Per's MANifesto: An electronic newsletter of news and opinion on man-bashing, anti-male stereotypes and other great moral principles. May, 1997. WELCOME, READERS, to an issue we'll call "Flinn Flam." It's about getting off the hook by blaming men for your actions. The method has been tried, tested, and approved by the U.S. Air Force. Read on: MANifesto is now on the Web, at http://shell.idt.net/~per2/manifest.htm INDEX: I. FLINN FLAM II. BEING NICE TO THE BIGOTS III. AN HONEST FEMINIST IV. YOU MIGHT BE A MALE FEMINIST IF ... V. SUSAN MCDOUGAL'S DELICATE EARS VI. THIS WILL NEED MORE RESEARCH VII. FREE PRESS? SURE, HELP YOURSELF VIII. THE FORMER AMERICAN CIVIL LIBERTIES UNION IX. THE SENATOR'S LEVEL PLAYING FIELD ========== FLINN FLAM Former Air Force lieutenant Kelly Flinn has shown the nation the two steps to getting special treatment: 1) Claim you are unfairly targeted because you're a woman. 2) Blame your actions on men. Flinn, the nation's first and only female B-52 pilot, had faced prison time and a dishonorable discharge for sexual misconduct, disobeying orders and making a false statement. Instead, after a successful (and man-bashing) publicity campaign, she is getting an extremely light sentence -- leaving the military with a general discharge and no prison time. Flinn claimed she was being persecuted for having a love affair with a man she thought was separated from his wife. She claimed that men in the service get away with similar flings. Flinn has been conjugating the verbs "lay" and "lie," with interesting results. At times, some factions of the news media seemed to function almost as Flinn's public relations agent. In recapping the case, they reprinted her claims as facts -- for example, stating as an established fact that she didn't know her lover was married. When the truth began to come out, it didn't seem to damage Flinn popularity (especially with the news media.) It turned out that Flinn knew darn well that the man she was sleeping with was married. And in fact she had been given the opportunity to "get away" with her hanky-panky if she'd just cease doing it. When her superiors learned about her affairs, they didn't punish her. They merely ordered her to stay away from Marc Zigo, the married man she was sleeping with. If she had done so, she never would have been punished. (Flinn also had sex with an enlisted man, an unmarried senior airman.) But Flinn knowingly disobeyed that direct order, even moving in with Zigo. Then she lied to her superiors to cover up her refusal to follow orders. That's when Flinn was charged -- not just because she committed adultery. She was very successful in painting this as a woman being unfairly punished for having sex when men, supposedly, would be let off. But the affair was actually one of the lesser charges against her. Adultery could have gotten her one year in prison. But the charge of making a false statement could have gotten her five years. And her other affair with Senior Airman Colin C. Thompson violated the ban on fraternization: penalty two years. Flinn piloted B-52 bombers equipped with nuclear weapons. This is a position of extreme responsibility in which it is imperative that the crew obey orders. Flinn had under her command the power to destroy cities and launch nuclear war. Society has every right to expect that people in that position will obey orders. When you are carrying a cargo of death, obeying orders should not be an option. But Flinn was very good at avoiding responsibility and passing it on to men. In a letter to the Air Force pleading for special treatment, she said she "fell deeply in love with a man who led me down this path of self-destruction and career destruction" and said she will suffer for it forever. If her statement is true, then she certainly should have been discharged. People who are so easily misled into dereliction of duty should not be in positions of trust -- much less flying nuclear weapons. But we feel that Flinn's contention that a man "led me down this path of self-destruction" is really a self-serving plea for victimhood. She wants a man to take the rap for her actions -- a civilian man at that. To escape responsibility for her own actions, she plays the wide-eyed innocent being duped by the evil Svengali. Her brother, Don Flinn Jr., played that game, too. "She's been abused in her relationship. She's been abused in the system," he told a press conference. Flinn's family got positively Victorian in her defense, saying that her lover had "taken advantage of her." That's a quaint old phrases used when a woman gets into bed and then wants to claim purity. But, as her lover, Marc Zigo wryly noted, "At no time was a gun to Lieutenant Flinn's head." As part of her training as the nation's first female B-52 pilot, Flinn got training in handling the news media, and she played them like a harp. Flinn also had an advantage because the others in the case were holding their comments for the trial, at which time it would have been seen how much Flinn had lied. But Flinn's tactic of blaming the man and crying victim worked. When it seemed apparent she wouldn't go to trial, only then did the other figures speak out publicly. They included Marc Zigo's wife, Airman Gayla A. Zigo. In a letter to Air Force Secretary Sheila Widnall, Gayla Zigo wrote: "On several occasions, I came home from work and found her at my house with Marc. ... Lt. Flinn knew we were married and not separated, but that did not stop her. I am tired of Lt. Flinn acting as if she is the victim ... Lt. Flinn knew exactly what she was doing and that it was wrong!" Flinn was also not being truthful when she claimed that she was being singled out as a woman for offenses that men get away with. But Air Force officials note that right there on the same base with Flinn, there have been other officers of the same rank who have gone to prison for offenses like Flinn's. And the Associated Press reported that Air Force figures show that 60 men and seven women were prosecuted on adultery charges last year. There were, in fact, far more men than women punished. U.S. Rep. Sam Johnson, a Texas Republican and a decorated fighter pilot, said Flinn's punishment was too lenient. Johnson is a former military prosecutor who prosecuted many men on similar charges. "I supported the secretary of the Air Force in her original decision to court-martial. Today, I am disappointed in her decision to change that," Johnson said. "It appears to me that (Widnall) has caved to political pressure from the Senate." That's interesting that the Senate actually had the backbone to stand up and demand leniency in this case. In the past, the Senate has completely caved in on the Navy's Tailhook scandal. Due to political pressure, 133 men were put on a secret list containing rumors and unproven accusations of misconduct at Tailhook. One notable case involved Cmdr. Robert Stumpf, a Navy "top gun" fighter pilot. The accusations against Stumpf boil down to his presence in a room where a stripper performed. He was cleared of all other charges. But his promotion has been derailed and his career ruined simply because his name was on that list. Each time a man who was on the list came up for promotion, the promotion was denied. The man didn't have to be guilty of anything. The congressional committees responsible for approving their promotions were too terrified of being accused of being lenient on Tailhook. So they trashed any man even vaguely accused, in order to protect their own careers. Supporters of Flinn argued that it was a waste to discharge her after all the money the military had spent on training her. But the military spent a lot of money training all the men blacklisted because of Tailhook. Cmdr. Stumpf was driven out of the Navy because of it. His case didn't receive one tenth the publicity of the crafty and manipulative Flinn. Instead of a court-martial and up to nine and a half years in prison, she is "out like Flinn," getting a general discharge, a mild form of discipline. Flinn must repay 20 percent of her Air Force Academy education -- about $18,000. But the military trained her in flying aircraft, and she's already gotten offers to fly for commercial airlines -- meaning her $18,000 repayment will equal one or two month's salary. Most people coming out of college can't pay their student loans so easily. Plus, Flinn is generating talk of book deals and movies. For a woman who claims to have destroyed and treated unfairly, she's doing remarkably well. Why should *you* care about Flinn's case? Because it rewards and encourages man-bashing. Flinn claimed she was being singled out as a woman and was getting harsher treatment than men. The facts show that men have been punished for such offenses, and far more severely than Flinn. But Flinn appealed to an anti-male stereotype by claiming to be a victim of sexist good-old-boys in the military. Flinn showed the nation that when you are caught doing wrong, you can cry sexism and get away with it. And Flinn tried to blame a man for her own offenses. That's man-bashing. And it worked. Flinn's great success with man-bashing all but guarantees that others will follow suit. What do they have to lose? Man-bashing paid off for Flinn, without any downside. The message has gone out: when caught red-handed, cry sexism, bash men, and get away with it. You can expect man-bashing accusations like Flinn's to increase. That's a major factor in this case that the news media have ignored. Whether the Air Force's codes on sexual conduct need to be reviewed is another matter. Some say they are antiquated. Others note that military families face long separations and other strains unique to military life. Adultery can hurt soldier's morale, and hence their preparedness -- and because of that, the fallout from adultery is a valid concern for the military. We can see both sides to these arguments. But our interest is in Flinn's use of man-bashing to evade responsibility. Now that Flinn has demonstrated how well man-bashing pays off, what is to stop others from following suit? So let's add a new word to the language: Flinn flam. Flinn flam: (verb) to seek or attain special treatment by claiming you are being treated unfairly; to blame men for your lack of responsibility. Flinn flam (adjective) denoting the act of blaming others for your transgressions; denoting one who feels that anything less than special treatment is unfair; or, in general, denoting a feminist. ========== BEING NICE TO THE BIGOTS Recently, a man writing on the Usenet committed about man-bashing: "for my part, i think that the best thing to do when a group i'm a part of is being criticized, is to work to dispel such a myth: ie don't be a pig, treat women, or indeed everyone, with some respect and courtesy, try to accommodate for other people when necessary." The problem with this approach is you don't have to do anything bad to be targeted by bigots. For example, we have never raped anyone, but that doesn't stop many feminists from saying "all men are potential rapists." The stereotype does not depend on our behavior -- it depends on the outlook of the person doing the stereotyping. And simply being a good little boy is not going to change the people who hold such stereotypes. Bigots don't look for the good examples. They look for the bad examples to confirm their prejudices. The good examples get ignored or finessed away. This man's approach -- "don't be a pig, treat women ... with some respect ..." isn't going to do anything about the root causes of bigotry, because the root causes of bigotry are in the bigot. You can live your life as a saint and still many feminists will regard you as a potential rapist or a member of the "patriarchy." Many feminists have managed an amazing feat of manipulation: as feminists grow increasingly and blatantly bigoted, some men feel they have to bend over backward to prove they're nice guys. This is rewarding bigotry. It only encourages feminists to become more anti-male in their outlook, because they know they can manipulate some men in trying even harder to please the feminists. This fellow also said: "of course any group is bound to be stereotypee at any one time. a woman who is stereotyping men is most likely just angry or frustrated for a short amount of time. most times she's more frustrated then serious." But modern feminism, going back to the women's liberation movement of the 1960s, has been preaching anti-male opinions for more than a "short amount of time." These anti-male attitudes have intensified and have been taken up by a second wave of feminists who, if anything, are more anti-male than their women's-lib predecessors. As for male sportscasters and others who have been punished for allegedly making sexists comments -- no feminist stepped forward to defend them on the grounds that the comments were sexist for "a short amount of time." The fellow quoted here is preaching for tolerance and acceptance of anti-male attitudes, while feminists are hardly in the habit of advocating tolerance and acceptance -- or even free speech -- for people who disagree with them. The bottom line with any bigotry is that it's not going to just go away if you're nice. Bigots see stereotypes instead of real people, so how can we expect them to see the actions of real people? There is only one way that a targeted group has ever gotten any success in closing down bigotry -- and that is to demand that it stop. Being nice doesn't do it. Being innocent of offense doesn't do it. The only thing that works is to demand that the bigots cease practicing bigotry. It's time to do this with extremist feminism. Let's stop being nice to the bigots. ========== AN HONEST FEMINIST Speaking of bigots, the following comments were posted on the Usenet by a feminist on May 7. They are so instructive that they are presented without further comment. (And yes, she's entirely serious.) >So when I read a feminist assuring us how she really, really loves men, I >know I've found another man-hater. If she loved men, she wouldn't be a >feminist. 'Nuff said. ========== YOU MIGHT BE A MALE FEMINIST IF ... On Fri, 09 May 1997, in a Usenet thread called "Man Haters," a fellow named Bob wrote: > "I am male and view men who aren't bastards as exceptions. As >a matter of fact I am a bastard, so I don't include myself in the >exceptions." You might be a male feminist if: you wholeheartedly embrace anti-male stereotypes and male self-hatred. ========== SUSAN MCDOUGAL'S DELICATE EARS A few news items on all those privileges males have in society: Lawyers claim that Paul Prioli owed $144,700 alimony. So they had him arrested. The scene for the arrest was sort of unusual. They got the man as he was leaving his father's funeral in Barnstable, Massachusetts. Remember, no time is a bad time to hit men for money. And remember how feminists are always telling us that women are more sensitive and nurturing than men? Let's take a look at Jenise Gordon, a science teacher in Milan, Tennessee. Gordon recently put on a puppet show for her class. Now it happens that in her class is a boy named Justin Galloway. Justin, 14, is a mentally and physically disabled student. His disabilities sometimes cause him to slur his words or to twitch. Well, the kindly Ms. Gordon got up in front of class and had her puppet imitate all of Justin's disabilities. To make sure everyone got the point, she called the puppet Justin Galloway. After the class, other students began calling Justin "Puppet Boy." When his parents protested this treatment, they got an up-close demonstration of sensitive, nurturing behavior. Ms. Gordon is the coach of the girls' basketball team. Justin began getting threats from other students, including members of the girls' team. One called him up and told him to "watch his back." Maybe that ought to be a new theme for all of these commercials that make girls/womens sports look like a mystical, religious experience. "If you let me play, I will threaten disabled students." Per's MANifesto is proud to bring you news items like this, which just *somehow* manage to get missed by the national news media. If a male teacher had used a puppet to comment on a girl's body, you can be you would have seen it on the front pages. But Ms. Gordon's sadistic little puppet show gets buried in the back pages. But now on to a story that got national attention because of its link to the Whitewater scandal. Susan McDougal's lawyers have been protesting her treatment while being held in prison on contempt charges. One of their complaints is that she has heard male prisoners being gang-raped on the floors above. "It is doubtful that any convicted criminal in the U.S. is treated more harshly than Susan McDougal is and has been treated," her lawyers said. We don't know about that. We kind of think that the men being *gang raped* might be getting treated more harshly. ========== THIS WILL NEED MORE RESEARCH Canadian researchers say that women might suffer from certain kinds of psychological problems like depression and eating disorders because they manufacture much less of an important mood-regulating brain chemical called serotonin. That's interesting. After all these years of feminists blaming men for causing women's eating disorders, it looks like the culprit might not be men after all. We know how much this will disappoint many feminists who want to blame women's eating disorders on men. Gloria Steinem, in "Revolution from Within," claimed that "about 150,000 females die of anorexia each year" in the United States alone. (Turns out that Steinem was wildly wrong -- there are about 150,000 anorexia *cases,* not deaths, each year. Deaths are very rare and usually due to suicide.) We know how disappointing it must be to some feminists to learn that eating disorders might not be the fault of men "objectifying" women's bodies. And that the cause might actually lie in the women themselves. We know how much this upsets the feminist order of the universe. So we're willing to help them salvage their "it's always a man's fault" argument. Hmm: How about this. "Women are socialized to manufacture less serotonin. (There are no innate differences between men and women, so socialization explains everything.) Feminist research shows that parental encouragement reinforces boys when they manufacture serotonin. Obviously we're going to need to establish a massive new bureaucracy to teach girls the self esteem needed to raise their serotonin levels." There you go feminists -- that's a start on your research, free of charge. Just remember to put Per's MANifesto in your bibliography when you publish your "research." ========== FREE PRESS? SURE, HELP YOURSELF For the sixth time since November, thousands of copies of The Daily Californian newspaper have been stolen from the rack on the University of California at Berkely campus. Somebody doesn't want readers to see The Daily Californian. And they don't want the paper to be able to speak freely. Why? The editors believe it's because the paper supports Proposition 209, which would do away with the racial and sexual discrimination known as affirmative action. The pro-discrimination forces are apparently upset that anyone has the freedom to disagree. The most recent efforts to censor the paper via theft occurred after it ran an editorial calling anti-209 forces hypocritical and immature. Obviously with the paper thefts, the label of immature is right on target. But we're not sure it's accurate to call these people hypocritical. If they never supported free speech and equal rights, they're not being hypocritical. ========== THE FORMER AMERICAN CIVIL LIBERTIES UNION One of the saddest and most shocking downfalls in the area of civil liberties is the gradual slide of the group known as the American Civil Liberties Union. The group once stood for the principle that everyone had the same rights, and that those rights could not be taken away from a group or individual simply because society disapproved of them. However, the ACLU went through a phase in which it decided to recruit feminists and other far-left activists. The result is that in many ACLU chapters, the belief is that some rights are equaller than others. Where the old ACLU believed that everyone had the same rights, many new ACLU chapters believe that your rights depend on the group you belong to. If you're a feminist, you have a right to be free of hearing views that might cause you distress. Hence, other people do not have an equal right to express their views if you don't like them. The new ACLU has come out in favor of racial and sexual discrimination known as affirmative action. It now believes that your right to be protected from discrimination depends on what group you belong to. You have to keep these facts in mind when the ACLU asks for your help. Why should you support a group that advocates discrimination and an erosion of rights? Equally sad is the new ACLU's support for the procedure known as "partial birth abortion." In this procedure, a fetus -- often one that could live outside the womb -- is pulled from the womb feet first, with only the head still inside the birth canal. Then the doctor pierces the skull with scissors, drains the skull, and collapses it. Doing the same thing with the skull outside the birth canal might be considered murder. The American Medical Association, at its recent convention in Chicago, said there is absolutely no time in which a partial birth abortion is necessary, and the group supported the proposed ban on the procedure. Initially, the AMA had been uncommitted on the ban. But then lawmakers changed the bill to give more assurances that doctors wouldn't be prosecuted for doing the procedure. With those changes made, the AMA came out in support of the ban. Unfortunately, the ACLU has aligned itself with those who want to keep this grotesque procedure as a "choice." The so-called "Reproductive Freedom Project" of the ACLU is trying to get members to support partial birth abortions. Per's MANifesto has obtained a copy of the mailing that the Reproductive Freedom Project sent out. It includes a postcard (with the Statue of Liberty) for people to send to politicians. (It bears the logo "liberty = choice.") It also includes a "model letter" for people to fire off to the right targets, and several other items that try to defend partial birth abortions. Also included is a reprint of a New York Times op-ed piece by a woman who says she needed to do a partial birth abortion on a badly deformed fetus. Such emotionally wrenching stories are used as a cover for the fact that many partial birth abortions are done not on deformed fetuses but as a matter of convenience for women who waited too long. Trying to defuse the idea that the procedure is "too gruesome and barbaric to defend," the RFP blithely states that "Many medical procedures -- open heart surgery or amputation, for example -- may seem gruesome to lay people." What the RFP doesn't note is that such procedures are done to heal, preserve and extend life, not terminate it. When a group starts playing so fast and loose with our emotions and the facts, you have to wonder how honest they're being with you. The RFP also coyly says that "advocates of choice have found themselves enmeshed in controversy over how they presented facts and arguments about the ... procedure to legislators and the public." Well, it looks like the ACLU is exercising its right to speak in euphemisms. Actually, the controversy is that a major supporter of partial birth abortions admitted that he "lied through my teeth" when claiming the procedure is rarely done. The RFP says that "whatever some individuals may have said, the movement has been truthful about this procedure." Clever. Once you admit to lying, you are no longer part of the "movement," even if you are a major player in it. So the "movement" can arbitrarily exclude any "individual" and pick and chose who they want to call the "movement." Most Americans support the ban on partial birth abortions. No matter how people feel about abortion, most agree that sucking the brains out of a nearly developed child and collapsing his or her skull is not a defensible "choice." Convenience is not reason enough to defend this procedure. It is another sad sign of the fall of the once-worthy ACLU that it could support this horrible procedure. ========== THE SENATOR'S LEVEL PLAYING FIELD We all know how liberal Democrats demand a "level playing field" to assure fairness and equality in our society. The latest to benefit from such a leveling is Massachusetts Democratic Senator John "Kerry, Not Kennedy, Dammit" Kerry, and his wealthy wife. Kerry is married to Teresa Heinz, heiress to the vast Heinz fortune. When you're worth about $800 million, then obviously laws are for the little people -- including parking laws. Heinz has been caught parking in front of a fire hydrant by the luxurious Boston home she shares with Senator Kerry. Recently a newspaper caught her car -- with it's license plate "HZ57" for "Heinz 57" -- parked that way. So what did Kerry and Heinz do? Order sensitivity training? Wring their hands in guilt? Do community service? No, those are the programs that liberal Democrats demand for the lesser folk. Instead, Kerry and Heinz had the fire hydrant removed. They had it moved around the corner, so they won't be bothered with such details anymore. "I've lived on Beacon Hill for 47 years and never have I known somebody to get a hydrant moved at their will," Peter Thomson, president of the Beacon Hill Civic Association, told the Associated Press. "You know why they did it: Because they jump through hoops when a high-power politician calls up for it." What -- a liberal Democrat exercising aristocratic privilege? How can that possibly be? We know liberals are dedicated to a level playing field. In fact, if you look at the spot where the fire hydrant once was, it looks pretty darn level, all right. ============================= THE FINE PRINT MANifesto is a monthly newsletter containing news and opinion for people interested in gender equality and gender stereotypes. Subscribing: To have MANifesto e-mailed to you, message "subscribe MANifesto" to [email protected]. Send comments, kudos and castration threats to this address as well. What if you subscribed but did not get the latest issue? Our experience is that the issue "bounces" for a couple of people every month -- probably because some server between here and there is on the fritz at the time. If you don't think you received the latest issue, please e-mail us again saying "subscribe, send latest issue." Each month's current issue of Per's MANifesto is on the Web at http://shell.idt.net/~per2/manifest.htm And the Per's MANifesto Home Page is at http://shell.idt.net/~per2/index.htm featuring links to back issues. 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