| MOST boys and girls get
married when they grow up to be men and women. It has always been
that way, and that is why Isaac, who lived about four thousand years
ago, got married. As you will remember from our last story, Isaac
was born because God kept his promise to Abraham that he would have
a child. This meant that Isaac was a very special child, because God
wanted him to be born, and wanted to use him and his children to
bring great joy to all the people of the world.
So when Isaac was old enough
to get married, his father considered it very important that he have
the right kind of wife. I am quite sure if any of us were living in
a foreign land where the people were all different from us, we would
be thinking about our home country, and if anyone in our family
planned to get married, we would prefer him to marry someone from
our own country.
Well, that is the way Abraham
felt about it.
You see, Abraham had journeyed
a long, long way from his home country to the place where he was
living when Isaac was born. Of course God wanted him to live in this
new country, because it was the land that he had promised. It was
the land of Canaan. That land is now called Israel, and it is still
referred to by many people as the Promised Land. The people living
there it that time were strangers to Abraham, and he knew God would
not want Isaac to marry one of these strangers. So what do you
suppose he did?
Well, he didn't let Isaac
himself seek for someone to marry. No, what Abraham did was to talk
the whole matter over with his very best and most faithful servant,
whose name was Eliezer. He asked Eliezer to go back to the land from
which they had come, and there find Abraham's family. From that
family he was to select a very nice girl and bring her back to be
Isaac's wife.
Eliezer thought this would be
almost too difficult for him to do. He was afraid, you see, that the
girl he would choose would not want to come back with him. But
Abraham was sure that this was the way God wanted Isaac to obtain a
wife. So he told Eliezer that if the girl he selected did not want
to come with him he would not be blamed. Eliezer agreed to do the
best he could. Abraham told him that God would send one of his
angels to lead him in his search for the wife he was to bring back
to Isaac. Abraham knew that God, having promised to bless his
children and the whole world, would make sure that Isaac had a good
wife.
God's promises always come
true!
Eliezer got ready for the long
journey back to Abraham's home country. There still were no railroad
trains or automobiles. They didn't have any steamships, either.
Maybe you think Eliezer went by airplane, but he didn't, because
there were no airplanes. How, then, did he travel? He traveled on
the back of a camel! That is the animal with a big hump on its
back.
But Eliezer used more than one
camel. He took ten camels with him. Now, of course, Eliezer did not
need ten camels on which to ride. But this was a very long journey,
and he had to take food and water, and probably tents in which to
sleep at night, so camels were needed to help carry all these
things. It must have been exciting when Eliezer and the ten camels
started off on that long trip! Of course, Eliezer could not take
care of all those animals by himself, so it was necessary that
others go along with him. Perhaps Eliezer and some of the others
rode on the camels, while some of them may have walked. Thus they
started off to find a wife for Isaac.
Probably Abraham and Isaac
both watched Eliezer and the camels as they started on that long
journey. I wouldn't be surprised if lsaac wished he could go along
too. But in those days that was not the proper thing to. Isaac had
to wait at home for his wife until Eliezer returned and brought her
to him. The Bible doesn't tell us how long they were away on that
journey, but it must have been a long time.
Finally, though, they traveled
in Mesopotamia, near a city called Nahor. They arrived toward the
close of day. Now we must remember that cities in those days weren't
like our cities today. Some of the people who lived in the city of
Nahor were farmers and raisers of cattle and sheep. When they need
water for themselves and for their flocks it was necessary to go
outside of the city where there were wells. There they would fill
large pitchers with water and carry them back to their
homes.
When Eliezer came near to the
city of Nahor, he stopped near a well of water. As it was toward
evening he knew that before long someone would be out from the city
to get water from that well. At that time the women were the ones
who carried the water. Probably the men had to work very hard, and
the women thought that it would be a good idea to help them by
bringing the water.
Eliezer had great faith in
God, and he knew that God wanted him to find the right woman to be
Isaac's wife. So he prayed while waiting at the well. He asked God
to help him decide this very important matter. Eliezer's plan was
that when a young lady came out to draw water from the well he would
ask her for a drink of water from her pitcher. If she gave him
water, and also said that she would like to give water to his
camels, then he would know that this was the right girl. He asked
God to let it be this way.
Eliezer waited only a short
time, when along came a young lady by the name of Rebekah, with her
water pitcher upon her shoulder. The Bible says that she was a very
beautiful young woman. After she had filled her pitcher with water
from the well, Eliezer went up to her and asked for a drink of
water. She was very friendly. Not only did she give him a drink, but
she also offered to get water for his camels.
Eliezer was quite surprised
that the very first young lady to come out to the well should be so
willing to give him water, and also to water the camels. He had
asked the Lord to let it be this way, yet he wanted to make very
sure that Rebekah was really the right young lady to be Isaac's
wife. So he said to her, "Whose daughter are you?" And she said, "I
am the daughter of Bethuel, and the grand child of
Nahor."
Nahor was a brother of
Abraham; so you see when Eliezer found this out he knew that he was
among Abraham's people. Then he was almost certain that Rebekah was
the young lady to become Isaac's wife. Eliezer had brought with him
a large gold earring, and two beautiful gold bracelets. He gave
these to Rebekah, and asked her if there was room in her father's
house for him to stay that night.
Rebekah was really very nice
about it. She told Eliezer they had plenty of room for him, and that
they had food for the camels, and a place for them to stay. This
made Eliezer very happy indeed, because now he was sure that the
angel of the Lord had brought him to the right people, and that he
had already found a good wife for Isaac.
Rebekah had a brother whose
name was Laban. When he heard of Eliezer's visit, he rain out to the
well and invited him to come into their home. He did this because he
knew that God was blessing Abraham, and he knew that God would bless
them if they were good to Eliezer, the servant of Abraham. They
fixed up the house for the company, and arranged a place for the
camels, and they were all comfortably settled for the night.
Rebekah's family, were very kind and generous, and prepared a
delicious meal for Eliezer. They asked him to eat, but he explained
that he would not eat anything until he had told them why he had
come.
They were very anxious to know
why he had made such a long journey, and they asked him to tell them
all about it. So Eliezer related a wonderful story about his master,
Abraham. Probably these relatives of Abraham had often wondered how
he had been getting along since he left home so many years before,
and I can imagine how interested they were to hear Eliezer's story,
telling them how good God bid been to Abraham. He explained that God
had given Abraham cattle and sheep, and silver and gold, and many
men and women to help him, and that he had ever so many camels and
other valuable possessions.
Then he told them about
Abraham's boy Isaac-what a fine young man he was and that he was to
have all of Abraham's possessions. Then came the interesting part of
his story. He explained that Abraham wanted Isaac to have a wife
from among his own people, and that he had been sent all the way to
Mesopotamia to get acquainted with the family, and to select a wife
for Isaac and take her back to him.
Then he explained how he met
Rebekah at the well, and how good she had been in giving him water
for himself and for the carriers. He said he knew from this that
Rebekah was the one whom God had chosen to be Isaac's wife. When he
had finished telling this wonderful story, Rebekah's father and
Laban, her brother, said that they were sure God wanted it just that
way. They said to him:
"Here is Rebekah, take her,
and let her be Isaac's wife as the Lord has said."
Abraham was a very rich man,
and when he sent Eliezer to find a wife for Isaac he gave him a
large supply of beautiful jewelry, and fine clothing to take with
him. Eliezer gave a great deal of this to Rebekah; and he also gave
presents to her brother and to her mother.
Early in the morning Eliezer
wanted to start back home, but it was all so very sudden for the
family, that they wanted Rebekah to remain with them for at least
ten days. That would have meant that Eliezer would have to remain
too. But he didn't agree to this, so the family said that whatever
Rebekah decided would be all right with them. Then they called
Rebekah, and asked her if she wanted to go right away, or if she
would rather wait awhile. And Rebekah said, "I will go."
So they sent Rebekah away, and
a nurse went with her. Together with Eliezer and his servants, they
started back on those ten camels on the long return trip to the land
God promised to Abraham, where Abraham was now living.
The Bible doesn't tell us
anything about that long journey back to Abraham's home and to
Isaac, but when they were nearly home Isaac went out into the field
in the evening where he could be alone to think about God and all
the wonderful things that God had done for him. And as he was
sitting there thinking, he looked up and saw the camels coming in
the distance.
At just about the same time
Rebekah, who was riding on one of those camels, saw Isaac. She asked
Eliezer who the man was that she saw in the field, and Eliezer
explained that it was Isaac, the man she had come all the way
from Mesopotamia to marry. She got right down off her camel, covered
her face with a veil, and went to meet her future husband, Isaac.
The Bible says that they loved each other, so we are glad that God
blessed Eliezer in finding such a good wife for Isaac.
A BRIDE IS CHOSEN QUESTIONS
Whom did Abraham send
to look for a wife for Isaac, and where did he go to find
her?
How did Eliezer find
out who it was that God wanted to be the wife of
Isaac?
Where was Isaac when
Rebekah first saw him? |