Well, i am just starting out with this site, my inspiration comes from my current situation with the man i love, and although this is coming from a woman, which should say something in and of itself, I am tired of reading all of these abuse and gender bias sites that only focus on what women are dealing with.  There are good men out there that are being hurt by this kind of movement, and women are getting so sidetracked into believing that since they have been oppressed so long that the world must solely focus on their issues now, and that is only hurting people. Women are taking advantage of this favoritism, or obligation to make women feel they aren't being judged on sex, and completely ruining people's lives.  I think that life is hard enough as it is, and that if women felt they needed to be heard and represented appropriately then so do men and children. You can't just keep flip flopping between the sexes, who deserves more when, thats foolish and ignorant. You shouldn't be proud of gaining something you haven't had by taking that very thing away from someone else.