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| By Gwendolyn K. Boyer | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| HYPNOTIZED YOU'VE GOT ME HYPNOTIZED I'LL DO WHATEVER YOU SAY COMMAND ME AND I'LL OBEY! YOU'VE GOT ME WALKING AND TALKING IN A TRANCE IN A MAGIC SPELL OF ROMANCE MAKE ME HUG YOU MAKE ME KISS YOU MY HEART IS YOURS TO COMMAND" AS SUNG BY LINDA JONES |
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| Women like different things about men.� Some men seem to be getting all the women and some women, all the men. �Why do we love? | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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| A man can look at a woman 25 years his minor and love her with undying love.� Women are more maternal.� They seldom love a man who is younger.� Her motherly instincts take over too often.� �Men can look at the physical attributes of a woman and love that woman forever.� A woman loves a man by his personality or in both male and female cases, the way they make them feel.�� I have been in love several times in my life.� Some knew I had feelings, others imagined incorrectly that I did, and others were insinq with me.� Some men I just have an overwhelming attraction to.� Maybe it is the way they look, or relate to me.� Others I run far away from because I know I can easily be swept off my feet by them.� That is one of the main reasons I do not use messenger.� If lines on the internet blog sites nearly hook me, what would messenger (and then messenger with voice) do?� | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| SOME WOMEN LOVE MEN BECAUSE THEY EXUDE SEXUALITY �EVEN THOUGH DEEP INSIDE, THEY MAY BE SCIENCE NERDS, LIKE RONALD MALLETT, THE FIRST MAN TO PERFECT TIME TRAVEL. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Some people love people that they can not have.� This is known as a crush.� I had a crush on Oded Fehr. �� In the crush phase of love, one only has to hear the person's name and they fantasize that they are with them in unusually heroic and romantic situations.� | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Some women obsess about their appearances. Some are prudes and others are open about their sexuality. Some fight for love. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| When John Lennon looked across a paint can and saw the eccentric daughter of a Japanese banker painting unusual and hauntingly provoking paintings, he never knew that he would be suspended in her time for the rest of his existence.� When Boaz looked at the woman picking up the leftover sheaves behind his workers, he never knew that he would become forever linked to Jesus' birthright for all eternity.� How do people know when they are in love?� Why are so many people running away from it?� Why are so many sacrificing their entire freedom for it? | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| However, as men mature, they love with the romanticism of Sir Galahad.� They open doors, and pull out chairs.� They buy roses and candy.� They never cease to find an occasion to celebrate the love they have for their lady love.� They write songs and sonnets to her beauty, even though to others she may look like the back of a barn.� Women, in this stage, obsess about their body's appearance.� They want everything to be right for their Mr. Right. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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| SOME MEN, LIKE WOMEN, FALL FOR A PERSON OF POWER or even great talent. Osama Bin Ladin once professed love for Whitney Houston. It may have been right for both of them. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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| Even the most Ruthless politician turns into a romantic when he is in love. Condileeza, the typical Black woman with no man. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| As women and men grow older, they yield to the physical demands of love.� They seek bonding with a strong desire to caress and perform intimate touches and behaviors on each other's body.� Some men and women can handle intimacy.� Others have a different developmental structure.� Others want committal love, then intimacy.� Women, often mistakenly, think that promises of commitment from a man mean that he will be there for her. It seldom happens. ��Men who promise fidelity to get sex are raping a woman emotionally, and vice versa.� It is at this stage that men and women marry.� They are in the human form of heat.� This heat usually lasts anywhere from 6 months to 7 years.� It may suddenly leave.� The mate, who loves, is bewildered by the coldness of the mate who was in heat.� �The male is usually ready to leave to conquer another female in heat.� He follows instinct like an animal.�� Some women are the same way.� Most feel rejected when this happens to them.� Women are usually left with the children who were born in the heat of the moment.�� | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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���� The Final Stage of love is pretty much akin to friendship and total acceptance of a person regardless of their faults.��� This type of love looks beyond a person's fault to see his or her need.� They know that they need each other.� There is no amount of money that can buy this love and there is no man or woman who can exist without this love at some point in their lives. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Art and photography by Gwendolyn Boyer Music by Gwendolyn Boyer and Chiqagolil Chiq Files Jan. 14, 2006 |
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