When we worry about collision, we start thinking of avoiding it at any cost. but you should always know, some collision would never be avoided.

The first idea came from my talk to my mom, when we were discussing when I get married, I'll have two families to share my experience and two family dinner to attend during thanksgiving.  Or we could bring them together, ideally.

Later somehow, we ran into some problems. it seems that negotiation between parents and kids never follows the formal rules of logic, so negotiations all pretty much turns out to be compromises or messing around, in the final stage family members ended up deepening their love and understanding towards each other.

when Mei and Jin appears in my dream, two people struggled for a while and it's pretty hard for any one to coordinate a negotiation between two people that came from complete couter-perspective while similarly important for me.

I guess this is called 'Stuck'.

I really had a hard time struggling to think of these, but later I realized this would probably never happen. It's about time, but it's not yet the right time for us to think about having such pre-cautions set up in our lives.  This reminds me of an interesting indication from the realm of quantum physics:

"YOU'VE CHANGED THE STATUS OF THE MICRO-MOVEMENT JUST BY OBSERVING IT"

This certainly does not make sense in a physical macro-scope, but somehow make senses again in a syntax level of our lives.

Let's see.