Trina......!

Here is a story about a woman named Carlene and her daughter Trina.

Once Upon A Time there was a homeless desperate pregnant girl named Carlene. She had no job and was desperate to find a man to take her into his home. Carlene was several months pregnant and had nowhere to go. She had no job and nowhere to live. Dewayne, a friend of mine let Carlene stay with him and his girlfriend as he felt sorry for her. One day he invited me over for a visit and introduced me to Carlene.

When I first layed eyes on her, I knew there could be something between us. We talked about our interests which included music and fast cars. I ended up spending the night and nothing happened between us. I phoned her and we talked several time. Eventually we made plans to go out on a date.

To make a long story short, I moved her into my place and helped her durring her hard times. Carlene eventually landed a job working fast food but that began to take a toll on her so she applied for state assistance. We married in December several days before she gave birth to a beautiful healthy girl. We named her Trina Kathleen Payson.

Several years had passed and Carlene did the imaginable. She broke her vows and played the field. Unknown to me, Carlene was having an affair several weeks before I came home sick from work and found them together.

Carlene addmitted the affair and said she was pregnant by this man too. She told me she wasn't getting the attention she needed. How could I be with a woman who was pregnant with another mans child...her response was "we can raise this child as your own like Trina". I suggested that Carlene move out and live with her grandmother while I sorted things out. Several months passed and I made the big decision to moved out of the apartment and findd a nice home to start things out fresh. I was willing to put things aside and move forward to provide a good enviroment to Trina.

Carlene was living her own life and having fun being single again. She had moved in with a man that was in the Gulf War. She had access to all his money and was living it up associating with known drug dealers in the area. I visited several times to see her and the baby hoping we could work things out. I couldn't believe how she was living. It was sad to see the living conditions they were living in. While I was there I could tell Carlene was all mixed up inside.

Later I found out she depleated all this guys bank accounts and found another man to be with. During this time, Carlene would call me wanting to come back home. She wanted to make it work. I was beginning to feel like this was the turning point where it would all be back to normal. I had made arrangment to get her and Trina back to Bakersfield. I wired money to the train station for a one way ticket but that never happended. I never got a phone call from that moment on. I decided that it was time to file for divorce. After serving her the papers Carlene turned into a totally different person becoming very hateful telling me that I would never see Trina again as long as I wasn't payng child support.

Several months later:

I received a letter from the DA telling me I owed thousands of dollars in back child support as Carlene told the DA that I was the biological father of Trina so I decided to submit to a DNA test since I knew I wasn't Trinas biological father, just by name.. The results came back possitive that I was her father. How could that be? I couldn't have children and anyway, I met Carlene when she was 3 months pregnant. I had to hire a lawyer to defend me which costed several thousand dollars. The outcome was that I was cleared of paying back child support and any future child support payments. Carlene did remarry and had two more children my this man. The last that I heard was that Carlene met another man while online and took the his children away from thier father. Hmmm another story in the vicious cycle of an unfaithful woman who will never be happy. If you know this woman, beware! She is a user who is always looking to find a place where the grass is greener.

If you know a young lady named Trina Kathleen Payson and her birthday is 12-30-89, you tell her she has a whole lot of baby pictures and things she used as a baby in safe keeping here with me. I will glady giver her these items upon request. My thoughts and prayers are with her daily.