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Martin Landau confesses – "Life
would have been hell without her!" Source:
TV Picture Life 12/1968
Martin Landau loves his wife, Barbara Bain, so much that he’d
give his life for her.
Not only that, but even in death he’d
give her his heart. The love the Landaus have for each other comes
from mutual respect and admiration. Barbara knows that a pretty face
is not enough to keep her guy. She is there whenever he needs her to
give him support when he’s tense, or tired, or just feeling low.
Martin thought that Barbara was an arrogant blonde when he first met
her in New York. He was teaching an acting class and Barbara enrolled
as a student. She impressed him with her charm and intelligence.
Within a year they married. Martin has s very special feeling for
Barbara. She is the mother of his children, the light in his future,
and the love of his life.
When I asked him how he felt about heart
transplants, made famous by Dr. Christiaan Barnard of South Africa,
Martin said, "Of course I’m in favor of the heart transplant
idea! Why shouldn’t I perpetuate a life, if I could?"
Today, after 12 years knowing
Barbara," he confided to us, "Life would have been hell
without her." With the miracle of this operation, he perhaps will
never have to face this possibility.
Martin said, thoughtfully, "Well,
Barbara and I talked about heart transplant quite a bit. We discussed
the situation in which a man’s mother dies, and her heart is
transplanted to another person’s body! Where would this man’s
sentiments go? Should he feel closer to the person walking around with
his mother’s heart in his body? Is that man, walking around,
extending the mother’s life in any way?" "This kind lf
talk is strange! WE never would have thought, as children, that some
day we’d be talking about transplanting organs from one body to
another. Yet, the world changes and the impossible and the incredible
of last year becomes the possible today. The idea of somebody walking
around with your mother’s heart is not impossible any more!"
Martin’s own mother died 10 years ago.
Who knows what would have happened if the heart transplant idea had
been worked out then? Who knows how many of our dearly beloved
relatives could have been saved? Martin has said that life would have
been hell without Barbara. Maybe now he won’t have to live without
her. If accident or illness should ever threaten to take her from him,
this new discovery could save her life. This could mean that he need
never face a life without her.
Did Martin and Barbara come to any
conclusion about heart transplants?
"No. There are no absolutes! Today,
anything is possible! Why not? And I also have to say, 'Why' and 'Why
bother?'"
Modern medicine offers so many startling
changes in the years to come, Martin points out.
"I’m fascinated with the idea of
freezing a person and letting him come back to life in another century.
Have you read about it? It’s a sensational way of preserving a
genius for the future. It’s a startling way of taking a person
hopelessly ill and bringing him back at a time when that particular
disease has a cure."
Did Martin Landau have any moral or
religious reasons to oppose or be afraid of some of these medical
miracles? "No, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with
these ideas. They don’t shock me. But I am shocked that people are
still throwing rocks at each other, and now the rocks are bombs, and
people are still throwing them at each other! We are still so
primitive, basically, and I wonder why we’ve learned so little!"
A pause. He sipped on his drink, then
took a few minutes to sign autographs.
"Somebody once asked George Bernard
Shaw, 'Why don’t you have cut flowers in your home? Don’t you like
cut flowers?' He answered, 'I like children, tpp, but I don’t cut
their heads off.‘
"I’m much more concerned with the
children of the world, and things that I find it’s not easy to
justify something like abortion, or not to justify it. There area
times when abortions are immoral, and there are times when abortions
are good, as in rape."
I noticed he wasn’t smoking. "I
was smoking three packs of cigarettes a day," he told us,
"and my press agent bet me that I couldn’t stop. But I did!
It’s been a month now. I’m dedicated not to resume smoking!"
His publicist, Gertrude Brooks, started
to smoke a cigarette. Martin scolded her, then he said, "I had
been smoking 20 years. If I could stop, then you can!"
He smiled mischievously, as he took the
lighted cigarette out of her hand. "I’ll show you how to stop
smoking! Just make the cigarette disappear!" And with a
magician’s wave of his hand, the cigarette disappeared!
Actually, he had palmed it so that it went out of view. Then he
brought it into view and squashed it in the ashtray.
"My wife smokes," he conceded,
"but I don’t try to stop her. Because I’ve stopped smoking
doesn’t mean I can insist that she stop too. Do I have the right to
stop her? No, she has to find out for herself. You can’t do thinking
for other people! They have to experience something for themselves!"
How about your children smoking? Would
you stop them? I asked.
"Our children are Susan Meredith, 8
and Juliet Rose, 3. Of course, I’d stop them if I caught them
smoking at age 4. But when they got older, I’d warn them against the
hazards of smoking, but I would not stop them. My job is to introduce
my children to the world, to tell them about the good things and the
bad things, to prepare them for life as it is, to let them know about
life in a clean and healthy way.
"When they’re older, they’ll
make their own mistakes. My job will be to give them guidance."
I asked if he believed in astrology, and
he said, "People ask me all the time under what sign was I born?
And I say, I’m not putting down astrology but I don’t want to be
classified. There’s an oversimplification there."
But what is your birthday? I asked.
"My wife was born Sept. 13, and our
Juliet was born Aug. 13, and my sister was born June 13. But I’m not
a 13. I was born June 20. I’m between cancer and gemini."
Martin still keeps in touch with people
he used to work with as a $75-a-week apprentice in an art department,
back in 1951. He used to convulse his fellow workers with dialect
jokes and they kept urging him, "You ought to be an actor!"
That encouraged him to study acting and, finally, after a period of
starving, to make it big in TV and movies.
Because of his interest in heart
transplants, I asked if he had ever thought of becoming a doctor. He
had a quick answer: "I didn’t become a doctor because I don’t
like to see blood. I leaned toward the artistic areas, anyway. Doctors
do a great job for you and me and for everybody, but I didn’t want
to become a doctor." The conversation drifted back to heart
transplants, after Martin had cheerfully signed a few more autographs.
"Would your wife want you to have
her heart if she died first and knew you needed a new heart?" I
asked.
"You’d have to ask her," he
said. "She is very articulate, and she knows her mind, and I
believe in letting her speak for herself."
"Would you give your heart to your
children? I asked.
"Of course I would!" he said.
"Then would you give your heart to
your wife?" I questioned. "Why shouldn’t I?" he said, firmly. "Besides, it’s such a romantic conception!" Then he might never have to lose his lovely Barbara. |