Blowing against the wind
A born-again atheist.
staring at the bust
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I am looking for advice:

Is it wrong to look at a woman's bust (tits)?
Is it wrong to keep staring at someone, with the desire in my eyes?
I was at a copier place last week and the clerk was a really cute girl. She had some huge boobs and I couldn't refrain from looking THAT. In a certain moment she bended right in front of me and I saw ALL. I got so nervous I had to get out for a minute and take some air.

I suspect (just suspect) she did it on purpose. Maybe to teach me a lesson, maybe to arouse me.

If I was her, I would be pleased to be watched. But I don't know. It's a very sensitive subject.

What do you tell me?

2006-02-03 19:32:22 GMT
Comments (5 total)
Author:wakko212000
Si es una muchacha agradable y guapa que se te queda mirando, te causa algo de emosion, claro de la forma estetica, pero al contrario si es una señora que se te queda mirando por algo en especifico, supongamos que traes tu pantalon algo pegado o algun pans ( ropa deportiva ) y en ese momento traes tu pene erecto y se note, claro que la verguenza de como esconder aquello que se te note por inmoral aunque no sea tu culpa.

Ahora de Hombre a hombre:
si se te quedan viendo de forma estetica claro que te va a incomodar, como es posible que se te queden viendo, o en verdad tienes la testosterona muy fuerte y todos te voltean a mirar, pero de igual forma pensaras de las demas personas que son gays. de la forma contraria por algun regaño, o reconocimiento y se te quedan mirando, si te sentiras raro o distinto por la atencion de aquella persona hacia a ti.

Alguien se te ha quedado mirando ??
A mi si, hombres y mujeres en todos los casos, lo mas raro es que he ido a baños publicos de lugares y me han mirado aquello, claro que me molesta.

How do you feel when someone does that to you?
>>Please, discuss with me.
>>Gustavo Sosa
2006-02-03 21:08:32 GMT
Author:[email protected]
she did it onpurpose to play you hun..I know she did because some women do that..not becuse she had a low cut shirt on but because she looked you in the eye and bent down...you can admire a woman whos beautiful but to stare mankes them uncomfortable...not sure why...look and admiire but hey do ya gott look so hard its uncomfortable..how long is to long?? to look and smile is long enough......make sense?? LOL...woul dyou like someone staring at you for long periods of time admiring your bicips??LOL...you wanna be admired to a point right...how long is to long is the big question...this is in intersting topic I will think about and let others know..lol....you got me now hun...HMMMM HUGS TIGHT NENA
2006-02-03 21:46:15 GMT
Author:jtpowers_01
If a woman is 'gifted' in that area, and utilizes it often, it is funny how they get offended for you looking at them. Especially when they are doing everything to draw attention to themselves.

Recently, I met a woman who is extremely attractive for her age (40-42 yrs. old) and is very well preportioned. She wears tops 1-2 sizes too small and very colorful and shows 'them' off. Now, I don't ogle her - but I do notice that. IF she wasn't all ready with someone (not married), I'd be remiss not to talk to her further. Do I respect her otherwise? I do - but only to a point.

Women who want (us men) to respect them as equals, or pay more attention to their other attributes, sorely test that thought when they parade around their assets, and lead with their boobs first. It's not a hard thing to wear clothes that can both style you and comfortably cover those secondary sexual characteristics of yours.

The nature of the beast is that men and women want to reeive attention but only when that attention is given by a superior social being. That superior (bird, if you will) has all the pretense of being confident, assured, successful and available for action. On top of that, looks are a key element at the beginning.

Women are only scared of the ogling from the ugly guys -that they project their thoughts of lecherous behavior onto. Not always fair - if they ever pursued a conversation with the person, they might learn that the guy actually has more to him than a one-track mind.

But safety is the most relevant aspect of a woman's life. And safety comes in flirting without truly exploring the souls of those they flirt with.

Men do this too - but have to be more risky and adventuresome if they are to have the successful outcome take place in their "looking" for a MRS. Right.

All and all, I think staring is as much about the person looking as it is the person receiving the glance. If the person receiving can take it in stride, then the intrusion is nil. If the person is a worry wart, then the problems ensue.
2006-02-06 17:00:18 GMT
Author:moonlighter692001
WELL WRITTEN, AND WE ALL DO IT AT TIMES, LOVELY PIC.
2006-02-12 11:14:05 GMT
Author:s_ojeda
No, it isn't wrong, we women love love love to tease men, not every men, but cute, nice, atractive men....
2007-12-30 07:30:12 GMT
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