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Why So much Hate of Homosexuals? 19/12/2006
Homophobia

I have been cruising blogs; simple thing when you have a crawler like google alerts doing it for you. One thing that I have been struck with is that even if there may be a homosexual agenda out there (ahem, I am gay, but I am not yet convinced of that!), there is no doubt, at least to me, that there is a definite homophobic agenda out there. What unites is homophobia. And that is the rallying call. But why? The ordinary person in the street is not really hate filled. I mean, a thief will be lynched in Kampala if the police do not get to him fast enough, but not a homosexual. And the average Ugandan may gossip about so and so being homosexual, but they will not get out there to do something about it. Until they are put to it by some people who are really convinced that homosexuality is something that is so evil that it must be protested. A sin worse than any other.



When the SA parliament legalized same sex marriage, it was something barely on the radar for most Ugandans. There were a few letters in the press condemning it, much talk and laughter and gossip, in a by-the-way kind of interest. And of course then Pastor Sempa went on his demonstration to the SA High Commission in Kampala, advocating a boycott of South African trade because they had passed a law legalizing same sex marriage.

Of course Sempa would say that he is not a hating kind of person, but he is the epitome of those who hold the view that homosexuality and homosexuals are a clear and present danger, and need to be confronted with weapons of mass destruction.



Is it hate?

What can I call it? Agape news advocates for children in school not to be defended if they are thought to be gay and bullied. I cannot imagine someone in his senses advocating for bullying like so, because I do have a horror of the hate that children can visit on one another. But someone with that power in his world goes out of his way to say that that is fine?

A politician has to pass the 'litmus' test of being anti-homosexual.

Archbishop Akinola of Nigeria is another interesting hater. Of course to him it is not hate; and I sincerely would not say that he should not exclude us gay people from his religion. That is what religion is; it is always an exclusive club, however one may think of it. But going to the extent of supporting a law that makes it a crime for two gay people to meet anywhere in Nigeria, and impossible for anyone to meet a gay person is extreme. He intimates that gay people are so bad that they should not be. They have no right to live, to be, to say they are. The only place they can be in Nigeria is in prison. Period.

So, is that hate or not?

Of course, such a single issue policy has interesting results. One just does not know how to deal with a person who is ambiguous. Who does not seem to fall in one camp or the other. Who will not hate just like you, and chastises you for your hate, calling it what it is.

That is what had me thinking on the subject of hate; a blog post from someone who is a Christian and is asking Christians why they are hating homosexuals. It is instructive; check out this gentlemans post here.



gug







2006-12-19 10:18:31 GMT
Comments (2 total)
Author:Anonymous
If we Africans are to develop as Africans in an African society, such development will have to follow the route which all other successfully developing societies, outside the West, have followed. Africans will have to trust their own genius and adapt modern, Western rationality and secularism, into an overwhelmingly African socio-cultural base.

Africans for centuries lived predominantly in harmony with the members of their societies who were preferentially same-sex inclined. We must seek to remain faithful to ourselves, speak for ourselves and act single-mindedly in our enlightened self-interest. We must detatch ourselves from such alien notions as homophobia, which have been reinforced in our conscoiusness by religious beliefs that are alien to our societies and therefore our continent. The Christian matyrs of Buganda are heralded today, but hardly anything is said of the fact that their objection to the Kabaka's sexual advances was based on their then new-found Christian (and therefore alien) religion.

The main reason why we remain stalled in underdevelopment and reconstructed colonialism is that, we have too easily accepted the ideas and idiosyncrasies of the Western world and the Middle East (in the case of our Islamic brethren). And in our resulting confusion, uncertainty and disunity in all spheres of social life, we are blinkered in our strategic vision. Besides, our awareness of ourselves as a group is fettered.

What I don't understand is why we cannot now come to terms with the fact that homophobia is wrong, following the example of the very same people (the Western world), from whom we acquired it in the first place. Before the arrival of Europeans on our shores, our ancestors had the wisdom to appreciate that nature in its diverity created each person as an individual, and that it was inevitable that there would be those whose sexual proclivities would differ from those of the majority. We seem to have become stuck with archaic ideas which were sold to our great, great grandfathers by aspiring missionaries and colonialists, about 2 centuries ago, but we have now failed and/or refused to note that the descendants of those very missionaries have since discarded such ignorant ideas, and moved on. Just as our ancestors made the horrid mistake of buying the Europeans' puritanistic homophobia, we are in our times making an even bigger mistake in not accepting that we have been wrong about homosexuality, and that the time has come to make amends.
--Bunjo
2006-12-23 12:54:21 GMT
Author:gug
Uuuuugh.
Tough one to answer. We didn't know it was wrong, now we have embraced that it is wrong, and are preaching how wrong it is to our former teachers! Sounds familiar?

But a puzzling fact. Do you think our leaders are just taking advantage of the chance to curve themselves a niche as 'leaders' on the international scene? I think that Akinola, and Orombi have got a lot of international kudos for the preaching of homophobia.
A friend interviewed Dr (Bishop) Ssenyonjo recently, and came back saying that the old gentleman has a good grasp of sexuality. That is something which I have not been able to sense of Akinola and the rest. They simply do not know the basics of sexuality, apart from heterosexual is right and all the rest sin. Period.
Anyway, way to go for us to reject homophobia. And it is our leaders who are making it such a big deal. Otherwise most people on the street, it is nothing.

gug
2006-12-24 11:53:37 GMT

 

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