My Journey To Life
Don't doubt yourself if you're not the best; doubt yourself only if you did not do your best.
Entry for December 20, 2005
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The Essence of a Woman
 
The essence of woman comes  in what she possess naturally and in how she handles life . The most important  questions in life can never be answered by anyone except oneself. A woman blooms into a great person if she knows  how to carry on herself  and it carries great responsiblity not only to society we are in but in the world we evolve. There are certain aspects in life that woman face  easily  than man, but on the  contrary we need to respect sort of things woman can do and man can not and vice versa.
Undeniably, the essence of woman comes at the time she get pregnant and at the time she deliver a baby, I believe that u cant be a totally grown up woman if u dont experienced such things like child bearing because it is  actually what made you a very important individual.
Being a mother isnt simply a matter of having children because it requires great responsibilty and duty. Its mother  who knows best.But you  only know if u are best mother ,if you are a good woman.It is not life that matters, its the courage you bring in it.
Sometimes the society we live in cant comprehend the kind of way we want to walk in, oftentimes, people tend to prejudged you the way they see you from head to foot and sometimes in your status in life, then morality   are discussed  as if  it is a main fact, but i dont think it is..mostly people are pretentious   they tend to shake us by speaking morals but anyway Morality is simply the attitude we adopt toward people we dont personally like. That is why we judge people  in our own accord which is wrong because we dont have the right to do so.
Being a woman, You must take control of yourself..I know there are few who dont have guts to decide on their own, just have courage, dont let someone intimidate you because you think he or she is greater than you.Being less fortunate is not the hindrance to express yourself towards the things you need expressing, towards the things you want exploring, learning, and making the most out of it.Money is a stupid measure of achievement, but unluckily it is only universal measure we have.
Just believe in your power , because a woman has its complete components to excel.Believe me ,we have a substantial power to make it!! Just dont be threaten if sometimes we fail but it doesnt mean we need to stop,  but clearly it emphasize that we need to move on and we dont need to repeat the same mistake from the past. Be sure that  you know what is the essence in YOU. 
 
2005-12-20 01:41:14 GMT
Comments (3 total)
Author:joeashworthe
That was beautiful Athena. So deep in thought that I had to read it several times to get it all down in my head. I agree with you about being a mother and how it matures a girl to a woman. Bringing out the essence of the woman that is either there or not. I admire a woman that has been through this trial. To me, a woman that decides to not have children when she can is selfish and self-centered and no matter how she looks, does not interest me at all.
2005-12-20 04:45:49 GMT
Author:happy_pumpster
you have great pix hon
2005-12-24 16:10:20 GMT
Author:happy_pumpster
you have great pix hon
2005-12-24 16:10:26 GMT


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