Words to Live By
Words to live by are just words, unless you live by them.  You have to walk the talk.


The Holding Pattern

     Many  times God will allow a painful situation or a painful circumstance in our  life  to  "swallow  us  up."  This season in our spiritual growth is a holding  pattern.  We can't move to the left or the right. All we can do is sit,  like  Jonah  sat in the belly of that great fish, so God can have our undivided attention and speak to us.

     God put Jonah in a holding pattern because He needed to speak to his heart. Jonah  was  all alone. There were no friends to call, no colleagues to drop by,   no  books  to  read,  no  food  to  eat,  no  interferences,  and  no interruptions. He had plenty of time to sit, think, meditate, and pray.

     When we're deep down in the midst of a difficult situation, God can talk to us.  When  He  has  our  undivided  attention,  He can show us things about ourselves that we might not otherwise have seen.

A Few Of God's Holding Patterns

1. When you are sick in your physical body and you have prayed, but God has not healed you yet, you are in a holding pattern.
2. When you are having problems with your children and you have put them on the  altar,  but  God  has  not  delivered  them  yet, you are in a holding pattern.
3.  When  you  have  been praying for the salvation of a loved one and they have not been saved yet, you are in a holding pattern.
4. When you are in a broken relationship and you have given it over to God, but it has not been restored yet, you are in a holding pattern.
5.  When  the  doors  slam  shut before you can knock on them, you are in a holding pattern.

     When  we  are  deep  in  the  belly  of a difficult situation, there are no interruptions.  God  has  our  undivided  attention.  All we can do is sit, think,  meditate,  and  pray.  We  cannot run from God because there are no mountains  that  are  high enough, valleys that are low enough, rivers that are  wide  enough,  rooms  that  are dark enough, or places that are hidden enough  from  Him.  We  must remember to praise Him while we're waiting and remember three things:

1. The pattern has a purpose.
2. The pattern has a plan.
3. The pattern has a process.

So  stop  struggling  and start listening, praying and trusting. He'll keep you right where you are until you can clearly hear Him say, "I love you."

Forwarded by Nell


 
 

When I pray 
The Lord's Prayer
 

I cannot say...



     OUR,   if I am selfish and do not think of others
     FATHER,  if I do not treat my parents with respect
     WHO ART IN HEAVEN,  if all I care about are material things
     HALLOWED BE THY NAME,  if I do not say the LORD'S name with reverence
     THY KINGDOM COME, THY WILL BE DONE,  if I am more interested in things my own way
     ON EARTH AS IT IS IN HEAVEN,  if I am not ready to do HIS will here on earth
     GIVE US THIS DAY OUR DAILY BREAD,  without being willing to share what I have with others
     FORGIVE US OUR TRESPASSES AS WE FORGIVE THOSE WHO TRESPASS AGAINST US,
if I hold grudges and  will not forgive others
     DELIVER US FROM THE EVIL,  if I am not willing to walk away from those things that are wrong 
and ask the Lord's help through prayer
     THINE IS THE KINGDOM,  if I am not willing to accept God as a Ruler of my life
     THINE IS THE POWER,  if I do not remember that my gifts and talents 
come from God not from myself
     THINE IS THE GLORY,  if I only seek my own glory and recognition
     FOREVER AND EVER,  if I am only interested in what is happening in my life right now

     AMEN  unless I can say "WHATEVER HAPPENS IN MY LIFE, THIS IS MY PRAYER
 


Forwarded by Edmon
 
 
 

The  shortest  distance  between  a  problem and a solution is the distance between  your knees and the floor. The one who kneels to the Lord can stand up to anything. Be Blessed.


 
 
 
 

Wise Words
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 On Worry
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     Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrows; it empties today of its strength.

     There is a great difference between worry and concern.  A worried person sees a problem, and a concerned person solves a problem.

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Forwarded by Beng

Beauty Tips
by Audrey Hepburn

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness
For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry
For beautiful hair, let a child run their fingers through it once a day
For poise, walk with the knowledge that you will never walk alone

People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived,
reclaimed, and redeemed. Never throw out anybody.

Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of yourarm. As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one forhelping yourself, the other for helping others.

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure she
carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be
seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the placewhere love resides.

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman
is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion
that she shows, and the beauty of a woman with passing years only grows.
 

Forwarded by Dana
 

    "The real way to happiness is by giving happiness to others.  Try to leave this world a little better than when you found it. So that when your turn comes to death, you will die happy in feeling and at any rate you have not wasted your time but have done you're best....." 

     One of the things that I have learned from scouting and it sure is helping me in my life.

     If you have some words of wisdom that you want to share, we'll gladly welcome it.  Creativity does not end in the school and we like to encourage everyone to exercise their creative mind to contribute something that will be useful to everyone.  It does not have to be a forward or a page from a magazine.  We can also create something based on our experiences.  It can be a tip on how to keep the candle burning in your marriage.  Or little tips on how to raise your kids effectively.  Or how to live worry-free and carefree, yet facing your responsibilities.

     Glowball will be your chance to be helped and be helpful.  It will be the trading post of good ideas, principles and practical solutions. 



 

Stick Or Logic

"Ang anak na di paluin, ina ang paluluhain."

      Sa Amerika... 911 ang bukang bibig ng mga bata.  Sa iskwelahan pa lang tinuturuan na silang tumawag sa 911 kung inaabuso sila.  A good way to protect the kids. 
     Kaya ba matitigas ang ulo ng Amerikano?  Hindi tayo ganito lumaki sa Pilipinas.  We have respect for the elders dahil pag salbahe ka...palo ang abot mo.  Kaya may respeto ang mga Pilipino.
     Pero ano ang implications ng "pamalo"?  For one it encourages fear and the kids develop inhibitions na pwede nilang madala hanggang sa adult life nila.  Isa pa, may respeto nga ang Pilipino pero pag may pamalo lang kadalasan.  When left unpoliced, corruption comes.  Hindi bukal sa loob ang pagiging matino.  For most part, dala lang ng "pamalo"
     Sa Amerika, liberal ang mentality ng mga tao dahil sa uninhibited freedom.  May mga drawbacks nga pero may mga pros din that leads to a mindset na kailangan to have a progressive society.  
     One of the techniques that we got from them is "the time-out principle".  Pag may ginawang kalokohan ang bata, pinapatayo sa isang sulok... Nope, hindi nakadipa o nakaluhod sa munggo!  Nakaupo o nakatayo lang sa isang sulok....to give the kid time to think kung ano ang maling ginawa nya.  Pag ready na syang tanggapin ang mali nya, pwede na syang umalis.  And it works for our kids.
     Another thing is....you have to talk to them and explain kung bakit mali ang ginawa nila.  This way hindi lang sakit sa bum from the whip ang driving force sa pagiging matino nila kundi yung mga reasons na ipapaliwanag mo.  Mawawala ang latay ng pamalo but the logical explanations will stay in their mind.
     Isa pa, the kid will hold your whipping against you, psychologically.  A relationship that is based on LOVE will always be better than the one based on FEAR.
     A stick?  Or logic?  It's all up to us kung ano ang gagamitin natin sa mga bata...but bear in mind the long-term implications of the stick & logic.

True Story of Faith - My Friends the Burtons

This is a true story that was written by my friend Maria Burton and sent to me on April 21, 2000.  Many of you will remember her beautiful Kentucky accent reading at our wedding. Some of you will remember her from Landmark
 Education classes. 

Last night, as severe weather developed in Lexington, I was given yet another gift of 'being' aware and choosing.  As, Sarah and I shook, quit literally , in a bedroom closet, Bill was outside 'observing' the weather.  The weather service had issued a Tornado Warning. To make it yet worse, there was a funnel cloud in downtown Lexington (about 
 4 miles from us) that was heading right on a path to our neighborhood.  Bill has always 'chosen' to be with it.  Sarah and I, on the other hand, chose to 'wait' shivering in a closet for something to 'maybe' happen, that would be devastating to us, as we see it.

As Bill observed the wind sock spin in all directions and hail fall in the front yard, he came to the bedroom window and said "OK, its time, get under the house"  (We have a crawlspace access right out our window)

When Sarah and I entered the crawl space and sat down, I noticed something. In my small childs hand , she clinched my sacrifice beads.  Now, for some reason, I saw them on my dresser when we first entered the closet and am consistantly 'aware' of my childs undying spirituality and so, I handed them to her.  In the panic of 'being in survival', I had forgotten about handing them to her.

My mother had given us each one of them.  We had NEVER heard of them - they >are something I have it have been lost in history.  Sacrifice beads consist of ten beads with a cross that hangs on the end and on the other end is a medal - which can vary.  My beads have a medal of the holy spirit - which I chose.

To me, the holy spirit is a symbol of the 'human' trinity.  By that, I mean the trinity that we are as human - the mind, body, and spirit.  The spirit NEVER forgets who you really are, yet will not force itself on the mind and body - that I have it, the spirit leaves US to choose to BE who we really
are.  It never forgets - and represents 'all knowing', our oneness with God.

Well, suddenly, I 'became' peacefull.  In that, I came to ' BE' peace.  I  observed Sarah.  She was shaking uncontrollable - as if in convulsion.  I observed tthat I had no urgency or need to 'change' her way of 'being'- there
was nothing 'wrong', it was so very OK to be afraid.  And, that in itself is a miracle, anyone who is a parent knows that it does not 'feel' OK when their child is afraid.

Yet, what happened next altered us.  I looked at her and said, "You know, when your grandmother gave us those she said we could DO anything we wanted with them.  We could pray any prayer we wanted on those beads.  But, the true essence of their creation was for sacrifice."

"And, we could play with that right now."   "For every minute that we dont shake, that we are peaceful and trust God, we can move a bead - and offer our fear to God as a sacrificce."  She suddenly altered.  And, I said to her, 
"you can move two of those right now for me because I have been peaceful for about two minutes now."

Sarah quit shaking.  She moved a bead.  Bill at that moment was COMPLETELY AMAZED AT WHAT HE WAS WITNESSING OUTSIDE THE CRAWL SPACE.

When I told him about what happened under the house, he was excited.  He said "I could WRITE something about what I saw happen outside.  It was as if suddenly the sky over our house cleared and the storm split right down the middle of our house."  He said he watched as the path of the storm passed over both the front of the house and the back of the house with a clearing path right over top of us.

Sarah and I got out of the crawlspace, the storm had passed.  We were safe, and peaceful.  She looked up at me and acknowledged me.  She said, "Mom there is nothing wrong with being afraid, but I am so thankful that you were peaceful because it gave me peaceful and I was shaking like a cold wet dog." Bill, acknowledged Sarah and I.  He acknowleded us both for being calm and he acknowledged Sarah for her spirituality.  He told her he was thankful for who she was.

We truely can choose, in the face of anything who we are 'being' in any moment.  There are ALL WAYS of BEING.....always.

Love, Maria

Forwarded by Tet

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