Love Questions
Why are guyz such jerks? There's a boy at church
who i've liked for a long time. When we're talking alone he acts like he
likes me too. But when his friend comes around, he acts so messed up!
Then when his friend leaves, he tells me that they're not friends! What
if does he same to me? It's confusing me! What do i do?
~McKenzie 13

Maybe he doesn't want his friend to know he likes you.  Or maybe he's just trying to be the "cool guy" you know acting like he doesn't care when he really does and is kind of trying to impress you.  You could try talking about it with him.  Ask him why he acts so messed up when his friends around. No one deserves to be treated like that.  Hopefully he'll have a good explanation. Good luck!

luv, mia


Hi, when you have a crush on someone and do all the
crazy stuff (prank calling, etc) because you assume you will never have
to meet them in person anyway, and then you realize you have a chance
with them because your friends know him, would you still go for it, or
should you save yourself the embarassment?
Really nice site by the way.
-Lana


I'd go for it.  Anyway if he knows you were doing the pranks then just laugh at it.  You wouldn't want to just give up on what could happen between you two just because of a few pranks.  He might even find it funny or daring or something.  don't be afraid to laugh at yourself it'll make everything much easier.  Plus he might be happy that you prank called him cuz guys can be weird that way they like take as a compliment. I hope everything works out for you and i'm glad you like the site!

luv, Mia
I have been like in LOVE with this guy named steve. i'm going into 8th grade this year and he is going into 10th. we talk sometimes and i have loved him for about 2
years now.  he knows i like him and he said we will hook up when i get
to 9th grade. i can't wait that long!!!! And he has a girlfriend! i
know he likes me somehow. and hes soo sweet. i never stop thinking about
him. I don't want to go out with other guys before 9th grade either!
what should i do about this strong feeling for steve?
-Abby


Well abby, love has no boundries but thats quite an age gap! Before you do anything to drastic, make sure his feelings for you are the same! you need to meet new boys, obvioiusly steve thinks that he can date other people, so what is stopping you? You might just find someone else better! I don't think you should say to much about it because his g/f might not like that. Just remember not to get to much over your head and don't just focus on Steve, try to forget about it and the year you have been waiting for will come before you know it! Good luck!
There's this guy named Micheal who lives in
Indiana. He came down to Georgia to visit his family. He told my cousin that
he kind of likes me. I like him too. The only problem is that he's my
cousin's stepbrother and that's just creepy!
What should I do?


Well he is only his step brother, but maybe you should take a second look at this situation, i mean, do you really want to date someone who is practically your cousin, even if he's just your cousins stepbrother he's still your cousin.when you introduce him to people do you want to say he's my cousin, and my bf.i think it is better to find someone you are not related to, to date but this is your choice.although my opinion is not to go along with it.good luck!
-Fatim
My parents won't let me date till i'm sixteen.  I
turned 15 in april.  Theybase their rules on what other kids do. I was wondering if you had any ideas on how to get them to let me date.  The guy i like is so sweet.  And they know him to.

Hey! Believe me I know how you feel but it isn't the end of the world, even though it feels like it now! if your parents aren't ready for you to have this relationship, then it won't help if you aggervate them! Try going on "group dates", bring a couple of friends and have a couple of boys meet you at the movies or somewhere fun and just  hang out. Talk to your parents about what OTHER kids aren't doing and what you think about that. Let your parents stay by ya'll, but not 2-2 close! Sooner or Later, hopefully sooner, they will realize how responsible and learn to trust you more! But, you have to be patient! "Good things come in time." If things go good, expect more freedom, progressively. Don't worry, be happy! :

Good Luck and thanx 4 submitting!

Amber
This weekend I was hangin wit my gurls and some guys at this dance, I danced wit Vince and he pulled me right against him, he would walk around with his arms around my stomach, or his arms around me, we were really flirty but he was flirty wit my friend too. Today he didn�t talk to me, even though this weekend he acted like he really liked me? What do you think I should do? Does he like me and hes just scared wut his friends will do? Im so confused

Guys, yes, they are very confusing people.  You need to give him an ultimatum.  He can't keep playing your emotions like that.  I think that it's a posibility that he cares what his friends think but that is very unlikely .  If you think that he likes you, flirt back, you might even want to tell one of your freinds (that you trust) that you like the guy.  She could tell him very subltly that you have feelings for him in that way, if he likes you he will probobly ask you out.  It sounds like he likes you the way that you decribed how he flirted!  He might be torn  between you and your freind but some good advice is : Dont ever sacrifice a freindship for a guy, you will regret it, I guarentee it!
Good Luck
-Brooke
Who can I like?? there are like no cute ppl at my school.
-helplessly not in love


Ok, first of all, consider yourself lucky!  ya know what guys do?  They break your heart and make you cry!  Sound nice? Depending on how old you are I don�t think that you should get desperate!
If your 12-16:
Girl this is the fun time. Chill off worrying about guys! You have PLENTY of time! Guys are great�.sure�.but your girls are still there!
*love will come with time!*
-Brooke
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