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Love Love Love
By Gwendolyn K.  Boyer
     HYPNOTIZED

YOU'VE GOT ME HYPNOTIZED
I'LL DO WHATEVER YOU SAY
COMMAND ME AND I'LL OBEY!
YOU'VE GOT ME WALKING AND TALKING IN A TRANCE IN A MAGIC SPELL OF ROMANCE
MAKE ME HUG YOU
MAKE ME KISS YOU
MY HEART IS YOURS TO COMMAND" 

AS SUNG BY LINDA JONES

Women like  different things about men.� Some men  seem to be getting all the women and some women, all the men. �Why do we love?
A man can look at a woman 25 years his minor and love her with undying love.� Women are more maternal.� They seldom love a man who is younger.� Her motherly instincts take over too often.� �Men can look at the physical attributes of  a woman and love that woman forever.�  A woman loves a man by his personality or in both male and female     cases, the way they make them feel.�� I have been in love several times in my life.� Some knew I had feelings, others imagined incorrectly that I did, and others were insinq with me.� Some men I just have an overwhelming  attraction to.� Maybe it is the way  they look, or relate to me.� Others I run far away from because I know I can easily be swept off my feet by them.� That is one of the main     reasons I do not use messenger.� If     lines on the internet blog sites nearly hook me, what would messenger (and     then messenger with voice) do?�
SOME WOMEN LOVE MEN BECAUSE THEY EXUDE SEXUALITY �EVEN THOUGH DEEP INSIDE, THEY MAY BE SCIENCE NERDS, LIKE RONALD MALLETT, THE FIRST MAN TO PERFECT TIME TRAVEL.
Some people love people that they can not have.� This is known as a crush.� I had a crush on Oded Fehr.  �� In the crush phase of love, one only has to hear the person's name and they     fantasize that they are with them in unusually heroic and romantic  situations.�
Some women obsess about their appearances.  Some are prudes and others are open about their sexuality.  Some fight for love.
When John Lennon looked across a paint can and saw the eccentric daughter of a Japanese banker painting unusual and hauntingly provoking paintings, he never knew that he would be suspended in her time for the rest of his existence.� When Boaz looked at the woman picking up the leftover sheaves behind his workers, he never knew that he would become forever  linked to Jesus' birthright for all eternity.� How do people know when they are in love?� Why are so many people running away from it?� Why are so many sacrificing their entire freedom for it?
However, as men mature, they love with the romanticism of Sir Galahad.� They open doors, and pull out  chairs.� They buy roses and candy.� They never cease to find an occasion to celebrate the love they have for their lady love.� They write songs and sonnets to her beauty, even though to others she may look like the back of a barn.� Women, in this stage, obsess about their body's appearance.� They want everything to be right for their Mr. Right.
SOME MEN, LIKE WOMEN, FALL FOR A PERSON OF POWER or even great talent.   Osama Bin Ladin once professed love for Whitney Houston.   It may have been right for both of them.
Even the most Ruthless politician turns into a romantic when he is in love.  Condileeza, the typical Black woman with no man.
As women and men grow older, they yield to the physical demands of love.� They seek bonding with a strong desire to caress and perform intimate touches and behaviors on each other's  body.� Some men and women can handle intimacy.� Others have a different  developmental structure.� Others want committal love, then intimacy.� Women,  often mistakenly, think that promises of commitment from a man mean that he will be there for her. It seldom happens. ��Men who promise fidelity to get sex are raping a woman emotionally, and vice versa.�  It is at this stage that men and women marry.� They are in the human form of heat.� This heat usually lasts anywhere from 6  months to 7 years.� It may suddenly leave.� The mate, who loves, is bewildered by the coldness of the mate who was in heat.� �The male is usually ready to leave to     conquer another female in heat.� He  follows instinct like an animal.�� Some women are the same way.� Most feel rejected when this happens to them.� Women are usually left with the children  who were born in the heat of the moment.��    
���� The Final Stage of love is  pretty much akin to friendship and total acceptance of a person regardless of their faults.��� This type of love looks beyond a person's fault to see his or her need.� They know that they need each other.� There is no amount of money that can buy  this love and there is no man or woman who can exist without this love at  some point in their lives.
Art and photography by Gwendolyn Boyer     Music by Gwendolyn Boyer and Chiqagolil
Chiq Files Jan. 14, 2006
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