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| I'VE LEARNED... You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to them. No matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. It takes years to build trust and only seconds to destroy it. It's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts. You can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something. You shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do. You can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. It's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. You should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them. You can keep going long after you can't. Regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place. Heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. Money is a lousy way of keeping score. My best friends and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. Sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up. Sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. True friendships continue to grow, even over the longest distance; same goes for true love. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated. No matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in awhile and you must forgive them for that. It isn't always enough to be forgiven by others; sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself. No matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop to feel your grief. Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. Just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. Just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do. We don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change. You shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret, it could change your life forever. two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. Your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you. Even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help. The people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon. It's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe. that the imperfection of people actually make them perfect. |