we could at least go to bible study classes. Oh well. In all, Glen is a decent person, who has his "issues" just like everyone else. The reason I love him so much is because of his determination to go against what life has set him up for. I love him because he wants to be a good father and human being. I love him because he is a good person.

* Update:

I wrote this a year ago, and have decided to keep it up for now. Since  then, Jayden's Father and I separated under good terms. We are in contact on a regular basis, but have decided to be just friends.