| When your Child Comes Home Messy Red paint in the hair? Blue paint on the jeans? Sand in the shoes? Jam on a favourite shirt? White socks that look brown? Sleeves a bit damp? Your child probably: worked with a friend. solved a problem created a masterpiece negotiated a difference learned a new skill had a great time developed new language skills Your child probably didn't: feel lonely become bored do a repetitive task that is babyish do worksheets that are too easy do sit-down work that is discouraging You probably: paid good money for those clothes will have trouble getting that red paint out are concerned the caregiver isn't giving your child enough attention Your caregiver probably: was aware of your child's special needs and interests spent time planning challenging activities for the children encouraged the children to try new things was worried you might be concerned Young children really learn when they are actively involved in play. There is a difference between "messy" and "lack of care." Your childcare provider made sure your child was fed, kept warm, offered new skills and planned messy, fun activities because that's how children learn. Please send your child in clothes that you don't mind getting messy. Your child will grow into a teenager who will use all your shampoo, soap and mirror time on their appearance soon enough. . . let them be young children as long as possible! |
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