Sharing is probably one of
the most important lessons parents teach their children; it�s an
integral part of growing up and lessons in sharing are also lessons in
such valuable human relations as respect and cooperation. Upon reaching
our adult years, those often painful childhood lessons in sharing are so
deeply ingrained that we automatically share our seat on the bus or a
pot of coffee with a neighbour.
So, it�s easy for many of us
to share possessions and objects, but how easy is it to share ourselves?
Do we share happiness with others by smiling a cheerful greeting, or do
we hoard that happiness almost as if we�re afraid that sharing it means
losing it? Look a little closer. Do we share our personalities, offer
individual observations during a conversation or situation? Do we really
give of ourselves to friends and relatives? Doing so would make a common
situation a unique one. Therefore, a special episode. But many of us
refrain taking part; we hold ourselves back.
There are scores of reasons
why people shut themselves away from others. Yet there are just as many
reasons why we should open up and share ourselves. Sharing an opinion
may result in a lively thought-stimulating debate. Sharing a feeling
like loneliness may result in a few friendships�and more loneliness.
Sharing an experience can make it more memorable and more exciting.
While it is true opening up
to others can open the way for some people to capitalize on our
vulnerability, it can also open the way for richer relationships and a
deeper sense of self satisfaction. And sharing ourselves is an
expression of trust, hope and love. So share yourself! Everyone�s world
will be richer because of it.
