Simon's Thoughts
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Bonsai Dave: I personally want to thank Sue for looking after my
mate Dave over these last few months…Thank you Sue. I first met Dave in ‘88 where we became instant
buddies, we seemed to just hit it off We would chat for hours and hours …..and back
then I thought this guy was pretty special and a great
listener………………………….there was a definite connection. Soon after Dave and I met we became Snooker
buddies…in fact we became snooker fanatics (I think also John caught
the snooker bug too) and that’s all we ever did for the first few
years after meeting, in total we must have been playing snooker (on and
off) for the last 15 Years….The funny thing was that Dave only beat me
twice in 15 years …during this time I was always amazed by Dave, as he
never gave up – he practiced and practiced to perfect the game he
loved..….even writing things on his wall at home………….There’s
a phrase that sticks in my mind – that just sums Little Dave up: “Its not the size of the DOG in the
fight,…rather than the size of the FIGHT in the dog” He was to show this quality in everything he
did....Snooker, his bonsai business, mountain biking, golf and just
recently in what was to be his toughest fight……..lets remind
ourselves that that this fight started off back in 1995.! My Feeling is we are very fortunate that Dave
fought as long as he did…………….as he saw his family grow,
chance to meet new friends, attended weddings and so on………and for
me personally he had a chance to meet my wife Melanie and join in on our
Wedding – that meant a lot to me. Dave touched a lot of people in his short (but
full) life and I know that he would want us to keep fighting too. It’s fair to say a little piece of me will leave
with Bonsai Dave today…………and when people ask me if I am going
to miss Dave……my answer will be no…….because a bigger piece of
him has stayed with me……….. My way of dealing with the loss is to not forget
about Dave, but to remember him as …..…Bonsai Dave…… my snooker
buddy.. ….my best friend…. and most of
all……………………………….my soul mate. |