Here is my BDSM check list.

For each activity in this list, i have indicated my past experience and rated that experience as follows:

- Activities marked with the word 'limit' indicate my limits.
- '0' indicates that this activity, while not a limit, is very undesirable.
- '1' indicates that this activity is undesirable.
- '2' indicates that me is neutral in regard to this activity.
- '3' indicates that this activity is desirable.
- '4' indicates that this activity is very desirable.

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Notes

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A. Sexual Orientation    
My Sexual Orientation is: Hetro
My D/s Orientation is: Sub
B. Sexual Activities
Done That
My Rating
Anal Penetration Yes 2
Anal Fisting No 1
Anilingus Yes 1
Cock Worship Yes 4
Cunnilingus Yes 4
Cyber Sex Yes 3
Double Penetration (oral/vaginal) No 1
Double Penetration (oral/anal) No 1
Double Penetration (vaginal/anal) 1
Fellatio Yes 4
Gang Bang No Limit
Group Sex No Limit
Masturbation Yes 3
Oral Sex Yes 4
Phone Sex Yes 3
Rough Sex Yes 3
Same Gender Sex No Limit
Threesomes (f,f,m) No Limit
Threesomes (f,m,m) No Limit
Triple Penetration No Limit
Vaginal Fisting Yes 3
Vaginal Sex Yes 4
C. General Fetishes
Have That
My Rating
Bestiality Yes 1
Blood No 0
Body Modification No Limit
Bondage Yes 4
Boots No 1
Corsetry No 1
Cross Dressing No 0
Diapers Yes 1
Enemas Yes 1
Exhibitionism No 0
Forced Feminization No N/A
Golden Showers Yes 3
Hair Yes 3
High Heels Yes 1
Lace Yes 3
Lactation No 2
Latex No 1
Leather Yes 3
Legs & Feet Yes 2
Medical No 1
Menstruation No N/A
Midgets No N/A
Nylon No 1
Pain Yes 2
Panties Yes 2
Pantyhose Yes 2
Pregnancy No N/A
PVC No 1
Rubber No 1
Scat No 0
Silk Yes 2
Uniforms No 1
Voyerism Yes 3
Wet & Messy No 1
D. D/s Activities
Been There
My Rating
Anal Worship Yes 3
Body Worship Yes 3
Branding (For the marking aspect) No Limit
Caging No 3
Chastity Devices No 3
Cock Worship Yes 4
Collars Yes 4
Contracting Yes 4
Corporal Punishment Yes 3
Domestic Service Yes 0
Dress Codes Yes 3
Eating Patterns Control Yes 3
Following Orders Yes 4
Foot Worship Yes 2
Forced Feminization No N/A
Forced Nudity Yes 4
Forced Orgasm Yes 2
Given Away (for play) No Limit
Given Away (for training) No Limit
Mouth Soaping Yes 3
Posture Training No 1
Private Humiliation Yes 4
Public Humiliation No 1
Sensory Deprivation Yes 3
Serving as Ashtry No 0
Serving as Furniture No 0
Sexual Service Yes 4
Toilet Service Yes 1
Verbal Humiliation Yes 4
E. Bondage
Done That
My Rating
Arm Sleeves No 3
Body Harness (leather) No 3
Body Harness (rope) No 3
Breast Bondage Yes 4
Casts No 1
Chains Yes 4
Collar & Leash Yes 4
Cuffs Yes 4
Gags Yes 3
Genital Bondage No N/A
Head Harness No 1
Hogtie Yes 1
Hoods Yes 2
Mummification No 1
Over Night Bongade Yes 4
Saran Wrapping Yes 4
Shackles Yes 4
Slings/Swings No 2
Spread Eagle Yes 3
Spreader Bars Yes 3
Stocks No 3
Straight Jackets No 3
Suspension (horizontal) No 3
Suspension (inverted) No 2
Suspension (vertical) No 3
F. Scenes
Been There
My Rating
Abduction Scenes No 2
Age Play No 1
Blood Play No Limit
Branding Scenes No Limit
Breath Control No 1
CBT Scenes (Cock & Ball Torture) Yes 0
Electro Torture Scenes No 2
Interrogation Scenes Yes 3
Intricate Bondage Scenes Yes 4
Medical Scenes No 1
Needle Play (temp piercing) No 0
Pony Play No 1
Puppy Play No 2
Rape Play Yes 3
Religion Secens No 1
Resistance Play Yes 4
Role Playing (various D/s roles) Yes 2
Sensory Deprevation Scenes Yes 3
Service Scenes Yes 2
Spanking Scenes Yes 3
Tickling Scenes No 2
Torture Scenes Yes 2
Vampire Scenes No 1
Videotaped Scenes No Limit
G. Tools of the Trade (aka "Toys")
Been There
My Rating
Ball Strechers & Crushers No N/A
Bare Hands Yes 4
Blindfolds Yes 4
Branding Irons No Limit
Butt Plugs Yes 3
Canes No 2
Clit Clips Yes 2
Clothespins Yes 2
Dildos Yes 4
Ear Plugs Yes 4
Fire/Heat No 1
Floggers (leather) Yes 4
Floggers (rubber) Yes 4
Hot Wax Yes 3
Ice Yes 2
Knives No 0
Leather Belts Yes 3
Medical/Dental Equipment No 2
Needles No 0
Nipple Clamps Yes 1
Oils/Lotions/Spices Yes 4
Paddles (leather) Yes 3
Paddles (wood) Yes 3
Riding Crops Yes 3
Single Tail Whips Yes 3
Speculums No 1
Suction Devices Yes 3
TENS Units No 2
Ticklers No 1
Urethral Sounds No 1
Vibrators Yes 4
Violet Wand No 2
Weapons No 0
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