This is all about me, the use of "I" will be used frequently. "You" is not you per se, not at all, unless you want it to be. Then again, you don't always get to choose.

I am Talek and I don't know what a segue is.

I don't appreciate life as much as others do. I take pleasure in a select few things: my partner in love & dance, friends, sex anywhere everywhere, music (Darkwave, Synth/Future Pop, Industrial, Rock, EBM), dancing (club, latin), art (abstract, minimalistic), ontario, humour (dark, dirty), bad words, indoor/outdoor sports, writing (interviews, reviews), animals, surprises, computers, games, food (italian, grill), big cities, clubs, concerts and romance.

I am sick and tired of non contributing zeroes who are a waste of flesh and brain matter. People who do absolutely nothing with their lives. Just fucking off yourself if you're going to be a selfish little shit that lives only to leech off of other people's happiness in order to feel some sick sense of righteousness. For some reason, people like that cannot comprehend that they were given one life and one life only to live. Ask yourself- what would you say in response to the following question: "So tell me about yourself?". If you end up scratching out the back of your head for meaningless details then you probably live a pretty sad life. In order to live a life worth living you must ensure that nobody is trying to live it for you. Consider everyone that you've met, read about, etc... to be mere influences on your life... nothing more. Once your life is in your hands then you can start to add value to it by finding what you take pleasure in and partaking in it. Just remember to do onto others as you would have them do onto you.

There are some people out there that you would call conceited, full of themselves and egoistic. Those terms have become ugly over the years so I prefer to call these people "confident". The line that is drawn between good confidence is bad is when they are confident only for attention, aka attention whores. You see, confidence is one of my greatest turn-on's. It tells me that you are secure with who you are. Once you are secure with who you are then you can start to live life to the fullest. Doing what you want to do and being with who you want to be with. Insecure people simply take what they can get. Fuck off. Never shy away from what you feel like doing in life. You will never find out who you are if you continue to hide behind your sense of self.

I live a pretty drama-free life. Any drama I do receive is from someone else. Which I love. People get worried about dumping a load of their problems on another persons lap... generally its OK so long as that person doesn't have problems of their own. I love helping other people, if I've done anything rewarding in this life then it's definitely got to be cheering someone up when they are down. To me, nothing is greater.

I am by no means anti-social. If I don't like you I will not speak with you, it is that simple- ceasing communication prevents drama. In other words: Shut The Fuck Up until you have something intelligent to say. That isn't to say that lack of communication means I don't like you... it could mean that I don't feel like talking with you at that particular time or that communication with you simply hasn't crossed my mind as something to do! Use your head and figure out which one you fall under.

It took me a while but I finally understand what it means to be in love. It is mixture of two parts. Lust and Friendship. Lust is the attraction and friendship is the commitment. Love binds these two together. Lets break it down even further. Lust. If you don't feel sexually and emotionally attracted to your partner on a physical and mental level then you are not in lust with him/her. The sex should be great and your emotions should be wild. Just remember to keep them in check. Obsession and jealously should not near the top of your emotions. Friendship. If you are not friends with your partner then everything you do with him/her will feel like a burdoning chore, especially if you are still managing to communicate with one another.

Now once you've realized that you're in love and that your partner loves you back then for fuck sakes don't wear it out! Love is sacred. Do not misuse the words: "I Love You". The #1 place people misuse those words is at the end of conversations. It can and will become an expectation or even a routine. This should never happen... This may seem strange to read at first but trust me. If you save those words for when you truly feel in love then I can honestly say that every time you hear the words "I Love You", you will feel what you felt the first time you heard it from your partner.

Romance. Let me make this clear. Guys should be romantic and so should girls. This is not a one way thing. If you're truly in love then it doesn't matter what gender you are... you are fully capable of giving and receiving romance. Romance goes well with creativity and surprises. Just remember... like love and like everything else in life -don't wear it out... If your partner is expecting flowers every birthday or anniversary then you have a problem. I shouldn't need to explain why thats a problem. We've all had bad Christmas presents.

Surprises are honestly what makes life interesting. Everything new you learn is a small surprise in itself. It is unfortunate that I am someone who is rarely surprised. I'm not dumb, I can sense when someones trying to surprise me. Typically here is how gift giving goes for me. "What do you want?" I tell them and I get it. I don't come from a poor family so that statement is often very true. And if I don't get what I asked for then I will be upset. I may sound like a spoiled brat right now but let me explain. You asked me what I wanted, therefore I have an expectation, if you don't fulfill that expectation then I get upset. That's fucking fair. You may be asking yourself "Well if you didn't get what you get then that's a surprise! Be happy!" I would love to be happy but the fact is that you've already set up an expectation. If you didn't then I would be ecstatic. Please don't give me hints to surprises... I remind you that I am not dumb and am fully able to piece shit together. Lastly I hate to know the date and/or time of the surprise. Knowing there is a surprise causes 1/2 of the surprise to be lost. Good luck, if you succeed then I will gaurantee: it will not go underappreciated!!!

I am no environmentalist. But I have a few things that irritate me. Why do you need to use a plastic bag every fucking time you go to the grocery, you got carts and you got hands, use them you lazy shits. Why do you need to drink water out of a plastic bottle, it comes from a fucking tap! Get a filter or buy a god damn refillable water dispenser! It's the little things that you don't think about that all of us do. Get a bike, take a bus to work... THINK what you and a million others are doing to the planet.

On a side note, stop fucking smoking. Stop killing the rest of us with your second hand smoke. Stop shoving your fingers down your throat to gag up your lack-there-of a dinner into your tissue paper filled toilet bowl. Stop controlling others and demanding from others you obsessive compulsive little fuck, life does not revolve around your pathetic little self. Stop being a shitty human being who is so dependent on others to the point your independence is so foreign to you that you would starve if no one was there to cater to your every fucking need. STOP WASTING YOUR LIFE! We are all going to die some day. The worst feeling that you could ever before you die is regret because only then is it truly too late.