Secrets of Absolute
TOTAL CONFIDENCE
THE FIRST RULE OF CONFIDENCE IS HAVE THE ABILITY TO WALK, TO FOLD A DEAL ANY TIME YOU CHOOSE. (AND ACTUALLY DO IT).
The greatest saleman of all time, Diamond Jim Brady, wanted to get the equipment supply account handled by a major railroad executive who refused to see him. So Diamond Jim, in his characteristic flair, sat in the executive's waiting room for over two weeks, with the executive completely ignoring Jim the entire time. Suspense and curiosity get the better of the executive, who finally asked Jim sharply and curtly what he wanted. Jim just quietly kicked back, looked at his nails, and slowly said "YOU, SIR, CAN PROCEED DIRECTLY TO HELL..." and he MEANT it! After recovering from his initial surprise, the executive invited Jim into his office, and that afternoon Jim left with a multimillion dollar order (in 1800's dollars...)
Moral of the story? Handle super hot model type stuck up unapproachable babes the same way, and more often than not if you do it right, they'll be coming back to YOU for more...trust me, there are many players out there who can attest to this.
Ross Jeffries says that the one thing that will best make babes want to come to you is to have the ability to walk away from them at any time for any reason, without looking back and with no regret. He says the word "NO" is one of your most powerful tools in your get laid arsenal.
THE SECOND RULE OF CONFIDENCE IS MODEL WHAT WORKS
- Spend time with other "players." Hang out with the ones who consistently get the most women. Offer to pick up their tab or be their designated driver. Converse with them.
- Observe their body language, their tone of voice, their manner of speech, their mannerisms. Try to observe more that just one player, to gain a background in different styles.
- Watch performances of celebrities who get lots of women. Rent their videos, and observe them like you did the players.
This may sound and feel really silly, but you are giving your unconscious mind material to work with, material you can assimilate into your own personality using this next process where you install and anchor them.
- In a quiet time and place, close your eyes and recall things you have observed the players do, especially at the critical points they gained success.
- Move these scenes backward and forward in your mind, up close and far away, out of the picture and in it.
- At the point you get the best feel or experience of the peak of their success, reach over and squeeze the wrist of the hand you DON'T write with (this hand is on the side of the body controlled by your creative mind, the part of your mind that has access to your unconscious).
- Repeat the process twice more in the same sitting. Perform this process at least once a day, preferably before you go to sleep.
- Perform the same process while recalling scenes with the celebrities in the videos, preferably where they are succeeding with women. At the peak of the scence, gently squeeze that wrist.
- What you have just done is install an "anchor." Everytime you do something successful with women, squeeze the wrist. Keep loading the anchor like this with as many successful experiences as you can over time.
In a short time, you will get to the point where all you have to do is squeeze your wrist when meeting a woman, and all of your experiences will provide you with the confidence and know-how to succeed with the woman.
To learn more about the concept of anchoring, read everything you can on the Subject of Nuero Linguistic Programming, pioneered in the 1970's by John Grinder and Richard Bandler.