John Asbury Gray was born on March 31, 1897 in Laredo, Webb County, Texas and died on July 3, 1983 in Houston, Harris County, Texas. He was buried on July 6, 1983 in the Gray family plot in Laredo, Texas. On September 3, 1920, John Asbury married Gertrude Fassnidge in San Antonio, Texas. They had 1 child: