My Journey To Life
Don't doubt yourself if you're not the best; doubt yourself only if you did not do your best.
Entry for December 13, 2005
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I have a story to tell you..its about a lady who is not just alone but also lonely and lonesome.It was happen just 5 days ago where I meddle and stand for what i believe was  proper to do.It was 6 in the evening where someone approached and entered  my house, at first i wasnt able to recognized her because  she looked miserable.She was crying and i gave  hug to comfort her.When she felt relaxed i let her tell the side of story and i was aghast when i saw her with all the black spots on her side arms. At the age of 29 she is longing  to be loved and unexpectedly,  she fall in love in wrong place, time and person.Lets say the man she fall in love with was a man wanted by the law, a man with 4 kids and many girlfriends.Those are the reasons why her parents, brothers, relatives against the love affair she had with the man .Shes a good businesswoman, and im one of her customer and thats why i know part of her.She is also an epileptic and  always have a nervous breakdown. 

After listening her, i gave her piece  of advise..I told her To follow her hearts desire..no matter  what happens she is responsible for her  action.I understand why she was scared to disobey her family but as a mother, i believed that  no parents  have the right to interfere  any problem of their  children especially in the problem of heart, because we cant dictate them to feel the same way we feel and besides children have no obligation to their parents because they dont ask  to be brought in these  world.Moreover, i told her if she  thinks something will make her happy then she must go for it! So she leaves with a smile in her face and im so happy for her.

But Alas!! one noon, i was going down for a lunch when i saw her again, my sister and mother gave her a chair to sit down but when i saw her i was very surprise because i can see frm her eyes that she almost lost her sanity.Her eyes look at me and its blank..she was shaking, she was crying and  i asked her what happened? The only reaction i got was a blank look. So i was in hurry to went out and go to her parents and i saw her father sitting and i was so upset and telling him ..to leave her daughter alone for what she wants to do for her life.I let him  choose..to see her going crazy or to let her enjoy first and look healthy. After a short moment i was relax after feeling angry and he  explain to me about their sides .So i told him that i will go the the person whom his  daughter was in love with and ask about his feelings. Because if they love each other i dont care if they will angry at me, i will find way to have them married even if i stand as witness without their consent.

I am a person that dont waste time if i want a result right away, so i went and i talked to that man with his "Bosses" So i find out that her parents are right to stop  her for loving that man.But  i still stick to my principle that if true love comes, it keeps no records of wrongs, it accept the imperfections of a person. so i decided that if  she cant stop loving him and i cant do anything no matter how i advised her then  i let her follow her  heart.So,  I talked to her from my heart and im so glad she listened  to me..maybe some words  were nice to hear and i can feel she was  satisfied of my explaination.

I told her, there are some things that we never want to let go, of people we never want to left behind but letting go is not the end of the world. its a start of new life.We  cant ask it to stay,  we can only embrace it as it comes and be glad that for a moment in our life it was ours. True Love always find way..if it is meant to be then time will tell and it happens for a reason.

I saw her yesterday and i can see from  her face the glow and  the hope for life.i feel very much fulfilled of the things i done to her because in my own little way i able to reach out the lives of others. I know its easy to solve anyones problem than solving your own, yet  i am so happy and contented  to see someone wants to start anew because  they learn from you.with every decison we make, we initiate change.Even when we decide not to decide , life still goes on. and changesstill occur.The timepiece of life never stops. as the time pushes forward we take new steps face new challenges and create new oppurtunities.Time heals all broken hearts although the scar remains at least we will get reminded that once in our life we been through trials and tribulations  and we survive. So all we need to do is to DREAM, to BELIEVE and to SURVIVE.

  

2005-12-14 09:14:24 GMT


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