Happy Birthday Heidi ..today marks another milestone in your life.. You are adding another year of life full of struggle yet it will help you to be a better person. I know you have a bad married life, i have too and we are on the same boat but we deal with it in different way. Dont let emotions overule you..it will make u defeated in every life problems you face. As you told me I am very strong person but for me you are too. We both face the same kind of problems but in different forms and angles however, the context of it are the same and still its life.
Dont regret that it happens to you instead be happy because for 15 yrs of marraige you able to surpass the trials and obstacles that hinder in your way. You done your best ..You might failed as wife but you are the best mother to your kids. Your husband doesnt deserve you and she doesnt deserves your tears. You done nothing bad to your relationship because you gave all your best to him and your whole life, He was not contented with you and worst of all he loved another woman and what was painful then was he replaced you with another filipina
Maybe you contributed small factors that your relationship didnt work as you expected, but dont let it bother you.Just think that your only fault is loving him so much that you forget even yourself. Dont blame yourself and dont cry over the spilt milk, make another one!! As you travel into the world of make believe..you need to look ahead of you, dont look back in your past because it will not help you moved on.
Happiness is a journey , it is not a destination, so work like you dont need money, love like you never been hurt. Remember that time waits for no one. Your life will always be filled with challenges. It is best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy. Anyway, happiness is the way.The truth is there is no better time to be happy than right now.If not now..When?
I have been told like this...................
u write beautiful words on ur blog, now u must practice what u write....give ur heart to a man, u have to make sacrifice to get true love....
Its quite challenging to hear some comments like this..I dont look at it as negative criticism but i look at it positively to help me make decision. Some people has its right to share his or her thoughts with you or me. It help us somehow in our life. there are people who can touch our lives positively or negatively but think of it as a challenge.
In your case..you are drowning because you are looking for someone who can help you forget your pains and heartaches cause by lost love. But look what happen when you first tried? it hurts you more because you expected too much for the person to make you happy.You dont take life lightly that is why you think no one stood behind you, no one cares for you and you think we dont care at all because we are too far from you. God knows how much i prayed for your happiness. I prayed that you can cope up your problems that i even dont pray my own problems.We do care about you.Dont think that we dont care because we really do . I dont chat to you like before because I wanted you to face your own problems. I try to listen to you before, I gave you advices, i gave you people to talk to, to show how much i care and its the only best thing i can do for you. We all love you here..Someday soon i want us all reunited. But i know it will take us time.
Dont give up..somtimes i felt that i wanted to, but i think about people who love us. The people who cares and really love truly without conditions.You have to understand things first before you can understand others.Deal with it..I am sure u can make it. when you drift in thoughts feeling alone and you wonder just how you get by, when you see no hope as new day dawns and the emptiness seems to consume , when you lost your way down the road of life and the shadows seem to be loom , remember your family here in the Philippines that love you and care for you.
We love you!! happy Birthday from all of us here!!!
