I need somethin a lil new. I guess we'll see wat i come up w/next.



Here's my personal submission. I've been told its not elaborate enough.

Mochi's List
Appearance:
Height: 5' 6 - 6' 1
Racial Preference (though open to all): Chiniese, African American, Japanese
Dark hair color, clean cut
Shaven, no grown facial hair (beards, mustaches, etc.), no chest hair
Build: Athletic (cut)
Style: Casual, GQ, surfer/skater, ghetto, athletic...almost anything as long as it look gewd
Piercings: Ear(s) and/or brow

Characteristics: Honest, outgoing, spontaneous, easygoing, talkative, understanding, patient, independent, mature, but a kid at heart, humorous, not strict, communicates well, able to speak from the heart, **romantic, fun to be with, spontaneous, REAL

Likes: Outdoor activities (fishing, walking, running, getting dirty, swimming, climbing), video/comp games, adidas, sport(s) (this can not include golf alone), reading, music genres that include but not limited to; hip hop, underground, R&B, alteranative rock, classical... cars, bikes, hugs, random displays of affection, weirdness, bad jokes/stories, must drink more than me, thai n jap food, anime, outrageous stunts

Characteristics of mine he puts up w/: laughing, goofiness, randomness, indecisiveness, lack of mathematical skill, forgetfulness, lack of femininity, lovehandles, obssessions (anime, kars, bikes), occasional lazy streaks, red cheeks, random pervertedness, stuborness, words that i make up, my ego or therfore sometimes, lack of

Brings out ____ in me: Happiness, sadness as well, laughter, the talkative side of me, my sweetness, my brave side, my confidence, my inner child, my soul

Turnons he has: Cute, heartwarming smile, hypnotic eyes, strong hands, nice ass, musically talented (guitar or piano), soothing voice, knowledge of cars, ability to become embarassed, nice and sweet

Turnoffs that he won't have: Bad manners, rudeness, sloppy eater, whinny, clingy, complainers, egotistical, controlling, speechgivers, liars, narrowminded, annoying, disrespectful, B.O., poor hygiene

Mochi #4,
wifey's list for me

Height: 5' 6 and up
Weight: normal to athletic (not too fat)
Sex: 2-3 girls (experience)
~built to please a woman's needs wants and desires
~makes dreams and wildest fantasies come true
~"kinkee when i wanna bee"
~not too ruff like a black guy, but at least he's "hung" like one

Preferences: has to be an athletic person, non-smoker, manners is a must; at least be able to kiss ass to gramma,asian (japanese chinese) or hack gway, drinker...occasionally, ex-raver (etard), great kisser

Likes: cars/bikes are a +++, anime, active, drives a bike :P, non-religious, built to be faithful to evry1

Characteristics:
sweet, aint demanding, kid (a big kid), sensitive in his own way, "dont be my mom be a bf", outgoing, talks a lot, wild (spur of the moment) gets along with friends, easy to talk to, has a lil ghetto in him, easy going, friendly, baby got BACK!, comfortable w/people around, trustworthy, ears pierced (one side), long-term committed, hazel(light brown) eyes, semi-protective, hilarious or at least knows how to make you laff...okay, humorous, mature when needs to be, music listener of R&B hiphop alternative classical pop underground, LL Cool J body or at least can talk and make girls go "daym!", not cheap but not materialistic, nice teeth, affectionate (loving), sexy killer smile, able to put up w/ur sh**, independent, dressed up very nice, good looking (HOT), patient, anti-grungy (non-dirty people), never gives up on good and important things, UNDERSTANDING

Characteristics you betta NOT have:
grumpy, unfair, attitude, complain, b*itchy, whine, "liar, cheater, deciever, heartbreaker", dog "woof", cocky, over protective, a pig, demanding, abusive, push over, druggy, no preachers "dont tell me wat to do", asshole, senseless, emotionless






hahahahaha... be prepared, for I am a hopeless romantic...

Dia's List
Physical appearance:
Height: not shorter than me with my heels on but not so tall that I may strain my neck trying to kiss him ;)
Clothing: preferably GQ most of the time, but casual on days where he just feels like bumming ... BLEH to guys who always wear T-shirts and jeans/shorts... nice sweaters look good on guys who are cut ;)
Built: cut... not too scrawny, not too built (both are gross)... What I like most? strong arms and broad shoulders, haha, but not so strong that when I hug him he feels like a rock. =)
Facial hair: none, I like it clean-cut and shaven... guys have no idea how unpleasant it is to kiss a guy who hasn't shaved. Feels like razor burn. heheh =P
Body hair: no chest hair... ick... I think happy trails are weird too. =�
Piercings: none... am I too conservative? *ctrl-shift-4*
Racial preferences: Chinese, preferably fluent in Cantonese

What I'm attracted to most: Intelligence, yup yup... intelligence... hrm, maybe ambition too *ctrl-4*

Characteristics I like: gentlemanly, smart, makes me smile and laugh, karaokes, dances (fast and slow of course), goofy but serious at the right times too, weirdness, hardworking, family-oriented, loving, ROMANTIC *ctrl-4*, ambitious, sweet (like Lance Carter in "A Walk To Remember"), self-confidence but not so much he's just full of it, opens doors, independent, occasional randomness for laughs, outgoing and sociable, understanding Was that long enough? =)

Characteristics I don't like: wandering eyes for other girls, conceited, spoiled by parents, hooked on computer games, makes me wait because he's late often, controlling, too much pride, need to protect his "front", alkies who need alcohol to have fun, uptight, stubborn

He likes: ME, chick flicks (or at least watching them wif me), to dance with me, to surprise me, bringing out the child in the both of us, star-gazing (and I don't mean for a couple seconds... it includes lying in the grass or dirt in a quiet place, looking at stars and forgetting about everything else around you), nature, nature hikes, sunsets (I love sunsets... *tilts head to the side*), holding me, romantic/quiet strolls through the park or beach, picnics, food!! (and enjoys really good food� doesn�t just chow it down), kids, me just the way I am, my goofiness, and the following music types: R&B, hip-hop, rap, pop, slow jams, oldies, and occasionally Jazz

Turn-ons: intelligence, smile, and sense of humor... =D <-- there's my smile!

Turn-offs: wandering eyes, conceitedness, doesn't like or too shy to dance cuz I GOTTA DANCE! ;), I guess the same goes for singing but if he REALLY can't sing then I guess that would be another turnoff in itself =P, drunks, smoking (Can you say EWW!!!?), rude

My biggest pet peeve: shaking of the legs..... AHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Additional pluses if he: cooks, sends me occasional flowers just because, motivates me, gives me confidence (and not shake it up), comforts me when I'm down, believes in me

BUT... when it comes down to it, I'm not that picky... For me, it's not so much about finding the perfect guy as it is about the perfect love I share with a guy who may be not-so-perfect. When I'm in his arms, I want to feel more than just his arms. I hafta feel loved, our love, security, happiness, hope, eternity, comfort, etc... "It's like the wind. I can't see it, but I feel it�... I feel wonder and beauty... joy, love... the center of everything." The perfect love... yup... He reminds me how much he loves and misses me for no reason except to see the smile on my face when I hear it... And I do the same. When I hear love songs, it should make me think of him and remind me of our beautiful love.

I want to be one of those cute old couples you occasionally see still holding hands... awwww...

HOPELESS ROMANTIC I AM... I feel lovey dovey just re-reading this�

This is me being elaborate�.. wow, makes me feel so gurlie

Valeree's List
height: 5�5 -6 ft; but not all too important.. jus as long as he�s taller than me. =)

hair: dark, short, clean.. watever makes him look gud/kute

facial structure: just clean, no beard, no mustache, no piercing (ear may be okay)

body structure: athletic/muscular, no body hair, cut, firm,

dress-style: GQ, sporty, casual,

drinks: someone who can hold his liquor ... who can drinks as much as i can but not a constant drunk.

smokes: can�t smoke, not even a little (this is verri important)

ethnicity: Chinese, Japanese, filipino-chinese, any asian I guess..*shrug* but not jus focused on Asians.

Education: must be in skool, graduated college, will graduate college, or career-focused

Characteristic: trustworthy, honest but not spiteful, adventurous but not dangerous, artistic, clean but not compulsive, old-fashion (opens door, pulls out chairs, walks you to the door type stuff) but not chauvinistic, even-tempered, eccentric, outgoing, optimistic but realistic, intellectual, open-minded, encouraging, romantic, encouraging, simple, cheerful, spontaneous, talkative, low maintenance, truthful, silly, entertaining, thoughtful, appreciative, compassionate, patient, hard working, punctual most of the time, modest, helpful, polite, conscientious, respectful, funny, considerate of my feelings as well as everyone else, decisive, appreciative, affectionate

Enjoys: children, swimming, snowboarding, cars and motorcycles (admiring, driving, fixing), computers (using, playing, putting together), art galleries, parties, dancing, lounging, bookstores, clubs, concerts, hiking, movies, museums, parks, sports (playing or watching), theatres, pool, beach, libraries, quiet times, nature, houses, walking, cooking, music (rap, hip hop, slow jams, r&b, oldies, alternative, classical, etc�listening as well as singing), outrageous stunts, being kiddy at times, surprises (giving and receiving)

Turn-off: dependent, lazy, conceited, mean, disrespectful, liar, poor hygiene, sexist, too much perverseness,

Turn-on: eyes that stand out, words that are unforgettable, actions that make me feel that we�re the only ppl in the room, smiles that make my heart skip a beat (dimples are a plus), hugs that make me feel safe,

Puts up with my: indecisiveness, family at times, random fonecalls and �I miss/love you msgs�, lack of gurl friends and therefore large amount of guy friends, workaholic state, small frame, time of the month, random conversation (not specified to but including song lyrics and constant talk bout swimming and �crazie ideas�), random flirting with the certain close gurl friends I do have (especiallie wen clubbing), laziness at times, crazie ideas (such as bungee jumping, sky diving, white water rafting, surfing, water skiing, and more), lack of travel/ideas, house arrest at times and strict parental guidance, my constant habit of putting friends/family before my feelings, sensitivity/unsensitivity, determination to watch skarie movies even if it skares the hell outta me, wanting to learn/try anything and everything, stubborness,

Brings out the ________ in me: happiness, giggles, outspoken part, lack of fear, independence, confidence, determination, gurl/women/lady, optimism, laughter, child, love, care, friendship, but in general BEST.

Hahaha .... and diana says she�s a hopeless romantic..i think i�m worse...








fa sum jai's list
(hahaha! kinda ironic)

Appearance:
Height: under 5'5 (Love Hewitt's only 5'2)
Weight: less than me
Racial Preference: Chinese, White
Hair: black or dyed brown Chinese, or blonde White
Body: no preference as long as they ain't FAT (they're only FAT if i say they are... their own personal opinions doesn't count)
Style: i prefer tees and jeans (sporty). don't really matta if they look good. no gothic.
Piercings: ears... elsewhere, maybe

Characteristics: outgoing, independent, spontaneous, caring, willing to open up, beautiful eyes, beautiful smile, must remind me to eat, cheerful, low maintenance, appreciative, affectionate.

Enjoys doing or at least accompany me: outdoor activities, sports (b-ball, volleyball, running, jogging, walking, swimming, tennis), video games, movies, eating, parties, dancing, clubbing, parks, beaches, getting buzzed

Characteristics of me she puts up w/: occasional laziness, my indecisiveness when it comes to food, love of basketball, procrastination, stubbornness, occasional silences cuz i don't know wat to say, my determination

Brings out ________ in me: the kid, the bold & daring, happiness, laughter, confidence, my intimate side

Turn ons: eyes that capture u, a smile that makes ur day perfect, cute

Turn offs: smokes, loudness, too dependent, whiney, mean, bad temper

If anyone knows of someone who matches these criteria, lemme know :)





Wasabi's list
As long as she likes me for who i am
...well heres a list for fun anyway

Appearance
Height: 5'7 is the limit. yes, i like em tall. endless legs. purrrrr
Ethnicity: will marry Asian, white, mix. will date all except black, unless theyre mixed.
Hair: anything will do as long as i can pull on it during. no really tho, i guess as long as its not a BOB and she knows how to fix it up for formal evenings. did i ever mention i like long hair tied up that shows neck?
Eyes: the kind i tend to get lost in.
Lips: luscious. j/k. not black people lips. smile that makes all my troubles go away. knows how to kiss.
Body: lol. dan's list (see fa sum jai) takes the cake for this one.
Style: athletic, knows how to look good when needed. Heck, PJ's are hot in certain situations.
Piercings: hey, if she had one where the sun dont shine, i'd have to really evaluate if i like her or not

Characteristics she has: has dry humor, playful, patient, intelligent, outgoing but likes to stay indoors to cuddle, hopeless romantic, speaks her mind but not whiny, willingness to try new things, can sing or puts up with my singing (if you have heard me sing, u know why), laughs when i'm weird, which is quite often, independent but loves letting me treat her right, i like them ghetto chicks, and enjoys site seeing (yes, i'm a tourist foh life), has internet connection, has a faint interest in sports

Characteristics of me she should know about: i like hanging with my friends when we're not together, i may get attached/addicted to her, forgetfulness, sometimes lazy, random up the ass, i am stubborn, i drool (hahaha), i like sports.

Turn ons: shows affection whether public or private, looks at me with them eyes...AH!

Turn offs: tempers, bites toe nails (j/k), constant complaints about her weight (i love you the way you are, and even when we change and get old and wrinkly and fat. just dont turn around and call ME fat...have u seen my dad?)




Yingka~
"Those who say it cannot be done should not interrupt those who are doing it"

Appearance
Height: taller than me (without heels/shoes on) gosh knows i'm too tall for an asian female.. 5'8" - ??
Ethnicity: ASIAN, pref Taiwanese/Chinese, Japanese. Anyone not yellow. =D and.. please pref not Korean. We dont' get along
Hair: hmmm.. short. Anything will do, cept for hair longer than mine.. that's just.. weird.
Eyes: well.. most guys i've met have girlier eyes than i do (sniff.. how sad!), so yea.. anything. If you wear glasses.. ooohhh.. cuz.. i like smart looking guys. =D so CUTE!!
Body: like said.. being taller is good. As long as i can put my arms around you, you're good (and i have Looooooooooooong arms..) athletic build is good!
Style: knows how to dress well when the occasion arises, comfortable (BR, J Crew, Structure stuff), atheltic (Abercrombie)
Piercings: please no.. cuz i dno't have any, and i don't want people to think he's more girly and me

His qualities: older than me, can make me laugh! equal relationship, honest (if i ask if my ass looks big, i'm going to expect you to tell me so), more like we're best friends and can talk about anything (i mean ANYTHING). Respects me. Family oriented. will support me in my decisions as i will to him. Sensitive to a certain degree (sappy music, romance comedies, etc). a bit old fashion is good (gives me his jacket, opens doors, etc). enjoys music and dancing (cuz i LOVE to dance), someone i know i can trust (because it takes me a LONG time to learn to trust you), and please don't do say or do things to impress me and have me find out in the end that you did it beecause of me (that equals lack of respect!), will have philosophical debates with me, won't let me do everything the way i want to (if you're truly a man, be one!). DO NOT BE HIGH MAINTENCE.. (i hate shopping, therefore, don't ask me to spend a lot on you).

My Qualities: #1 thing to know, i'm VERY busy. I have lots of priorities in my life, and means i won't put our relationship first. i can be stubborn (ok, very stubborn), i have lots of friends (guy friends), i don't care if you have lots of female friends, just don't make me imagine things. i space out, but also very practical. i try to be feminine when i can (when i'm supposed to i guess), i'm all about sports (BBALL, swimming, etc). I love to dance (as stated in the above), i'm an artistic character, not so much the nerd (i don't do well academically) but i like to think philosophically. Used to be an idealist, and still trying to ground myself. I love my family and cousins, which means you will have to as well (they're going to screen you). i put my work, friends before me (and relationships 3rd). i don't like to shop, but i like to give little gifts that mean something. i'm a traditional Taiwanese thinker mixed with a tinge of modernity, so i'm what they call the "independent woman". i NEED space.. give it to me, and you'll know you have my loyalty. i run at the first sign of complete mushiness (too much is no good). i love kids (i'm weird like that). i can be girly, but only when i feel like it (i don't PMS, but i do get upset and stressed out easily. the last thing i need is to worry about our relationship).

Turn ons: BEING COMFORTABLE WITH YOURSELF, if you pass me the ball on the court (unlike most guys *hint hint*) i know you respect me, smile, little things, playing with kids (SO CUTE!!), being able to chill with my family and friends

Turn offs: being possessive or obsessive, unable to compromise, awful temper, diss my friends and family, won't listen to me when i'm being serious, can't give me my space, rude, huge money spender, all about looks, male dominating, loud at wrong places or time, SMOKER (icky! i dont' want to kiss a cigarette). ALWAYS wants to talk about "us".. if we're comfortable, let it BE!!

songs that describe me and what i look for:
coco lee- before i fall in love
Alliyah - are you that somebody
Monica - just another girl

Might as well go for the balance. Here's my ideal/perfect woman.

QCQ's List
Appearance:
Height: 5'4-5'6
Racial Pref: Chinese, Japanese
Long Hair (at least shoulder length)
Black or Dyed brown O.K.
Saven, no grown facial hair =)
No chest hair
Body: 34B-36C, flat stomach, curves errwhere
Style: Low riding jeans, tube tops, spagetti straps, but not so much that other guys gawk.
Piercings: Ears, maybe belly button.

Characteristics she doesn't have: A bad temper, Not whiney, not too dependent (unless we're married), not lil-princess, not demanding, not lazy, not party-pooper, not picky

Characteristics she does have: A loving heart, appreciative of my sacrifices for her, understanding, deep, likes me for my inner me, intelligent, educated, understands me, fluent in Cantonese or Vietnamese, understands my love and obligations to my parents

Likes: Star gazing, the beach at night, fine dining, music (singing or piano), slow songs, romantic slow dances, outdoors

Brings out ______ in me: the love, my funny side, my corny side, my love for life

Turn ons: Girly, tight clothes, skirts, cutesy

Turn offs she doesn't have: See characteristics she doesn't have.

Extra: Cooks, cleans, wants to stay home and take care of kids, (don't worry ma I can support bof us, that's why I go to school).


What I've experienced so far (in no particular order): Highest amount of pros i've seen in any girl I've personally known: 90% (with 60% cons).
Highest amount of cons i've seen in any girl I've personally known: 60% cons (15% pros)

Ideal goal: 100% pros, 0% cons
Realistic goal: 85% pros, 15% cons
Time spent making this list: Priceless.







D�j�~Vu's List
(Di's Ex- Hubby, she couldn't stand my shaking knees)
(Also afraid for dear life to come in between Di and Joy)

Disclaimer: This list is subject to change at anytime!!
Another Disclaimer: The perfect female does not have to have all these attributes just a plus if she did. I am pretty sure that I am missing some things too.

Appearance:
Height: 5'1" - 5'5"
Ethnic Pref: Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese, etc... (but also open to other ethnicites)
Hair: Shoulder length or longer, untainted (un-colored) hair. Tieing it up is cool too
Cleanly shaven, waxed or electrolocized
Makeup: as least amount as possble (on special occasions are cool too) (I dont want to have a jackhammer to take that concrete off oops foundation)
Body: Tone (athletic ability +), no butch lookin girls sorry ego gets hurt if a girl is buffer than I am
Eyes: As long as its natural none of that color contact (im a sucker for eyes that I can get lost in though)
Lips: Soft, and sweet (Actually I wouldn't know, but this sounds good) (A smile that would shine through, and makes my troubles fade away)
Style: casual clothing, clubbin (sometimes, don't want guys gawking all the time), sophisticated look (+),
Piercings: Ears (Don't want too many holes in her body, but hey if she can pull it off then much props to her)
Face: Cute (to me at least)

Characteristics: Trustworthy, low maintanence, independent (not so much that she doesn't need me) cuddles, sings, intelligent (both street and book smarts), humorous (can take and make jokes), playful, romantic, little interest in sports, watches Anime, has at least some knowledge of bikes (no huffy's) and cars, (cooking would be a +), Treats me well, nice, can tolerate me, sensitive, likes me for who I am, neat, honest, understanding, open minded, has self-esteem, that can drive (without me holding on for dear life), can put up with my occasional dorkness (I am sure I am missing some other things)

Turn on's: look up (I've listed some up there, can't think of them now)

Turn off's: smoking, drugs (illegal or recreational), temper, complaining, being mean, controlling, high maintanence

here are some lyrics from "I need a girl Part II"
Someone that truely understands how to treat a man, this is what I need, is a pretty woman next to me, that will share the dreams that I believe...

John's list aka D's bestestestestestestest fwend =)

Appearance:
Height: shorter than me, so anything below 6'7 will do
Racial Preference: Asian, White, Blue, Orange, Red, don't matter long as they fine
Hair long enough to have pony tail, light streaks are cool =) clean cut, no facial hair, chest hair maybe...nah, too weird
Build: not bigger than me, and not too much smaller than me, but just right =) tone
Style: Casual, not too stylish
Piercings: Ears ok! that's about it

Personality: cool, nice, caring, patient, not talkative but talks, independent, not too sensitive, sense of humor or least laugh at my jokes even though i'm not funny, don't got bad temper, not needy, understanding, can stand their own ground, decisive, optimistic, goal oriented, sporty, mature but not uptight, trusting, honest, speaks their mind, cute, playful

Likes: video games, sports, dogs, having fun, life, most importantly me!!

Turn-on: Nice smile

Turn-off: Trying too hard to be cute, picking nose in public (private is ok), obnoxious, insanitary, stubborn

Puts up with my: Quiet Personality and all my other bad traits, sometimes irrational jealousy though I know I shouldn't be jealous, which causes me to be quiet

Misc. Requirements: Never puts me down cuz I would never put her down, Makes me want to be a better person naturally w/o nagging, Don't gotta listen to me but at least take what I say into consideration, makes me feel comfortable no matter where we are as long as she's around, have the illusion that i'm cool, know she's special cuz I like her =), thinks of me and makes me special too =) wants to go do stuff with me (e.g travel).





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