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This is about my feelings and I own them! |
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I am a true Taurus and in charge of my feelings and my life. After the abuse I have been through, I would like to help others , who are in the situation that I woke up one day and found myself in. Thinking that I did not deserve any better and that I earned what I got. This is WRONG. I am the makings of GOD and HE did not make me to live that way. It is a learned behavior on the abusers part and we learned how to tolerate it. They will not change no matter what the abusee does. It has to be them that changes them. We are raised that as women, that the home life is our doings and we can change it but we can not. Instead we have to sort through the forest for a way out and see that we do not fall into the same forest again. This takes some training.
If you find that this is your situation, please read the 'Rules for Life' listed below and know that I now live by them. |
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Rules for a Healthy Life |
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1. Take ownership of your feelings.
2. No one can make you feel what you do not allow them.
3. Life has alot of possibilities. YOU make the choices.
4. Happiness starts deep in ones own heart.
5. Pamper yourself at least once a week.
6. Never fear asking for help, when you know you need it.
7. Remember the inner child in all of us.
8. Allow yourself to be human. Love, hugs, mistakes and forgiveness are to be human.
9. Hold on to your faith.
10. Be totally truthful to yourself. The biggest lies we tell, we tell ourselves. |
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