Don't call your lost love. They dumped you for a reason, so give them some time to examine their feelings and the situation.
Just as you musn't call your ex, don't send them text messages either. They will find it more annoying and irritating than seeing it as a grand gesture of love.
Don't be a wet blanket and act all needy.. Acting miserable and sad will not make them want you back. Would you respect someone who carries on like that?
Don't even think about confronying your ex and getting into a fight with them. Logically, you know this isn't appropriate behaviour. Do you think you are going to argue them back to you?
Insisting to your ex that they have made a uge error is going to aggravate them. Do you think they really care about what you think right now? You are just giving them more reason to want to stay away from you.
Whatever you do, don't ring their family or friends. This one blunder alone can kill any chance you have of getting your lost love back. Asking other people to get involved makes you look weak and wimpy.
Don't go to places where you know your lost love is likely to be unless they know you will show up. Most people will see right through this tactic, no matter how innocent you try to act. Do you really want people to see you as a weak obsessed stalker?
So now you know exactly what NOT to do when your ex dumps you. Do you know there are lots of things that you CAN do to get your ex back?
