Asexuality - Page 5

GalaxyAngel · Yesterday, 03:23 PM

I understand now...

What Liebling's pov.. wasn't refer about negivate remarks to anyone..

She wanted to throw as condiser "Helping tip ideas" as suggestion box..
She thought like to help giving you ideas... As Can you try pay visit the doctor and to see anything problem w/Asexuality feeling insecure youself..
If you feel can't fix.. that okay I understand.. as long you feel comfy without sex drive... No problem.. your choice.. wasn't refer about GAY issues..

Just seprate feelings btwn about gay or asexuality.

She would to learn about this asexualitiy..
I suggest you anyone don't tell her.. you don't know about asexuality.. sound rude.. but Just "asking". Why can't Liebling allow curiouisty or asking...?

Is that allowed ?

am I allowed to ask... or curiouisty question anyone who have... I would love to curiouis and learn about different things... Is that good benefits for everyone share feedbacks.. If you don't like it.. that's fine by me then your mind business....

SxyPorkie · Yesterday, 06:39 PM

I do believe that some people was born asexual... same with gay or lesbian... I had two pets .. they were asexual... My teacup poodle (female) had no interesting of mating... even tho she had heats... I tried to get her breeding.. Failed!!! no interest in male dogs at all... she passed away virgin.. as for my young cat (male) got horny and tried to screw on other male cat.. other cat just laid down and ignored him... i took off from the back of other cat.. i looked and found his weewee were sticking out and hard on...
SxyPorkie

Oceanbreeze · Yesterday, 07:45 PM

Thank you. At least, you don't insinuate that it's abnormal, and it's something that needs to be fixed.

gnulinuxman · Yesterday, 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Liebling:-)))

I only responsed FelixKat930´s thread because it´s HER who ASK us question and also feedback as well in general way. I can´t see the sense why some of you are being offend because FelixKat930 ask us question or for our feedback in general. *shake my head*

FelixKat930 doesn't believe asexuality is real. She told me that herself. So I know that she posted this thread to see if anyone believes that it's real. Look at the way she worded her post. That's why I'm mad at her.

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Originally Posted by Liebling:-)))

Yes, that´s right. It´s mainly important is they are happy what they are... If not, then is different story...

Many people suffer asexual and want to know about themselves why they lost their sexual desires because they want to save their marriage or relationships... They goes to doctor for help... Some people not, because they are happy what they are.

Asexuality is NOT the loss of a desire for sex. Asexuality is just the absence of a sexual desire. Visit Asexual Visibility and Education Network - Home for more information.

Would you get offended if I said you were suffering from deafness? From what I've read, you seem very contented with being deaf. I feel the same way about being asexual: I'm quite happy with it.

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Originally Posted by Liebling:-)))

Some people, I had share with in my real life - want to get the help because they feel that they need to be fix then go to doctor. The reason, I posted here because I know from them and what they have feeling. I admire them for that because they do anything for their own future. I respect the people who refused to get the help because they are adult and know what they doing.

If someone wants to go to the doctor and talk to them, that is the person's decision. It is inappropriate to suggest going to the doctor for it, just as it would be if someone told a gay or bisexual person to go to the doctor like that.

Or what if I said "Maybe you need to go to get a cochlear implant?" upon finding out you were deaf? I don't say that because I know a lot of deaf people would find that offensive. Why treat anyone else that way?

FelixKat930 · Yesterday, 08:46 PM

I do believe it's real. I am asking what is their opinion about it.. it has nothing to do with you!

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Originally Posted by gnulinuxman

FelixKat930 doesn't believe asexuality is real. She told me that herself. So I know that she posted this thread to see if anyone believes that it's real. Look at the way she worded her post. That's why I'm mad at her.
Asexuality is NOT the loss of a desire for sex. Asexuality is just the absence of a sexual desire. Visit Asexual Visibility and Education Network - Home for more information.

Would you get offended if I said you were suffering from deafness? From what I've read, you seem very contented with being deaf. I feel the same way about being asexual: I'm quite happy with it.If someone wants to go to the doctor and talk to them, that is the person's decision. It is inappropriate to suggest going to the doctor for it, just as it would be if someone told a gay or bisexual person to go to the doctor like that.

Or what if I said "Maybe you need to go to get a cochlear implant?" upon finding out you were deaf? I don't say that because I know a lot of deaf people would find that offensive. Why treat anyone else that way?

Boult · Yesterday, 08:50 PM

Wow from my experience in high school studying Biology, I have learned that some animals that don't need opposite sex to reproduce are called asexual ( Asexual reproduction - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia ) back in 80's and no one mentioned or applied asexual to human race till now! egad!

now that I have read up on Asexuality ( Asexuality - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia ) Interesting and I am not one... I am heterosexual through and through...

gnulinuxman · Yesterday, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by CyberRed

[color="DarkRed"]Hey GLM --

Suppose, if there's a woman who falls in love with you and would love to have a child from you, will you give her a child through sexual intercourse ( makin' love ) ?

The phrase "making love" is offensive to me because love does NOT equal sex.

And if a woman wanted sex from me, I will not give her any, and I'd most likely abandon her, just like I did with {Mod Edit: name removed} when she got that way. I want to date an asexual girl who doesn't want children. (Yes, they do exist, and I know a few.)

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Originally Posted by CyberRed

I am tryin' to understand small things like this, because I know for one that you would date or things like that such as romance - but, what about havin' a family of your own in the near future ? That's somethin' I couldn't understand. :-\ Are you thinkin' of adoptin' one or what ?

What part of "I don't want children and I'm happy with who I am" is unclear to you? Not everyone on this planet wants children. Parenting is a tough job. Some of us just don't want to have the burden, others just don't like the idea of having children. I am asexual because I was always this way, and I don't feel the least bit deprived. Anyone who wants sex, whether or not they're getting any, isn't an asexual. Because we don't want sex, we don't feel deprived.

Just like deaf people who don't want cochlear implants. Do deaf people who don't want CIs feel deprived of sound? No. So why are so many people seeming to think I'm somehow feeling deprived of sex?

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Originally Posted by CyberRed

Since you are livin' on this earth -- may I ask WHO will look after you when you reach the age of 60, 70 or 80 years since you are asexual - no child to be given without sexual intercourse ? I know most of the children ( grown up ) will look after their parents when agin'. It's common nowdays.

I don't really care. I have plenty of friends, and as far as I'm concerned, that is what matters.

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Originally Posted by Your Mom

You know plenty of people who have sex decide to never have children, I hope that I wouldnt need someone to look after me at the young age of 60, however if I get to the age where I find my self needing some sort of help, I hope to have a wife, friends, i have a brother, i am sure my brother will have children. Plenty of extended family.

Tonnnns of people dont have children, sexual or asexual.

You're absolutely right, Your Mom.

Shadow girl · Yesterday, 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by gnulinuxman

The phrase "making love" is offensive to me because love does NOT equal sex.What part of "I don't want children and I'm happy with who I am" is unclear to you? Not everyone on this planet wants children. Parenting is a tough job. Some of us just don't want to have the burden, others just don't like the idea of having children. I am asexual because I was always this way, and I don't feel the least bit deprived. Anyone who wants sex, whether or not they're getting any, isn't an asexual. Because we don't want sex, we don't feel deprived.

Just like deaf people who don't want cochlear implants. Do deaf people who don't want CIs feel deprived of sound? No. So why are so many people seeming to think I'm somehow feeling deprived of sex?I don't really care. I have plenty of friends, and as far as I'm concerned, that is what matters.

You're absolutely right, Your Mom.

I totally agree I'm asexual as well and couldn't have said it better myself. So tell it like it is.

gnulinuxman · Yesterday, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by FelixKat930

I do believe it's real. I am asking what is their opinion about it.. it has nothing to do with you!

That is NOT what you, {Mod Edit: Names removed}.. told me on AIM. Why did you post this thread only after finding out I was asexual then?

It's very rude to ask people's opinions on a subject that most people don't believe is possible, since you are very sexual yourself.

Shadow girl · Yesterday, 10:25 PM

He's right you know. Maybe your just taking out your own insecurity on this poor asexual because you just don't know how to express it.

FelixKat930 · Yesterday, 10:26 PM

So? I am sexual myself but it doesn't mean that I want to learn about asexual.. people are always curious and wants to learn more!! And again.. I did not tell you on aim and keep it out of AD.. its against the rules to mention our names here! And no its not rude to ask.. and if you don't like it then leave!

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Originally Posted by gnulinuxman

That is NOT what you, {Mod Edit: names removed} told me on AIM. Why did you post this thread only after finding out I was asexual then?

It's very rude to ask people's opinions on a subject that most people don't believe is possible, since you are very sexual yourself.

FelixKat930 · Yesterday, 10:27 PM

You don't know me so STFU!

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Originally Posted by Shadow girl

He's right you know. Maybe your just taking out your own insecurity on this poor asexual because you just don't know how to express it.

gnulinuxman · Yesterday, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by FelixKat930

So? I am sexual myself but it doesn't mean that I want to learn about asexual.. people are always curious and wants to learn more!! And again.. I did not tell you on aim and keep it out of AD.. its against the rules to mention our names here! And no its not rude to ask.. and if you don't like it then leave!

Since when are you the admin of AllDeaf? Do you pay the bills? Do you run the site?

And are you aware that you, your husband, and my ex all revealed your names here anyway, so I'm not the one who revealed them.

And if you wanted to learn about asexuality, research it before posting, or ask for links for information, not opinions.

Because frankly, this does NOT look like a request for information:

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Originally Posted by FelixKat930

Asexualitiy means.. a person who have no desire for sex and have no sex drive.

What you guys think about that?

The way you worded it looked very know-it-all-ish.

Shadow girl · Yesterday, 10:30 PM

Course I do I think I once saw you on some reality show called What's it to you?

Sweetheart · Yesterday, 10:30 PM

gnulinuxman and Shadow girl,

Please stop being rude. That's FelixKat360's thread, so please respect her. And, that's not VERY right for you to being like that way and use people's name because it's very wrong, you have to ask someone's permission to use that. And, RoadRunner already said in his post in here to telling you guys and people to be gentle and dicussion about Asexuality. People have A RIGHT to curious about everything and learn about everything, because everyday always have new something to learn. There will never STOP to learning. Please back off if you aren't pleasure with this thread, THEN LEAVE IT ALONE. And thanks.

gnulinuxman · Yesterday, 10:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweetheart

gnulinuxman and Shadow girl,

Please stop being rude. That's FelixKat360's thread, so please respect her. And, that's not VERY right for you to being like that way and use people's name because it's very wrong, you have to ask someone's permission to use that. And, RoadRunner already said in his post in here to telling you guys and people to be gentle and dicussion about Asexuality. People have A RIGHT to curious about everything and learn about everything, because everyday always have new something to learn. There will never STOP to learning. Please back off if you aren't pleasure with this thread, THEN LEAVE IT ALONE. And thanks.

Excuse me, but in case you haven't noticed, we (Shadow girl and me) are asexual and people like us are the topic of this thread.

It's not that we think that this discussion is a bad topic, but the problem is that she has a very snobby attitude when it comes to asexuality. It may be her thread, but that does NOT mean that she is right about anything or that she started this with a good attitude.

***Roadrunner*** · Yesterday, 10:41 PM

Mod Note:

I believe it's time to close this thread up for the time being...to let things cool down--perhaps, then the thread will be re-opened.

~RR

Yesterday, 03:23 PM	#81 (permalink)
GalaxyAngel Fusterate-Animation bytes Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Ontario,Canada Posts: 10,164	I understand now... What Liebling's pov.. wasn't refer about negivate remarks to anyone.. She wanted to throw as condiser "Helping tip ideas" as suggestion box.. She thought like to help giving you ideas... As Can you try pay visit the doctor and to see anything problem w/Asexuality feeling insecure youself.. If you feel can't fix.. that okay I understand.. as long you feel comfy without sex drive... No problem.. your choice.. wasn't refer about GAY issues.. Just seprate feelings btwn about gay or asexuality. She would to learn about this asexualitiy.. I suggest you anyone don't tell her.. you don't know about asexuality.. sound rude.. but Just "asking". Why can't Liebling allow curiouisty or asking...? Is that allowed ? am I allowed to ask... or curiouisty question anyone who have... I would love to curiouis and learn about different things... Is that good benefits for everyone share feedbacks.. If you don't like it.. that's fine by me then your mind business.... __________________ His hair spikes up because he got BANNED!

Yesterday, 06:39 PM	#82 (permalink)
SxyPorkie SxyPorkie Join Date: May 2006 Location: Southern California Posts: 690	I do believe that some people was born asexual... same with gay or lesbian... I had two pets .. they were asexual... My teacup poodle (female) had no interesting of mating... even tho she had heats... I tried to get her breeding.. Failed!!! no interest in male dogs at all... she passed away virgin.. as for my young cat (male) got horny and tried to screw on other male cat.. other cat just laid down and ignored him... i took off from the back of other cat.. i looked and found his weewee were sticking out and hard on... SxyPorkie __________________ Life Goes On!!

Yesterday, 07:45 PM	#83 (permalink)
Oceanbreeze Take that! Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: S. FL Posts: 4,307	Thank you. At least, you don't insinuate that it's abnormal, and it's something that needs to be fixed. __________________ "Those who go in the deep end of the pool think they can swim, until they realize 'Shit, where are my water wings' "

Yesterday, 10:30 PM	#95 (permalink)
Sweetheart Sequoias' Sweetheart Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Washington state Posts: 5,541	gnulinuxman and Shadow girl, Please stop being rude. That's FelixKat360's thread, so please respect her. And, that's not VERY right for you to being like that way and use people's name because it's very wrong, you have to ask someone's permission to use that. And, RoadRunner already said in his post in here to telling you guys and people to be gentle and dicussion about Asexuality. People have A RIGHT to curious about everything and learn about everything, because everyday always have new something to learn. There will never STOP to learning. Please back off if you aren't pleasure with this thread, THEN LEAVE IT ALONE. And thanks. __________________ Sequoias' and my one year anniversary

Yesterday, 10:41 PM	#97 (permalink)
*Roadrunner* Super Moderator Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 3,826	Mod Note: I believe it's time to close this thread up for the time being...to let things cool down--perhaps, then the thread will be re-opened. ~RR __________________

Yesterday, 10:25 PM	#90 (permalink)
Shadow girl Registered User Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 4	He's right you know. Maybe your just taking out your own insecurity on this poor asexual because you just don't know how to express it.

Yesterday, 10:30 PM	#94 (permalink)
Shadow girl Registered User Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 4	Course I do I think I once saw you on some reality show called What's it to you?