IP~Party Dress Code & Rules of Etiquette

The IP Party Dress Code & Rules of Etiquette 101

What to Wear

Ladies: If you have been to a previous IP party, you know the routine. Feel free to dress as Sexy and as provocatively as you like. The
Sexier the Better, so don't hesitate to breakout your Slut~Gear.

Guys: Nothing has changed. We hope that you will continue
to Dress to Impress. That doesn't mean breakout the formal
wear, or your Sunday best. But please know that the Dress
Code is "Strictly Enforced" at Club 2Risque.
"Nice Casual & Neat attire always works."

Prohibited Clothing:
NO Hats, blue jeans, T-shirts, sportswear-sneakers,
athletic tops, warm-up suits, tank tops or work uniforms.

Etiquette Swing 101

Here are some basic rules that all should consider. I did not write this, but it is excellent reading, and we discovered that it's not a bad idea to circulate such literature prior to hosting lifestyle events!

1*** Play Safely:
If your playmate requires the use of condoms, please don't take it personally, simply put, respect their decision to play safely. Although there are a lot of people in the lifestyle that prefer going bareback, there are also those who require the use of protection.

So guys,,, please make sure you bring enough condoms. And Ladies, if you require your playmates to use protection, to insure that you enjoy yourself, don't depend on the guys, bring some along with you.

2*** Thou Shalt Not Stalk:
NO means NO!" (It doesn't mean come back and try again later.) One of the biggest problems with single male swingers is Stalking. I have seen attractive women come to swingers events and get followed from room to room by overzealous guys. Following a lady like a shadow is a great way to ruin your chances, maybe forever. Take a moment to introduce yourself to the lady and if she is not single, make sure you include her husband/boyfriend in your conversations. Stalking is not going to encourage any woman to play...

3*** Presentation:
First impressions are critical. Dress to impress. You should take the same care in your appearance as you would on a date. Arrive fresh and clean. No one wants to smell you. Most women do not want to hurt your feelings by saying something to you, but they may never play with you again, or you may never get invited due to your poor hygiene!

4*** Respect:
One of our rules is very blunt: "If you make anyone uncomfortable, you will be quickly escorted out." Respect means people and property. You should treat the party location as if it is your own house. Don't arrive empty handed, park responsibly, keep the noise down, toss empty drinks and condoms in the trash, keep the bathrooms clean, stay sober and HAVE FUN!

5*** Crowding:
Too many men trying to approach a woman that is openly playing with someone else, could ruin the fun for everyone. Just because you notice a woman playing with multipule partners, does not mean she wants to be gang-banged & it doesn't mean she wants a audience. So don't just get naked and jump in the pile. It could be an arranged session to fulfill a fantasy of hers or her hubby.

And don't just stand there within arms lenght. If you are not invited, don't rush it. The party generally doesn't end until very late. SO wait and ask later. Crowding can cause the woman to feel overwhelmed. Too many guys crowded around a lady can block the view and their significant other will want to watch.

6*** Treat a Couple as a Couple:
Why would a woman play with you if you won't even say "Hi"? Why would a man let you play with his wife if you won't acknowledge his existence? Engage a couple together and on the same level. Do not wait until the husband or boyfriend leaves his date unattended to strike up a conversation or to get more aggressive.

If you have been talking to a couple, do not "Make your move" if the man leaves for a minute!Trust me, "She is not desperately waiting for her husband to leave so she could jump your bones! "

7*** Privacy / Discretion:
A certain amount of discretion is assumed at Swinger events. Be careful not to ask inappropriate questions and conversations. Until you have really bonded with someone, Do not ask anyone's last name! Do not ask what someone does for a living! Do not ask where someone lives! Many swingers are operating incognito and do not appreciate direct questions. This is an environment where you can talk openly about sex, so take advantage of it.

8*** Conversation:
Do not be a wallflower. Talk with people and you will be rewarded! Cliquish behavior (only talking to people you already know) is a sure way to limit the fun at the party. It is common to be nervous, everyone was nervous at their first party! Talk to everyone and don't forget to smile!

9*** Body Language:
Watch for body language clues. Women usually go to great lengths to not be confrontational. If a woman slightly moves away when you are touching her, it means that she is not interested. If she has told you "Maybe Later," do not approach her again, let her approach you.

10*** Recruiting:
One of the most common mistakes single males make is to try and meet ladies on the side. Rmember,, you're at a swingers party, and the lady or couple came to the party - TO PARTY. They are not looking for another person to add to their relationship. They are likely to return to a party, but they are not very likely to want to have dinner with you on Wednesday night. Swingers Parties are not a singles dance or dating service! If a lady or couple is interested in you, outside of the parties, they will approach you to exchange information. Here's a good rule to follow: "If someone is interested, they will seek YOU out."

Here is an Outfit for You Ladies to Consider!!!
For Other Suggestions E~mail "Ms~J"