R e s p o n s i b i l i t y

Responsibility is the ability to choose our response. We have the ability to choose to respond in two ways—proactively and reactively. The response of pro-active people is a product of their own conscious choice, based on certain values and principles. On the contrary, reactive people tend to be ruled by external conditions or circumstances.

We cannot deny the fact that some things in life are within our control and some things are not. Our own will is always within our control. Our will needn’t be affected by an incident unless we let it. Within our control are the ways we respond to situations, events and persons. Our happiness or unhappiness, serenity or restlessness, love or hatred will definitely depend upon the way we respond to the situations, events and persons in life. Acknowledging this fact leads us naturally to take control of our life and its direction.

It is only when we accept responsibility for our life that we proactively respond to the challenges and opportunities that we meet. It is easy for us to condemn, criticise and point a finger at others. But it takes character to own responsibility for our life. Assuming personal responsibility to make the best use of our talents and time will result in gain in happiness and success. Similarly, assuming personal responsibility for one’s life and actions will ensure our inner peace and tranquillity.

 

Human beings need to experience a sense of belonging, appreciation and affirmation in their lives if they are to grow as mature and emotionally balanced persons. Even those who deny the need for affirmation need it. “Happiness in the final analysis is no more than a state or condition of appreciation. It is recognizing the blessings and rejoicing in them,” says Alvin H. Goeser.