Miss Lenaiya’s Profile

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Kick Boxing

HERE IS WHAT I AM ALL ABOUT:

Ethnicity:

Multi-Ethnic

Religion:

Spiritual, but not religious(Catholic covert to Christian)

Marital status:

single

Favorite thing to do::

Dance

Field of Profession:

Medical

Hobbies:

Artistry,Web Design,Martial Arts, Music/Dance

Height:

5’ 5”

Weight:

113

Body type:

petite and slim

My appearance:

on the cute side; I humbly concede

Activity:

Kick Boxing, Sparring

Hair color:

Dark Blonde

Eye color:

Gold/Hazel

Smoking:

social smoker w/ intentions to quit

Party habits:

social drinker, not often

Astrological sign:

Scorpio

Education level:

Associate Degree

Emphasis of studies:

medical/nursing/pharmacology/quantum physics

Occupation:

ParaMedical Examiner + RMA

Place Of Origin:

Oakland, Ca.

Pets:

My Doggie, Banjo

Languages Spoken:

English, Spanish

Movies:

Happy Gilmore, Class Act (funny as #@*!)

Sports:

Basketball, Football

Favorite Pastime:

Reading

My Characteristics, Interests, Activities; Etc...

My personality traits A to Z: :  

Accepting, Adventurous, Affectionate, Ambitious, Artistic, Caring, Cautious, Cheerful, Charming, Communicative, Compassionate, Confident, Considerate, Cool, Courageous, Creative, Crazy!, Down to earth, Easy going, Eccentric, Eclectic, Empathetic, Energetic, Enthusiastic, Expressive, Extroverted, Ethical, Enlightened, Flexible, Facetious, Fun & Funny, Free & Fearless, Generous, Gentle, Good-Hearted, Happy, Hyper, Hardworking, Honest, Humble, Imaginative, Impulsive, Independent, Inquisitive, Inspired, Intelligent, Intense, Intuitive, Intrigued, Integrity, Kind, Loving, Liberal, Loyal, Mischievous, Musical, Naughty, :o) Nice, Optimistic, Outspoken, Outgoing, Passionate, Perceptive, Playful, Positive, Patient & Impatient (depending on the circumstance..) Quick-witted, REAL, Romantic, Sarcastic, Self-Aware, Sensitive, Sensual, Serious, Sexy, Shy, Silly, Smart, Spiritual, Spontaneous, Stubborn, Sweet, Talkative, Unconventional, Uninhibited, Vivacious, Wild,Witty & Youthful. There! Whew! hahaha!

My interests and activities include:  

Animals, Astrology, Beaches, Bookstores, Cooking, Cars(Fast) n' Quads, 4-wheelin', Comedy Clubs, Computers, Concerts, Creative Inventing, Dancing, Dinner Parties, Dirt Bikes, Drawing, Decorating, Home Improvement, Hiking, Jet-skiing, Extreme sports, Karaoke, Listening 2 music, Martial Arts, Modeling, Meditation, Movies, Nature, Parks, Parties, Photography, Picnics, Playing Instruments, Poetry, Reading, Road Trips, Singing, Spiritual Growth, Sporting events, Swimming, Sunbathing, Traveling, Volunteering, Walking, Water-skiing, Writing Caligraphy, Wine Tasting / Guzzling haha!.

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My taste in music includes:  

Motown, Soul, R&B, Rap, Hip Hop, Reggae, Rock n' Roll, Heavy Metal, Blues, Gospel, Jazz

Favorite Foods: :

Mexican, Chinese, Italian, Seafood, Sushi, BBQ - Good Ol' American Style!

I am Straight-Up and Real, Let me tell you about myself:  

Hi, My name is Lenaiya. I’m a pretty cool person & very easy to get along with. I always smile & I am a pretty happy girl. I completely dislike arrogance & superficial attributes in ones personality therefore I do not possess them in my own. I think excessive pride is unattractive, & I am extremely humble & practice humility on a daily basis, yet I am also quite confident. I am very grateful for all my blessings in life,& do not take them nor life for granted. I live a life of reverence and revere all forms of life & see beauty in all. I am an enlightened individual who respects The Universe and It’s Creator. I am not a religious person although I was raised Catholic, however, I am spiritual. (I do believe religion provides structure but also, it is of Man & not of The Divine Superior, Not to mention all the hypocracy!) I believe I am an uplifting person with a big heart. I am quite romantic & when I am involved with someone I care about I express my admiration to them by being very affectionate. I am a very fun-loving person at heart & seek one of the same persona. I am in great shape. I am 35 yrs old & soley believe I become a better person with age. I am flowing with creative energy & express that in a variety of ways, one being through cooking lots of good food and experimenting with new recipes. Also through music~ (I have an amazingly eclectic selection of music that I value sentimentally:) and also dancing,(which I absolutly LOVE & is second to my music collection) I also express myself creatively through clothing! I have quite a unique style. I am extremely imaginitive and can improvise like nobody's business! haha I danced for the Golden State Warriors (1990-91) so i definitly know how to bounce, rock and shake! I practice Martial Arts (specifically Brazillizan Jiujitsu) & Kick Boxing for spiritual growth & Physical Endurance, so my body is doin just fine. I respect the concept of self discipline. I am a Girl of Uncompromised Integrity. I possess personal morals, values & ethics as well as strong work ethics. I adhere to conducting myself in a tactful manner most of the time, but please know that I love to have fun, & never take life too seriously. I am a playful girl who loves to laugh and be silly (it keeps me young inside & out) however my integrity always remains intact assuring others of my credibility, which allows me & my man plenty of room for trust & loyalty. Which is the backbone for any kind of relationship with ANYONE in life. VERY IMPORTANT. I am just like any other human being, good & bad... growing & learning, achieving that Inner Peace. I just believe in the good of us all, in the ways of the Lord~ to treat people with respect. Be kind. And Live a Life as good as we possibly can. I am just like every other person...

BUT~ I am like no other Woman...
Which Ultimately, Defines My Genuine Authenticity..

Here’s what I’m looking for:  

I am looking for a man that is versatile, easy going, who is not judgemental, over analytical or too opinionated. Someone who smiles and is positive, enjoys being silly and likes to laugh alot , especially with me. One who respects a woman, as a woman does he. One Who is monogomous & honest and doesnt lie, cheat, or display abusive behavior. Those are the few things I find unacceptable in a man and will not tolerate. If a man were to hit me, my dad would knock him out! (no!kidding, really I’m not) So if you’re a "lady killer" and you "knock em off thier feet" then your not the one for me! (ha ha!) OK! so a little play on words there! hey! as funny as that may sound it's sometimes true that life imitates arts little figures of speech. But Anyway~ speaking of brawlin’... I like a playful guy whom I can wrestle around with and playfight with in bed on a Saturday morning! pillow fight, tackle down & tickle!! (ahhh~ thats the best!) I also like to show alot of affection towards the one I care about and that I am involved with, so I will definitely appreciate a man who shows some reciprocation in that aspect. I just like hanging out and having fun with my guy, whether it be good stimulating conversation, listening to music, watching movies, cooking dinner, or going out to concerts, street fairs, or out on the town. I am, for the most part, pretty easy to please and down for almost anything! But a man with the ability to laugh and make me laugh, grabs my immediate attention... A great sense of humor is very appealing and sexy to me! Also, To define sexy,... sexy to me is in the way a man looks at me... his expressions... his smile. And in the way he walks... that~ to me is incredibly, INCREDIBLY sexy!

My idea of a great first date:  

I do not have a specific answer, because expectations on a first date can bring disappointment! There are sooo many different attributes to each individual man, and depending on who it is you are out with you can have any kind of great first date. I mean, if I am out on a date with one who likes to dance then dancing would be one of the things we plan, but if I am out with a man who has a motorcycle, we may go for a ride in the Mountains. And If My Date drinks, then it may be wine tasing, or slammin' a bottle of Bacardi 151 ( Kidding!!!)hahaha. So I think a great first date would not be what we do, but how we respond to one another... The chemistry, are we having such a wonderful time in each others company that we feel like little kids who lost track of time?? That kinda thing. As long as he’s a gentleman, and treats me like a Lady then I think the date went well. AHH! ~But to feel that way with one another! That is what we’re all lookin’ for! Aren’t we?

What I find sexy in a partner:  

OooOk! The Fun Part!
Like I already mentioned earlier... I think the way a man walks,
is VERY sexy! something about his stride and in the way he carries himself, almost like a confident semi-strut, Not cocky or bad-ass, just a sexy strut in his step I find, is very sexy and appealing... also in that certain way he looks at me, with a sexy grin, the expression on his face and the look in his eyes, is almost to die for!! Wow! If you’re out there I am dying to meet you! haha! Whew! gettin’ a little beside myself over here! :) Mmmm...

My perception of a good relationship:

Chemistry... Honesty... Respect...
For Your self and for your partner.
One can respect me all he wants but if he doesnt respect himself, its almost the same as disrespecting me.
Then of coarse there’s attraction, and compatability... gotta have SOMETHIN’ in common eh?
and THE DESIRE!!! The desire to WANT to be around one another!! If I’d rather go girl-talk with my girlfriends than have an exciting romantic night alone with my man~ and If my man would much rather be talkin shopp with the boys than to have a crazy insane night with me and a whole lot of euphoric, orgasmic activities to stimulate our souls,
indulging in together... then somethings not right in either one of our minds! I am completely cool with, and down with the male bonding thing... but guys, you get what i’m sayin’!....and those guys know who they are. Na, I think a good relationship allows for space and time apart completely without assuming somethings wrong... its healthy... not to mention a must! just to keep yourself grounded and maintain your sense of identity. Not just defined by your role in the relationship... You dont want to live your life vicariously through others, especially not your mate... So get out there with your life and your boys,as I will with my girls... but just come have dinner and intense out of control fun with me on more occasions than we do with our friends!

Don’t worry...
I’ll be MORE entertaining!! :)
As I am sure you Will be too !!

Wow! This sounds like fun already!
hahahahaha!!
(I smile at the one I will get!)
:) :) :)



Now
THATS A Kick-Ass Relationship, I must say!!!!

In AWE of it ALL, and STILL in AWE of
NOTHING!!!
Pure Excitement just to know
this person exists!!

and they DO... ~for ALL of us!

What I’ve learned from past relationships:

 EVERYTHING that has brought me where I am today. As far as My Optimism for Happiness, with a man or without. That Mistakes will happen, chances will be given as well as taken...
Nothing Is without a lesson...
Good or bad, Happy or Sad..
Im Glad I was Mad...
Cause That relationship
taught me somethin’

My birthplace, ethnic origin or ancestry, and places I have lived:  

I was born and raised in Oakland, California... which can be good and bad...

Its not no Knotts Landing,
but I lived in the safer parts...
I learned to be strong growing up there, I learned tolerance, I learned to accept criticism, I learned to accept a wide range of people, cultures and personalities, I learned good from bad, and I met the good and the bad. I learned to not be judgemental, I learned to be versatile, and although I didnt always agree with ones ways of life or doings thereof... I learned to accept the diversity of life & people, to respect those differences, respect the opinions of others, acknowledge such things, accept they exist and to differentiate between
right and wrong, and not only to know the difference, but more importantly.... To Understand the Difference.
I am Half Mexican, a little Indian, Italian,(my dad) and Half European, (my mom) but where I grew up... That Means Nothing to me, No Meaning to me whatsoever... Ethnicity is Nothing but a color Line. And I choose to be Color Blind.

I have Lived No where else... That was, and is all I know.

Things I am passionate about:  

OH Gosh!

MUSIC, MUSIC, MUSIC!!!
I absolutly Depend on it for my well being! hahaha! It has a healing affect on me like you wouldnt believe! Especially when I hear one of those songs that I forgot all about, it rings the senses in my soul! I get a daily dose of music, a wide range I listen to, I also enjoy singing... I played violin, trombone, and the recorder for many years, and with no surprize I can dance like there’s no life ahead of me that needs to be attended to! I can get lost in the moment of song and dance like you wouldnt believe! But I can believe!
Thats the Thing I do most....
Believe!

Goals In Life::  

I Don’t believe in setting deadlines or time constraints, I do agree... it is wise to have accomplishments in mind, but I don’t believe in the traditional “Goal Setting” for myself And here is why: …Ok, I dont mean this derogatory in any way, or condescending... I am an Advocate of Goal Orientation... and like Religion, believe they provide structure. However, (and this is just my opinion..) I myself believe that Goals are for the less disciplined. A Goal is nice, something to keep focused on... but if one believes in themselves, they wouldnt need a goal to achieve , because they wouldnt doubt for a second that they would get it done. If there were no doubt about it... that the task WILL be accomplished, then thats THAT, why set a goal? you’re just testing yourself, you’re not REALLY believing that you will do it. its setting limitations. If one believes in himself, he will trust that his aspirations will be met, and that things will get done and forget about it. There then, would be no need for a deadline. Or a challenge to meet. No Doubts = No Goals
and that is what believing in yourself is all about.
I personally , dont have any goals... but everything I believed I could do, and intended on doing has been done. Not to say I have accomplished everything, Oh Gosh no... but when the next task comes up, It WILL get done. I dont doubt it one bit. I believe I will get it done. Therefore, I find it un neccessary to set a goal for myself. That only tells me I think there’s a chance I might not get it done... Make sense????

OoooOk~ Next Question! hahahaha

My religious and spiritual beliefs:  OH GOD NO!

No pun intended. Religion is very controversial, and I believe it should be something discussed on an individual basis... Religion is impossible for all to agree upon, and it will never happen, not to sound cynical... But It Cant. Each to his own beliefs,as long as they are geared toward Christian teachings... Christian Meaning
”The Word” “The Golden Rule...” “The Good Of All Mankind.” That seems to be the common “Goal” in Christianity... But with that right there, being the “goal”... the “focal” point in Religious teachings... It won’t happen.
One Could Only Wish, Hope and Dream Of A Perfect World... I’ll settle for Perfect Enough, if you want to believe in your religious beliefs I encourage it 100%, and if those beliefs are different from mine, then I am ok with having different religious beliefs, as long as they are not satanic or anti-christ. So with that, I will say only that I was baptized Catholic, and remained Catholic for 32 yrs, Was rebaptized at 33, not into Catholicism, but rather out. At a non denominational Christian Church locally in Arizona "The Church Of Christ” to be exact. It Bears no fancy title, and represents simplicity, like religion ought to be. I am not a religious person, however I am Spiritual, I do pray, I believe In God, A Creator, A Higher power, A Divine Superiorior or whatever you want to call it. I believe I will be accounted for the things I do both good and bad in life, and I believe In an Eternal Punishment for not believing.., whether that be hell, or purgatory, or here on earth, i dont know. But I would kindly like to acknowledge that I do Infact believe In Jesus Christ Our Lord.
Any further aspects I would be more than happy to discuss on an individual basis!

My involvement with sports, hobbies and/or pets:  

My Sports Include Martial Arts,& Kick Boxing. I have fought for years growing up in Oakland,(haha! kidddding!)not really, but... its more of a self discipline, ...not in the aspect of a goal, haha! damn that word! But more on a physical limitiation Defiance Level, if that makes sense... Its also very rewarding, very spiritual , and relaxing for me. I am not an advocate of violence, nor do I condone it, but it is also a way for me to protect myself out in the world should some unfortunate soul want to harm me. :)
Really though, I sparr, box, and practice the Marial Arts for many different beneficial reasons, and many different levels of purpose. My hobbies have been touched upon somewhat, the love of dance and music being first and foremost, but I am also extrememly creative, and flowing with this creative energy... I can (and have) built many, many web sites, for myself and others, sometimes 2-3 in one day... I draw, and write in calligraphy (poems, dreams, thoughts,and meaningful blessings for my close ones,), I imagine, create, and invent... on a daily basis. I also broadcast Live on Live365 Part time, which is a wonderful musical outlet for me! I enjoy all my hobbies and pastimes very much. I also Have a doggie I love to death, he has been with me for 8 yrs, we have both dragged along through this wonderful life together, and he’s a great companion...(although I think a man would be the ideal companion in life!(haha!) he certainly provides good company. He is a Shih-Tzu, and his name is Banjo. aww! whatta doll! :)

My dream vacation:   ANYYYYY WHERE !!!!!!!

I mean that! Any where that steps me out side the repetition life can sometimes bring about... would be a vacation! A DREAM VACATION?? Now THAT would be HEAVEN... But Vacations dont last an eternity, but with a permanent Vacation In mind.... DEFINITLY HEAVEN..

Last thoughts:   Well...That Pretty Much sums it up!

Just One Word To all The Wonderful Fellas out there...

If you don’t think That you can be the man I describe In This profile... Don’t try to be or give it a shot just because I may seem like a decent woman... I am not the perfect girl, I am just not like any other... that doesnt neccessarily mean good. although its not bad. Just different. Looks are somewhat important due to the fact that there must be some kind of mutual physical attraction in order to create chemistry., But Not as important as Ones Honesty, Integrity, and Overall Charactor.(including sense of humor!)
Looks are just a small role when considering the whole presentation. I just KNOW what I want. and I definitly know what I DO NOT want, and I will be able to spot that out a mile away. True ,Genuine, Serious, and Sincere Men Only respond. Please. Its not fair to waste either one of our time. And For those who may Indulge In Infidelity, or are just interested in a little “Extra-Curricular Activity”, I am not a permiscuious person, Therefore I do not take part in one night stands or engage in first date sex, or any casual sex of any kind. If that is your gimmick, please do not respond... With all due respect,I only wish for A man that can somewhat fit my description of the one I seek. I hope you are out there.

Thank You For taking the time to read my Profile,& Have Many Wonderful Days
In Life!

Love, Peace, and God Bless...

Lenaiya

My Desired Match Characteristics

Ethnicity:

No preference

Religion:

Spiritual, but not religious, Other

Marital status:

single, divorced

Has children:

No, Yes - part-time, Yes - not living at home

Wants children:

No preference

Height:

5’ 8” - 6’ 5”

Body type:

Toned, Athletic, Medium, Shapely, Broad build

Smoking habits:

non-smoker, trying to quit, light smoker, moderate smoker

Drinking habits:

non-drinker, occasional drinker, social drinker

Thanks Again For Reading My Profile!