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my friend jacob knew this girl megan, that he really liked, and he thought she really liked him. he would alwayse tell us about her, and we would try to get him to shut up, but he wouldn't. then one day he stopped talking about her. he stopped talking pretty much all togother. he was a complete wreck, and when i eventually decided to talk to megan, because he wasnt saying anything, she said nothing had ever happened. now this confused me. how on earth could she have led jacob on for as long as she had? i tried to get her to tell me that jacob had played some kind of roll other than just friends, but according to her nothing had happened. nothing at all. i could later see how my friend could fall into this trap though. i had before any number of times, and im sure i will again. you see, women arent satisfied untill they have completely confused every man they come into contact with. guys like to be important, and many women dont seem to understand this. there is supposed to be like a pyramid of importance for where people stand in any given persons life. your best friend, and girlfriend and family are up at the top, and all the people you hang out with and know are lower down, depending on how well you know them and how well you get along with them and trust them. the higher up on the pyramid you go, the more privelages you give those people. you hang out with them more, you do more for them to help them, or in the case of girlfriends, you put out. now guys are aware of this, and they enjoy it, but there are originally other things that are important. like what girls tell guys about their feelings and all that crap. if a girl is willing to share stuff with them, its a sign of being higher up on that pyramid. but there are girls out there that will tell everybody everything, or will put out to everybody, and guys arent alwayse aware of this right away. if a girls a whore most everybody knows, but it goes both ways. there are girls that will tell guys everything, and there is no way to tell how high up on the pyramid you are. it gets so confusing, that the only real way to know anything about where you stand is to use the base system. coming out of the relationship the only thing your sure of is that you got to 3rd base, or whatever it may be. its at first very upsetting, but guys are quickly decensitized, and use the base system universaly. now the small percentage of girls that are normal, and understand the concept of the pyramid are left upset by guys that have become decensitized because they think they are stuck at the bottom of the pyramid, when really the pyramid has become a few seperate levels. the levels being the bases. it makes everything a lot easier for the guys, because they dont have to deal with all the emotional crap, and are always sure of themselves. at this point only the whores are happy, because they're the only ones maintaining their status. guys have stopped listening to the talkers, and the normal girls, and only care about getting layed. so untill all women understand the pyramid, guys will go on trying to get into your pants. |
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