Sermon prepared for Messiah Lutheran Church, Auburn WA;

Morning Promise services, the 5th Sunday after Pentecost - A, 06/23/02;

by Gregory S. Kaurin, Associate Pastor

 

Text: Ephesians 4:11-16 (also, Ephesians 4:17-24, & 2:5-6, 21-22)

 

The Sermon:

Stand Up Straight!

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I heard on the news this weekend that Ann Landers died Friday night.  I am reminded of something she mentioned in her column a while ago.  She noted, “baby kittens don’t begin to open their eyes for six weeks after birth.”  She went on to say, “Men generally take about 26 years!”

That’s more true than I want to admit.  So long as we live, growing older is unavoidable, but many people do avoid growing up. 

In the lesson we just read St. Paul wrote: "...some will be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, some pastors and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until all of us come to the unity of faith and of knowledge ...to maturity, to the measure of the full stature of Christ."

 

"...until we come to maturity, to the full-stature of Christ." 

Maturity.

 

In that passage I hear God telling us that you and I need to grow up.  As individuals, as groups, as congregations and as a whole church: grow up!  I’ve heard the entire letter to the Ephesians summarized into four words: “Become what you are.”  Grow up.

It’s true that God claims and calls each of us his “children,” but this is not a call to remain infantile in our faith.  In other words, since you are a child of God, start acting like one; and since you are a Christian church, act like it.  Become what you are.  Grow up.

 

Christian maturity:

I. Part of maturity is knowing when to be young. 

II.  Part is knowing what to leave behind. 

III.  Part is knowing what to pass on.

 

I.  Knowing when to be young.

 

It's the way we interact with the world, how we see and respond: as if what happens is important, worth hearing and reacting to.  Being young: it's an open curiosity, you want to know what people are feeling and thinking.  So you ask, “Why?  Why?” and listen.  Then you respond in words or actions. 

I know of an old grandfather who, even in his nineties, with some effort, stiff knees, and all, would get down on the floor with his great-grandchildren.  Whether it was with toy trucks, or doll houses or finger-paints, he would play with them.  I see great wisdom in this, knowing when to be a child. 

Learning when to be young is also learning humility, but this is not an embarrassed, wormy humility that acts like it’s ashamed to be alive.  Instead it’s a comfortable humility that knows that, like everyone else around you, you are “winging it” most of the time.

So, Christ’s call to be “like a child” is not about carefree innocence, but a humorous humility and a healthy curiosity, an openness to encountering wonder, beauty and power.  Gaze at the stars, consider the hugeness, or peer at the tiny miraculous universe in a single cell.  It is the Christian claim that whatever wonders we encounter, whatever knowledge we obtain, it tells us about something, Someone, who lies behind all of it.

One of my favorite preachers, W. B. Sutphin declared: “...I tell you that He is extraordinary!  Ah, what sets your soul to music, and what agitates your praises?  Do you tremble at the lightening, riding like a razorback across the ribboned sky, or at the thunder crumbling up the heavens?  Let me ask: what dazzles you into devotion?  It is nothing when compared to Him!” (from The Uncommon Denominator)

So, take it all in like a curious child, and then sit back and realize: "Wow!  Our God is an awesome God!"  To be young: to be impressionable, to look at the ordinary workings of the world and see an extraordinary God.

 

Part of maturity is learning to be young.

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II.  Part of maturity is learning what to leave behind.

 

There are childish attitudes we need to leave behind.  I heard one person suggest that the adult world is actually just “tall grade school.”  As children, when someone annoyed or disagreed with us, they were suddenly “the enemy.”  One day she was your best friend, the next day you insisted to your mom that you hated her.  The self-focused melodrama, the cliques, the chips on our shoulders, …it really seems that we haven’t left the playground yet.  Sometimes it takes 26 years to open our eyes.  Some never do.

Even here in the church, in our own congregations.  Just think, here in this place where we are called to gather around and focus on the One who unites us, but you and I know how often we get distracted, and we dramatize things and events and people, which are all tangent to the real reason we gather.

It’s time for us to grow up and pull together as Christians!  We’re not here just to be bottle-fed and to whine when we don’t get things our way.  We’re here to equip each other for the work of ministry.  If I read Paul right, then I need to be doing my best to teach and preach, and we all need to be doing our best at the work of the church, at ministry.  That means, putting aside selfish grudges and personal offended melodramas to reach out to others who are going through the real hurts of death, illness, divorce, and the like.

It also means realizing that our childhood shyness is simply not excuse enough for missing opportunities to share our faith.  Adult life may be “tall grade school,” but we, as Christians, are called to rise above and grow out of it.

Part of maturity, Christian maturity, is learning what to leave behind in order to move forward.  Sunday after Sunday, I've said it, Pastors Joe and Steve have said it: "I declare the entire forgiveness of all your sins."  Leave it behind, God says.  Entire.  Forgiveness.  Yours and theirs—all forgiven—leave it all behind—and grow up.

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III.  Finally, maturity is learning what to pass on.

 

Our lesson said that we have these gifts of ministry, preaching, teaching and witnessing to build us up until we come "to maturity, to the full stature of Christ." 

"To the full stature of Christ."  Many of us can still hear that old parental nagging voice, "Stand up straight!"  Grandma to Grandchild: "You're too pretty/handsome to slouch like that."  (It's too bad we never heard or believed the complement behind that command: You are too pretty/handsome to slouch like that.)

And it wasn't about external beauty.  No one’s grandma says, “Slouch down, you're too ugly to stand straight.”  Standing straight isn't about physical beauty, but inner strength, about confidence. 

Confidence and belonging.  What made and what makes you beautiful is that you belong to your grandma; you were her grandchild and that made you beautiful.  Now, imagine God digging out his picture wallet with all his children.  Imagine that endless stream of pictures.  …And he points to you with all the love and pride of Grandma.  You belong to him.  You are beautiful.  So, stand up straight.

And confident.  If you were to take some of the shyest kids you remember from high school and could’ve given them the confidence to walk straight down the hallways, with assurance to look people in the eye, to say “Hello,” you would find they would’ve suddenly looked fifteen times more attractive.

It's not about clothes, not hair or makeup.  It's less about weight, physical beauty or age than we ever realized.  You are Christian.  There is nothing in all of creation that can give you more assurance and confidence than belonging to Christ.  That means practicing and growing, breaking out of the shell, and dropkicking all of the masks we wear just to get people to like us.

We know the kind of people we lift up, people for whom we would stand if they walked in the room.  We can recognize true beauty.  Old wrinkled Mother Theresa, if you could’ve kiss her cheek, you'd have kissed a most beautiful girl.  She may have been slouched in age, but she rose up in stature.

 

Paul said that we need to preach and teach and witness “until we come to the full stature of Christ.”  Until we have the full confidence of Christ.  We have the peace of Christ.  We have a confidence to pass on.

 

Confidence—the promise of complete forgiveness from God himself.  The promise of final jubilation when we join Christ in heaven.  We have that to pass on.

Stature—the promise that we can walk straight and tall knowing that God looks at us …and smiles.  We have that to pass on.

Purpose—the promise that God will be there as we dare to speak to others about our faith.  We have that to pass on.

 

Stand up straight!  We are rising to the full stature of Christ.

 

Let us stand and pray:  Dear God, give strength to my weak knees and assurance to my voice, so that I can reclaim my youthful curiosity and surprise, so that I can leave behind those things that hold me back, and so that I can pass on the assurance of your promises.  Amen.

 

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