| Fighting ourselves It was a day when I was really troubled, due to some choices I had to make. I say troubled as both of them seemed as the right actions to take at that time...I couldn't make any choice and I was trying to make a balance reaching a point when I was really fighting myself - blaming my own person for not doing thing no1., when I adopted the no. 2 alternative. After about an hour, the same day, maybe as a coincidence, which I think not, I was reading about NLP. Neurolinguistic programming has a couple of principles, or prejudices, which form the foundation of all constructions and applications.One of them says that "Every choice that we make has a good intention behind it" and " We all make the right choices". As striking as this may seem to you, when you come to think of it, it's exactly like that. At that moment, when you make the decision, you reason according to your judgements and things that are important for you. It doesn't matter whether the result of the decision, was not the one you hoped for, your decision was right according to your priorities and mind. patterns. Also, at the same time, everything is a matter of choice. No one forces us to leave earlier, be late, fail an exam or succeed in our business. It's all a matter of choice. WE CHOOSE not to leave 5 minutes earlier to be in time, or to prepare and work to conquer new markets...WE CHOOSE! When I came to realize this, I really felt relief. I knew the fact that the decision, the choice that I made was the right one and the best for me. Reality proved it afterwards. So, ...whatever you might choose, it is the right decision for you. LEarn to trust them,...all the way; as thay are your choices, which shape your life. IT IS YOU who has chosed it and you are accountable for it. For and overview of NLP's principles/paradigms click here. |
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