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Maimunah bint al-Harith, (may Allah be
pleased with her), married the Prophet Muhammad (peace and
blessings of Allah be upon him) in 7 AH, when the Prophet was
sixty years old and she was thirty six years old. Maimunah's
sister, Umm al-Fadl Lubaba, was the mother of Abdullah ibn Abbas,
the son of one of the uncles of the Prophet and the one of the
wisest of his Companions.
Umm al-Fadl was one of the earliest Companions of the Prophet.
Once Abu Lahab, the enemy of Allah and the Messenger of Allah,
entered the house of his brother, al-Abbas, and proceeded to
attack Abbas client, Abu Rafi, because he had embraced Islam.
Abu Lahab knocked him to the ground and knelt on him, continuing
to beat him. Umm al Fadl grabbed a post that was there and
cracked it across Abu Lahab's head, saying, "Will you victimize
him because his master is absent?" He treated in shame and died
a week later.
Zainab bint Khuzayma, Umm al Muminin, was also her half-sister.
Her other sisters included Asma bint Umays, the wife of Ja'far
ibn Abi Talib, who later married Abu Bakr, and Salmah bint Umays,
the wife of Hamza, the "Lion of Allah". Her full sisters were
Lubaba, Asmah and Izza. Maimunah was thus one of the 'Ahlul-
Bayt' , 'the people of the House', not only by virtue of being a
wife of the Prophet, (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
but also because she was related to him. Zayd bin Arqam related
that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) said, "I implore you by Allah! The People of my
House!" three times. Zayd was asked who were the People of the
House, and he said, "The family of Ali ibn Abi Talib, the family
of Jafar ibn Abi Talib, the family Aqil ibn Abi Talib, and the
family of Al Abbas ibn Abdal Muttalib."
Maimunah or Barra as she was then called, yearned to marry the
Prophet. She went to her sister, Umm al Fadl to talk to her
about that and she, in turn, spoke to her husband, al-Abbas. Al-Abbas
immediately went to the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah
be upon him) with Maimunah's offer of marriage to him and her
proposal was accepted. When the good news reached her, she was
on a camel, and she immediately got off the camel and said, "The
camel and what is on it is for the Messenger of Allah (peace and
blessings of Allah be upon him)." They were married in the month
of Shawwal in 7 AH just after the Muslims of Medina were
permitted to visit Mecca under the terms of the treaty of
Hudaybiyya to perform umra. Allah Almighty sent the following
ayat about this:
Any believing woman who dedicates herself to the Prophet if the
Prophet wishes to wed her, that is only for thee and not for the
believers. (Quran 33:50)
The Prophet gave her the name, Maimunah, meaning "blessed", and
Maimunah lived with the Prophet for just over three years, until
his death. She was obviously very good natured and got on well
with everyone, and no quarrel or disagreement with any of the
Prophet's other wives has been related about her. 'A'isha said
about her, "Among us, she had the most fear of Allah and did the
most to maintain ties of kinship." It was in her room that the
Prophet first began to feel the effects of what became his final
illness and asked the permission of his wives to stay in
A'isha's room while it lasted.
After the Prophet's death, (peace and blessings of Allah be upon
him) Maimunah continued to live in Medina for another forty
years, dying at the age of eighty, in 51 AH, (may Allah be
pleased with her), being the last of the Prophet's wives to die.
She asked to be buried where had married the Prophet at Saraf
and her request was carried out. It is related that at the
funeral of Maimunah, Ibn Abbas said, "This is the wife of
Allah's Messenger, (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) so
when you lift her bier, do not shake her or disturb her, but be
gentle." It is also related by Ibn Abbas that he once stayed the
night as a guest of Maimunah, who was his aunt, and the Prophet,
(peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) They slept on their
blanket lengthways and he slept at the end, crossways. After
they had all slept for awhile, the Prophet rose in the middle of
the night to pray the tahajjud prayer, and Ibn Abbas joined him.
They both did wudu, and he prayed eleven rakats with the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). Then they both went
back to sleep again until dawn. Bilal called the adhan, and the
Prophet did another two short rakats, before going into the
mosque to lead the Dawn Prayer.
Ibn Abbas said that one of the dua'ahs that the Prophet made
during this night was : "O Allah, place light in my heart, light
in my tongue, light in my hearing, light on my sight, light
behind me, light in front of me, light on my right, light on my
left, light above me and light below me; place light in my
sinew, in my flesh, in my blood, in my hair and in my skin;
place light in my soul and make light abundant for me; make me
light and grant me light."
It is commonly agreed that it was after the Prophet had married
Maimunah, giving him now nine wives (A'isha, Sawdah, Hafsah, Umm
Salamah, Zainab bint Jahsh, Juwayriyyah, Umm Habibah, Safiyyah
and Maimunah), that the following ayat was revealed:
It is not lawful for you (O Muhammad, to marry more) women after
this, nor to exchange them for other wives, even though their
beauty is pleasing to you, except those whom your right hand
possesses (as maid servants); and Allah is always watching over
everything. (Quran 33:52)
After this, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon
him) did not marry again. When however, the Christian ruler, or
Muqawqis, of Egypt, sent him two Christian slave girls 0 who
were sisters as a gift (in response to the Prophet's letter
inviting him to embrace Islam), along with a fine robe and some
medicine the Prophet, accepted one of the slave girls, Maria,
into his household; he gave her sister Serene, to a man whom he
wished to honor, namely Hassan ibn Thabit; he accepted the robe;
and he returned the medicine with the message, "My Sunna is my
medicine!" This occurred in 7 AH, when the Prophet was sixty
years old and Maria was twenty years old.
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