Introduction

I am a Muslim with very deep faith in Allah and strive to be a true believer, a Mu'min, as the Qur'an wants us to be. My pet-name is Abdullah Ibn Abdur Rahman, and I won't leak out my real name. As regards to my problem of masturbating regularly, its been a long time from now, when I first masturbated, about 2 years. My problem of masturbation is coming to an end. Now, by Allah's Grace and Mercy, I don't masturbate.

What has improved me so much? The answer is, Islam. If you believe that there is something always around you, when you are aware that Allah is always listening to you, and watching you, you can't even commit a single sin, including masturbation (but in this the case is different in a few parts). Secondly, something that helped me even more was Hadith (widely speaking, Hadith are the saying of the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him). I used to spend hours reading the Hadith of our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). They all show us the best way to improve ourselves and how to become a pious person. 

I have not read Psychology books on the topic of masturbation, but I know about how others feel when they masturbate, what makes them masturbate, and the levels of the addiction to it. Being experienced, I thought that I could help my Muslim brothers and sisters, who are facing the problem that I once faced. This is why I made this web site.

If you're just beginning to get addicted to masturbation, then this web site would be very helpful for you. This is the stage where you can instantly control your problem - all your energy should be at once used to cure you, and only you can do that. If you are already on level one, then you must put in all your effort to save your own self. Your free-time should be spend doing nothing except to worship Allah. The above two categories of masturbators are the ones for whom this web site has been made - to cure their problem, Insha'Allah (if Allah wills). If you started masturbating a long time ago, like 4 years, then it will be difficult to control yourself, at least, through the material available on this web site. But, I hope, and if Allah wills, this web site may still help you. Never lose hope.

A note for you before you begin to continue with this web site, while navigating this web site and trying to find the article you want,:

• Please:

  • DO NOT panic

  • DO NOT loose patience

  • DO NOT be distressed.

   

• Secondly,:

  • Calm down in your seat, 

  • Be relaxed,

  • Totally free of distress,

  • You may e-mail me if you don't find what you want or think that nothing is changing in you. Share your feelings with me, this will help you to calm down.

NOTE: At the above DO NOTs and DOs recommended for those who masturbate, you might not know the reason why I am telling them not to panic, not be distressed, etc. The answer is that most people get mentally depressed when they realize the serious problem of being an addict to masturbation.

Lastly, this web site will only help those will do anything to get rid of the problem of masturbation. Its not for those who just want to sit in their seats and wait for God to come down from Heaven and cure them. You must put in all your effort to cure yourself. Above all you must have faith in Allah, that He will cure you. Read this important note in this regard.

Finally, here is the disclaimer. Don't panic if this web site doesn't help you. Always remember that Allah is with you by His Knowledge, listening to you and hearing you, develop Taqwaa (the constant awareness that the King of All Worlds is watching you and this is the feeling that makes a pious man free from sin, and this is what I am trying to develop in my own self). Feel guilty if you commit the sin of masturbation, but don't panic. Repent, turn to Allah, for Allah is Merciful and very Forgiving.

Be mentally prepared for that determination you must have in yourself to continue with this web site. You must try to develop it.

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